Late Wedding – Chapter 13 – Wedding Ring

Chapter 13 – Wedding Ring

A wedding ring is a ring worn by both men and women after marriage to express their love for each other and the determination of their marriage relationship. When a man and a woman get married because of their hot love, they are willing to stay together forever, and the ring is a testimony of this life and death contract, so the wedding ring is also regarded as the guardian of the “marriage”. In this sense, it is necessary to give a wedding ring because it is a tangible guardian of marriage.

When Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother returned to the hotel, they did not see Man Man in person. But, needless to say, just like that kind of mother and aunt. . . . . . . .

“The first offer of 80,000 yuan, 100 tables of banquets.” Mother Jiang felt funnier as she said. “It’s really golden daughter. If she wants to be a rich young lady, our family really can’t afford it.”

“Don’t say it!” Father Jiang was annoyed, and his son and himself were blinded.

Mother Jiang will accept it as soon as she sees it. Regarding how to take her son’s heart back from Man Man, she must negotiate with her husband: “I think you can call the army and ask the leader of the army to give our son the early leave.”

You can only make this move.

Father Jiang sighed. That night, the Jiang family returned to Beijing by plane.

The next day, Jiang Yan received a call from the army and was asked to return to the team early.

Be a soldier, there is no right to disobey this.

Jiang Yan packed up his clothes at the military guest house that day and prepared to take the express train back that afternoon. Time is running out, but he really wants to see Man Man, and he has something to say to her.

The most regrettable thing is that I didn’t let my parents meet her and taste the dishes she cooked in person. He believed that if his parents saw her with their own eyes and ate the food she cooked, they would be satisfied.

He Jiang Yan doesn’t need a beautiful and capable wife, only a gentle-tempered wife who can manage the house.

What you need most as a military wife is to be able to endure loneliness.

Man Man is the most suitable.

Before going to Man Man’s company, he called Chu Xia first.

He ran out of the company in a hurry, and when Chu Xia’ saw him, he asked, “you said on the phone that you are leaving? Didn’t you say you want to propose a marriage?”

“My parents are not here.” Jiang Yan also felt sorry, “Time is too tight, I can only wait for the next time.”

“When is the next time?” Chu Xia was faintly disturbed, not knowing how to fly again like this, right?

The cracked white teeth smiled cheerfully and brightly: “Don’t think about it. ——where is Man Man?”

Chu Xia put the ugly words on the front said: “I really have to say it. Man Man was too old to wait for someone who didn’t show up. As long as you are serious, I’ll call her out again.”

“Hey. I asked for marriage. Grandma Chu Xia.” Jiang Yan begged for Chu Xia with his grandparent. For fear that Chu Xia would not agree, he took out a black brocade box from his pocket, “Look, my wedding ring It’s all ready.”

Seeing this, Chu Xia stopped being suspicious, and went in and called Man Man, without telling Man Man that he was leaving, only that he was looking for something urgent.

Upon hearing the urgent matter, Man Man’s heart hung up and walked out wearing with a working apron.

The spring was bright, he stood under a peach blossom branch, with a long and elevated body, a natural clothes hanger, and his long light gray windbreaker only reached his knees. Looking at it this way, I think he is taller. Today, he put one hand in his trouser pocket, his thumb was exposed in the pocket, and the other hand was slightly close to the windbreaker. He is still handsome, and has more of a mature man’s charm than before.

“Man Man.” He smiled handsomely when he saw her coming.

Beauty is in the eyes of the lover.

In his eyes, she had a white and tender face and small glasses with big eyes. Not only was she not ugly, but she was also calm and gentle on the corners of her rose-red lips, and her slender posture inherently had an ancient beauty.

The slender legs stepped away, and two strides stood in front of her. The big hands couldn’t wait to grab one of her small hands and put the ring with the palm of the other hand on her ring finger.

Man Man is embarrassing, what is this? Did not say anything.

Immediately, and even more embarrassing, the size is obviously wrong. The silver ring hung up on her ring finger and immediately slid down again. The size is a full circle. It can be seen how small and tender her finger bones are.

The rough fingertips kneaded her watery fingers, and her heart was rippling for a moment, and she couldn’t bear to let go of anything, and her Adam’s apple was tumbling for two consecutive weeks.

“Jiang-Yan -” was the first time she called him by his name. Man Man blushed like a bright sun. “This is the company. Someone sees it.”

“What can they do if they see it? Last time I said I wanted to marry you in front of so many people.” The slightly tilted corner of his mouth has a hint of childish innocence and playfulness. He is still him and has not changed.

Ashamed, she lowered her head straight: “This ring is not suitable.”

“who said it’s inappropriate. I’ll go over and change it right away.” Jiang Yan tugged her fingers and the ring in his palm. He wouldn’t let go of anything she said.

“Hey. I’m at work.” Seeing him about to pull himself away, Man Man stopped and shouted.

By now, he had to tell the truth, his long eyebrows frowned and frowned, and he was helpless: “The troops called me, and I have to leave for Beijing in the afternoon.”

The heart was shaken, and the ripples that appeared circle after circle. It turned out to be so, so he rushed to buy her a ring.

Seeing her suddenly silent, he became anxious and frightened: “Don’t worry. After I go back, I will come back to pick you up as soon as I find a chance to ask for leave. This time I will bring my parents to see you. Anyway, I have a marriage proposal and give you the ring and the ring was worn by you, and they couldn’t do anything to us.”

To be honest, she had never doubted his sincerity, only looking at his bright and moving eyes, everything was clearly written in his eyes. The eyes are the window of the soul. She can trust every word of him.

It’s time to summon up your courage.

The little hand broke his fingers and grabbed the ring back into his palm. Warm little lips smiled into a bright arc: “Okay. I’ll wait for you.”

Excited, it seemed to stretch from his heart to his limbs in circles, his fingertips trembled, and his lips licked and licked: “Man Man, I want to hug you.”

Hug? Subconsciously looking left and right, I didn’t see anyone, and my little head nodded.

He had been waiting for too long at this moment. She just nodded, and his two big arms went up, and one of his long arms was only half-length, which could encircle her small body into his own arms.

He was too strong, she was caught off guard, her head hit his chest in a straight line, her eyes flashed for a while, and when she remembered that she was still wearing a dirty apron, she whispered: “Dirty–“

“What’s dirty! You are full of incense.“ To prove this, he drew on her hair and sucked it.

As a result, her face was stuck to his chest, under the silk shirt, and his strong and warm muscles made her skin thinner and tender. It was the most embarrassing thing to touch her two little hands where she didn’t know where to touch.

The wind blew warmly, she accompanied herself like a heartbeat that was about to sprout, Man Man thought, she will remember today for the rest of her life.

Jiang Yan regretted it when he left. He knew he didn’t ask for a hug, he should have asked for a kiss. Looking back, seeing her standing at the door, his heart ached and itchy, he wanted to go back, but the phone rang.

Watching him walk away, disappearing into the crowd little by little. Man Man’s eyes didn’t move, really wanting to freeze time at this moment.

“Man Man.” Chu Xia appeared on time, squeezing her hand.

“It’s okay. I believe him.” Man Man smiled, turned around, and went back to work neatly. As for the oversized silver ring, she treasured it in a cloth bag she sewed and carried it with her every day.

That night, he texted her on the train: I’m going back, remember to wait for me!

The rumbling train took away her lover…

CHAPTER 14 – GO SEE HIM

Late Wedding – Chapter 12 – I won’t wrong myself for getting married

Chapter 12 – I won’t wrong myself for getting married


“Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision about your own life that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You’re responsible for your own happiness. Anyone who wants you to live in misery for their happiness should not be in your life anyway.”
― Isaiah Hankel ―

Hearing Wen Shi Xuan’s scolding, Zhang Qiu Yan didn’t get angry at all, she just said to Xu Yu’e: “Sister-in-law, if you think it’s OK, persuade Man Man. Next time everyone dresses better and eats at Hua Sheng. I’m leaving now.”

Speaking of Hua Sheng, Xu Yu’e came back and pushed her husband’s shoulder: “You persuade Man Man.”

“How can I persuade?!” Wen Shi Xuan wanted to get angry, met his wife’s fierce eyes, and lost his voice, so he went into the kitchen to be an ostrich.

“Why is Dad like this? You don’t think about it for sister.” Yuan Yuan raised her eyebrows and said to her father’s back.

Man Man sat in the room, and she could hear everything outside. When the stepmother of a girl of the same age as her younger sister, she felt ashamed of herself.

The second aunt is vicious enough to make such a move.

Regardless of whether Man Man accepts it or not, Zhang Qiu Yan has done enough to be an auntie: You blame me and my husband for not contributing to the marriage of my niece, and now I introduce a good person with money, it is Man Man and you who do not want it.

Whether a girl is married well or not depends not on the other man’s appearance, but on the other’s man’s abilities. As for character, no one can guarantee the two things before and after marriage.

Secularity is a double-edged sword, which can strangle people to death like a rope.

Man Man was lying on the bed, looking at the ceiling. Her forehead was hot, her cheeks were hot, and her heart was cold. She finally realized that no matter how she struggled, she and her father would have no status in this family after all, because of a reality-no money!

Just like her mother said, can you get rid of yourself by marrying a rich man? Man Man saw it clearly and didn’t think so at all. The money belongs to the man, and the other party can even use the money to humiliate you. The maiden family has no money and power, so you can only treat you as the water poured out, how can the maiden family protect you.

The daughter’s home is cheap, especially the poor and incapable daughter’s home.

“Man Man, it’s time to eat.” Xu Yu’e’s call to her eldest daughter at the door was not much softer than usual.

Man Man got up, she tidied her clothes, combed her hair with a comb, and tidyed herself up before going out.

The door opened, and the family sat at the dinner table waiting for her.

Xu Yu’e had too many expectations in her eyes.

Yuan Yuan smiled happily. If there is a rich brother-in-law, she won’t have to worry about tuition in the future.

Wen Shi Xuan frowned.

Man Man sat down at the table and picked up the bowls and chopsticks: “Let’s eat. Let’s talk about it after dinner.”

Xu Yu’e forbearance, now Man Man is a hen who can lay golden eggs, she can’t be a tutor at every turn like before.

A family of four ate this meal silently, and the undercurrent was raging.

Just after dinner, Xu Yu’e couldn’t help it, urging her younger daughter to clean up the dinner table, and caught the elder daughter and asked, “Man Man, you give mom an answer, and mom has to rush to promise people.”

“Mom, Hua Sheng can’t fly. Besides, if Hua Sheng is gone, there are other better restaurants.” It is rare for Man Man not to close the table today and give his father tea after dinner.

For a while, she couldn’t hear the meaning of Man Man, and Xu Yu’e was stunned.

“Sister, there is no such store in this village after this. When are you going to drag it? Yuan Yuan received the bowl and chopsticks sonorously, worrying for herself and her mother.

After the little daughter reminded her, Xu Yu’e held Man Man: “What? Are you dissatisfied?”

“Mom, I’m not going to marry.” Man Man held her feet firmly.

“Why?” Xu Yu’e simply wanted to admire that she could still ask calmly at this moment.

“I will not wrong myself for getting married.”

Xu Yu’e instantly changed from a high-spirited hen to a piece of ice: “Okay. Do what you want. You have grown up, and Mom can’t control you so much.”

Yuanyuan raised her head when she heard her mother surrender easily, unbelievable: “Mom——”

“You talk less, quickly clean up the dinner table and go to study. Don’t be like your sister. After all, mom will go one step ahead of you. In the future, you will be alone in your next life, and there is no one to accompany you. Mom can’t help it. Mom did my best for you! “Xu Yu’e didn’t growl, a word seemed to bite out of the hate, and threw the door out.

She was implicated. Yuanyuan received all the bowls and chopsticks in her hand before throwing them back on the table and rushed up to the small attic in rocket style with Xu Yu’e.

“Man Man!”  Seeing that the family was torn apart, Wen Shi Xuan couldn’t smoke this cigarette anymore.

“Dad.” Man Man knelt down and asked, holding a cup of tea to her father, “Do you blame me too?”

Wen Shi Xuan faced her big and bright eyes, as if seeing her begging him to buy a lollipop when she was a child, and shook his head: “Dad doesn’t blame you.”

“Dad. I don’t think I can stay in this home. I want to go to Beijing with Chu Xia and Du Yu.”

After a while of speechlessness, Wen Shi Xuan coughed twice: “Do what you want to do. Dad has no other ability, so dad can only not oppose you to do what you like.”

With the words of her father, Man Man felt at ease in her heart. She told her father honestly: “If Yuan Yuan is going to the Academy of Fine Arts, and the arts are going to spend more money, I want to make and earn more money. In this way, dad and mom will not have to ask others. Other people naturally won’t talk about our family, won’t talk about mom and dad, and won’t talk about me.”

“Man Man, don’t think too much. Yuan Yuan’s study fund is Dad’s business.” Wen Shi Xuan said.

“Dad–“ Man Man was touched by her father’s words, Jiang Yan’s words appeared before her eyes, and she bit her lip lightly, “If I see a man, can I make my own decision?”

“Do you mean you have a match for yourself?” Wen Shi Xuan almost slid off the chair excitedly, “You should say it earlier. Your mother and your sister don’t have to make trouble and make noice.”

She wanted to say, but didn’t everyone at home express their opposition last time.

Man Man’s silence made Wen Shi Xuan realize that a cold sweat fell from his face: “It won’t be the last time–“

“Dad. Don’t tell anyone about this in advance.” Man Man hurriedly interrupted his father.

Wen Shi Xuan nodded dumbly. He really has no idea. He only knows one thing. He can’t keep his wife out of trouble, but he won’t prevent his daughter from finding his own happiness.

In the hotel

Father Jiang insisted on meeting the woman and her parents in person. Jiang’s mother was not good enough for Jiang’s father, but she was afraid of losing face, so she decided to avoid Mo Ba Mo Ma and others, and asked Man Man’s address to pass by secretly.

That evening, Man Man was going to work overtime, and Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother didn’t know, and went straight to Wen’s grocery store.

Wen Shi Xuan went to restock temporarily. Xu Yu’e stayed at the shop, Zhang Qiu Yan was urged by Jin Ruo Wen and hurried over to ask Man Man’s answer. Xu Yu’e was annoyed, she couldn’t convince Man Man, and worried that this marriage really fell through. She couldn’t show Zhang Qiu Yan a cold face, and could only greet Zhang Qiu Yan coldly.

Zhang Qiu Yan shouted loudly: “Mr. Jin called me again last night, because he was afraid that calling Man Man directly would scare her. He himself was very satisfied with Man Man. You probably don’t know that his ex-wife cuckolded him. She ran away with people, so he wanted to find a girl who was innocent. He didn’t care about her appearance or family background. As for the betrothal gifts, he can give you enough.”

Seeing the eight fingers raised by Zhang Qiu Yan, Xu Yu’e asked, “Eight thousand?”

“People are the boss, how can it be eight thousand, at least eighty thousand. This 80,000 li does not include a brand-new set of bridal gold and silver jewellery, a hundred tables of banquets, wedding dresses, wedding travel and other expenses.” Zhang Qiu Yan smiled from ear to ear, as if all the money was pocketed into her pocket, “Sister-in-law, if Man Man can marry him, she will be the rich young lady. That is the blessing of several years of cultivation.”

Xu Yu’e also thought, if this money can be put into her pocket, and she can use the money from her son-in-law every month, she will be half a young grandmother.

The two concubines were sitting in the shop facing the wealthy benefactor and were talking very happily. They did not notice a middle-aged couple standing at the fruit stand in front of the shop. While trying to pick fruits, Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother took all their conversations into their ears.

CHAPTER 13 – WEDDING RING

Late Wedding – Chapter 11 – Another proposal

Chapter 11 – Another proposal

“You don’t belong to someone who considers you as an option!”
― Aanu

Mother Jiang returned to the hotel and said to Father Jiang: “I don’t think this marriage will happen.”

“Why not?” Father Jiang asked.

“Our son has a naive disposition and doesn’t understand. This marriage has to be well-matched in social and economic status.”

Speaking of being right, Father Jiang understood: “In what era do you still need to be well-matched in social and economic status.”

Father Jiang is a carefree person. He used to be a soldier by himself and pursued his mother. His family background was worse than that of Jiang’s mother. Why didn’t Jiang’s mother dislike him?

“This is the age of the Phoenix man. Most of the rich women marry the poor men. If the rich men marry the poor women, the second-married men are picky. Our son is not the one who lacks arms and legs. He has a successful career and has a future. No matter how bright you choose, you don’t need to pick this old and poor girl who nobody wants.” A passage from Jiang’s mother clarified the current trend of marriage.

Man Man has three fatal points: Fist, she is not successful in her career, second her family background are poor and third she is old.

“Have you seen the woman?” Father Jiang heard what Jiang’s mother said and thought he had investigated it carefully.

“I’ve already asked clearly. She works in a small advertising company with a monthly salary of less than two thousand. She only a junior executive but not in supervisor or manager post. I don’t understand what my son likes about her. We put aside about her family background, at least she able to excels in housework and social life. Our son is now a school officer and is going to be an officer at the National Defence University. Can he marry such a woman? You will have to be laughed at if you take her out.” Mother Jiang said.

These words have entered the heart of Jiang’s father. Being rich and poor is one thing, but whether the cultural level and social level are worthy of it is another matter. Who said that soldiers don’t need to socialize, especially those who are officers, they must get involved in society?

Comparing heart to heart. Father Jiang hesitated. On the one hand, like Jiang’s mother, he didn’t want his son to regret marrying the wrong wife, on the other hand, he didn’t want to use the old-time concepts to restrict his son’s marriage.

Parents who understand the righteousness are selfish, same go to Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother.

At Wen’s house, Zhang Qiu Yan came to find Xu Yu’e, saying that she had found a suitable marriage for Man Man.

Man Man was at the company that day, and after finishing her daytime work as usual, she came out to wash her hands and opened the mobile phone in her bag to check incoming calls and text messages. There were several densely packed text messages, basically one text per hour, and the letter was from the same person—-Jiang Yan.

Chu Xia who sneaked over, looked at her phone screen and snickered: “Is it a love letter?”

“I haven’t read.” Man Man didn’t dare to open it, and the house was like that, she was not sure about it now.

“Let’s open it to see. Maybe there is any surprise?” Chu Xia grabbed the phone in her hand and pressed it.

A series of sub-messages unfolded. Although there was no such thing as the hope of Chu Xia, Jiang Yan could point out his identity, but they were all sentimental truths, which made people feel warm when they saw it.

“Reply to him.” Chu Xia feels so indifferent to others, and persuades Man Man, “It doesn’t matter what you say.”

Man Man turned his back and pressed a few buttons on the phone. Chu Xia on my toes, couldn’t see what she had written. However, it doesn’t matter, she asked Du Yu to ask Jiang Yan later.

Jiang Yan was staying at Du Yu’s house. He didn’t see him for a day, like every other autumn. After sending a text message for a day, he couldn’t reply. He was already anxious like an ant on a hot pot, and he couldn’t stop for a moment.

Du Yu said: Man Man’s temper is that she won’t look at her mobile phone until she has finished her work.  

Finally wait until the time to get off work, wow-the text message is here!

He unfolded a glance and wrote: Let’s get along for more time.

In any case, it is a good thing to have a reply. Send a few more text messages in a row.

On the way home, Man Man kept receiving text messages and writing text messages, and almost tripped on his feet when getting off the bus, and said annoyed: Mr. Jiang, how will you be responsible if I fall?

Wow, less than a few seconds to reply——-I will take care of you for the rest of my life.

Man Man hurriedly shut down the text message, and covered her hot cheek with her hand.

“Sister—” Yuan Yuan just came back from school and ran into her at the door.

Fortunately, talking with him back to her, Man Man took a deep breath and had nothing to say, “Have dad & mum home?”

“Oh. Sister Hao Xue told me on the phone. She said that the second aunt came to see her mother today.” Yuanyuan was excited and tightened the arm of Man Man.

Pulled by her younger sister, Man Man stepped into her house unsuspectingly and into the living room. Suddenly she saw her second aunt, parents, and a man, who looked a little older, in a suit and tie, sitting on the best long sofa in the house, especially in the sitting position, the typical middle-aged man sits down and immediately spread his legs. For an instant, Man Man thought he was a friend of his father and called out: “Uncle.”

In the living room, Xu Yu’e and Zhang Qiu Yan, who were originally smiling, both stiffened their faces.

Wen Shi Xuan, who lowered his head to smoke, raised his head and said to his wife: “I’ll just say, this man is not suitable.”

“Please talk less!” Xu Yu’e squinted.

Wen Shixuan lowered his head again.

Man Man didn’t know what was going on.

Yuanyuan heard Wen Hao Xue say on the phone, and pushed her affectionately to ask her to sit next to the man, and said, “This is the new boyfriend introduced by the second aunt to Sister Man.”

Ears buzzed. Man Man’s eyes were fixed on the three smiling faces of Xu Yu’e, Zhang Qiu Yan, and Yuan Yuan. She holding her mobile phone bag, and her breathing was almost stopped.

“Man Man, this is Mr. Jin, and your second aunt’s colleague is a friend.” Xu Yu’e was shy when she was the eldest daughter and pushed her daughter to sit on the couch.

But for a long time, Man Man refused to move an inch.

Seeing that something was wrong, Zhang Qiu Yan quickly told Xu Yu’e to stop pushing. This was so conspicuous that Jin Ruo Wen, who was sitting on the couch also felt embarrassed.

As soon as Man Man broke away from her mother’s hand, she immediately flashed into the room. Leaning on the door panel, her heartbeat so hard that it shook her tympanic membrane.

“Man Man. Man Man.” After knocking for a few times, she didn’t see her daughter opening the door. If the man was not there, Xu Yu’e would have started cursing.

Zhang Qiuyan came out to make a round and said to Jin Ruowen: “I’m sorry, she is shy.”

“I can see that she is a good girl.” Jin Ruo Wen said, he didn’t care at all in his tone, and wearing a smile on his face didn’t seem to be a deliberate lie.

Is he satisfied?  

Xu Yu’e and Zhang Qiu Yan looked at each other.  

“Let’s do this. Next time I make an appointment to the restaurant outside, it’s my treat and go to Hua Sheng Restaurant.” Jin Ruo Wen stood up and said, in a tone that he was used to not giving anyone a rejection.

Hua Sheng Restaurant, a famous five-star restaurant in the city, abalone and shark fin are not a problem. Xu Yu’e’s eyes twinkled, and she felt dreaming.

 Zhang Qiu Yan sent Jin Ruo Wen to the door and came back to ask Xu Yu’e for credit: “You see, I’m right. He is the owner of the company himself. Although he is a little older, he is only in his 40s. His daughter is about the same age as Yuanyuan. His ex-wife has gone abroad early and has nothing to do with him at all. Among men, he is one of the best men.”

“What is the best?” Wen Shi Xuan got up and stepped on the cigarette butts hard, “Let Man Man go to be a stepmother, and be a stepmother of a girl the same age as her sister, is there someone like you as an aunt?”

CHAPTER 12 – I WON’T WRONG MYSELF TO GETTING MARRIED

Do you really know men? Why do men love “bad women” more?

They all say that men are not bad, and women are not loved. Do you think only women like “bad”? In fact, men love “bad women” more, good women can get the respect of men, but bad women make men love to die and live. Bad women are like drugs, and they exude a dangerous atmosphere. Either they are afraid to touch, or they are addictive. The characteristics of bad women are dangerous and charming, but men are born creatures who like adventure. For men, “bad women” have irresistible attraction. So why do men love “bad women” more?

Bad women know how to hold men

Bad women often have some “carefulness”, not as simple as good women. They know how to understand men and grasp the psychology of men, and then act like my wayward and selfish cousin. Before they went to see his man for the first time, she knows that this man likes a gentle lady type, so she dressed herself up as a lady before setting off, and her speech and behaviour are also very gentle. Sure enough, the man really fell in love with her at first sight, but the cousin did not immediately accept his confession, Instead, he continued to show a very reserved and shy appearance “ladyly”, making the man’s idea of pursuing her even stronger. Even if the two later found out her true character after being together, the man also paid emotional energy and couldn’t bear to leave. Bad women know to use “little tricks”, they know how to use strategy to subtly capture the heart of a man.

Bad women dare to be themselves

For men, the words and deeds of bad women are very reasonable, bad women will never yell hysterically, nor sulking for no reason. Compared with a woman who always cares about trivial matters, loves to get along with each other and is emotional, the bad woman’s clear and courageous expression of her attitude makes men a lot easier. Men really don’t like to play the game of “guess”, and they hate being scolded by women for guessing wrong. Keep guessing make man feel annoying, and man believe only God knows what is thinking in the heads of fickle women.

Bad women are full of confidence and know how to enrich themselves

The big difference between good women and bad women is that good women are always humble, and bad women are always full of confidence. A good woman always thinks about what I need to do to love me more, whether I am not doing good enough, and a bad woman always knows that she is the best woman in the world and the woman who is most worthy of having a good man. They also know very well that no man wants to stick to you 24 hours a day, bad women will not let men monopolize her time, she will arrange her life according to her own needs, she will be more quality, they are also confident that they will become better and better , They will make men think that they are the best woman, only she is the most suitable pair, no woman is qualified to be compared with her. Men like confident women. Bad women are more attractive to good men because they are confident enough.

Bad women know how to punish men

Men make mistakes. Many good women choose to be patient or compromise when men make mistakes because of their soft heart or begged by men. They think that their tolerance and kindness will make men love themselves more and cannot bear to make mistakes. But this is often not the case. Men are very cheap, women’s tolerance and tolerance will indulge them more arrogantly, and men will not take it seriously. And once those bad women know that a man has made a mistake, they will go crazy, and will teach them violently and set rules. Men feel that women are not easy to provoke, and when they see their beloved woman so angry, they will feel pity, next time those men will remember deeply that they shouldn’t make a mistake.

“Men are not bad, women don’t love”, in fact, the same is true for men. What other “bad women” do you think make men irresistible?

Why do men like “VIXEN”? What are the characteristics of “VIXEN”?

In the vision of men, women are divided into several types, lady type, intelligent type, good wife and good mother type… and the most special is the maverick vixen, this type of woman is loved by men.

Men like VIXENs, do you know why?

  1. The Vixen can desperate for love, even if she can only be an underground lover and bears the notoriety of a mistress, she doesn’t care. But when love is not there, she will also leave without hesitation, will not be nostalgic, will not look back, they will let go of their hands, and will not make life and death.
  2. The Vixen is very sentimental to love, and they often fall in love with men and cannot extricate themselves from it. Although she is not very dedicated, she is a monograph, which makes men have an inexplicable impulse towards her.
  3. The Vixen is by no means a timid and lovable little woman. In fact, no man can truly own her, and she will not cultivate herself according to the aesthetic standards of a man. She knew that if she fully met the standards of men, such a woman would have no lethal power for men.
  4. The Vixen don’t like lying. She can make you hurt and make you desperate, but she doesn’t lie. Even if she is very outstanding and extremely excellent, she can still bloom flowers for the man she loves as low as the dust.
  5. Although the vixen has many styles, she has a sensitive heart. She knows what kind of man needs what kind of woman, knows which kind of man needs which kind of comfort, and she has a precious soul echo with men.
  6. The Vixen understand that men make money is for women to spend it, so that men have a sense of accomplishment in front of women, so vixen still like to spend men’s money even if they are very rich, and always dress up flirtatious, stylish and sexy at any cost.
  7. The Vixen has an innate sexy, and completely from the heart. Through her every move, she can show her personal taste incisively and vividly, with irresistible personal charm.
  8. The Vixen never pursues perfection, she is a little bit bad, she has a little flaw, she likes to be cool, can smoke, sometimes looks a little pitiful, she doesn’t be a lady, because a lady can’t express her personality. Only in this way will a man fall into her world without knowing it。
  9. The biggest characteristic of a vixen is that she is very good in household work and even sosial life. The Vixen knows how to love and how to live. She will create a warm and romantic atmosphere. She can make men young, marvel men, make men crazy, burn men, and make men surging!
  10. Although the vixen are very strong in their hearts, when they encounter powerful men, they will become delicate and weak, as if they are weak, and men are often obsessed with heroes to save beauty. Such women can give men the dignity of a big man and make men more figurative.

19 characteristics of “vix spirits”———women must learn

  1. Wearing a magic bra and girdle, she shows off her proud and sexy figure all the time.
  2. Changing hair styles and dyeing hair constantly attract men’s attention.
  3. She pays great attention to skin care, and she wants to have a crystal clear, bullet-proof skin at any cost.
  4. She pays great attention to popular makeup and ensures that every time she goes out, her outfit is impeccable.
  5. When shopping, what makes her linger most is the underwear and sexy pajamas department.
  6. When she is intolerable and lonely, she always likes to call someone to accompany her to go out to play or calm down her mind.
  7. As long as it can make her look more beautiful, fashionable, and sexy, no matter how expensive the clothes are, she will take it for herself.
  8. She doesn’t bother to tidy up her boudoir, it doesn’t matter if she is in a mess, but once she goes out, she always dresses herself beautifully.
  9. Others always see her chatting with men, laughing or eating, but never seen her get along so happily and harmoniously with the same sex.
  10. She became more and more impatient with her other half, shouting and drinking all day, on the contrary, whispering softly to other people’s boyfriends.
  11. She likes to wear low-cut, off-the-shoulder and legless clothes the most. Otherwise, it is the looming lace and chiffon costumes.
  12. She is very concerned about other people criticizing her clothing taste or figure.
  13. She often analyzes her past love history with friends.
  14. She is absolutely unbearable loneliness and lonesome.
  15. The more occasions when there are many men,the more excited she will be,and she will be completely immersed in the game of discharge.
  16. She pays great attention to the cleanliness and maintenance of her nails, and must apply nail polish to make them look sexier and more attractive.
  17. She often flips through popular magazines and buys new fashion outfits for herself.
  18. She also likes to watch sexy photo albums and compare her figure with models.
  19. When she watched a literary film or a thriller film,her reaction was particularly exaggerated and moved.

The four behaviors that men hate women the most, women should never do it.

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
― Stephen Chbosky ―

Foreword:

Every woman in love hopes that her lover can hold herself in the palm of her hand as a treasure. However, in real life, many women have a basic IQ of zero in love.

Because they care about men too much, they will be concerned about gains and losses. In their minds, men are everything to her, the most important person in her life, and they even regard men as her male gods.

However, a woman must understand that even if she loves a man again and cares about him, don’t have these four behaviours. That will only make him farther and farther away from you, until he leaves you.

Keep giving gifts to men, thinking that doing so will make him love women more.

Many women like to express their love to men by giving gifts to men. They think that men will like them, and they will be moved because of the expensive gifts she gave him, and they will love themselves even more.

In fact, there is a big difference between the thinking of men and women. In the perception of men, high-value women are disdainful of giving gifts to men. Only low-value women will please men with gifts.

A woman’s approach will only make men feel that you are bad, so they will ask for love by giving gifts. He will think you are cheap, and will look down on you.

When a woman quarrels, she thinks that a man will leave, worrying about gains and losses.

“You can be right and still lose the fight.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana ―

Many women despise themselves because they love men so much that they are afraid of men leaving. Such a woman seems particularly inferior and unconfident.

Because of this, every time she takes the normal quarrel between lovers as a signal that a man wants to break up. Such a woman has an extremely unstable mentality, and sometimes chooses to leave decisively after quarrelling with her relationship.

Sometimes they would walk back and beg the man not to break up with her. Such a different way of behaviour makes a man unbearable and will think she is a very strange and emotionally unstable woman, and eventually choose to break up firmly.

Not self-reliant, clinging to men all day long

“If she is to love life and freedom and be brave then she must learn to let go. To see beauty without clinging to it, to feel pain without holding it hostage, and to feel love without worry of losing it.”
― G.G. Renee Hil ―

There is such a woman who is born insecure. When they look for men, they just want to find a support for themselves. Such a woman is extremely self-reliant, and counts on a man to help her solve everything. With such a woman, men will feel mentally exhausted.

The most notable feature of insecure women is that they like to stick to men. They tried to prevent men from getting in touch with other women by guarding against them, so as to prevent him from changing his mind.

With such a woman, a man will feel very aggrieved and bound, and will continue to find ways to break free, until he can’t bear it, and eventually the man will choose to leave.

When a woman gets angry, she disappears and blocks all the contact information of a man.

Playing with the disappearing woman at every turn makes the man feel particularly weak. The kind of fist hitting cotton and the helplessness of looking for a woman to tell but no one can only be understood by men who have experienced it.

For the first time a woman “does”, to keep her a man will look for her everywhere until she is coaxed. But if a woman “does” like this at every turn, a man’s tolerance is also limited.

People’s hearts are chilled by this “work” repeatedly. When the woman once again ran away and blocked her contact information, but he was indifferent and treated her as if nothing, then congratulations, he has been hurt by her a long time ago, and he will never talk to her again.

Concluding remarks:

As women, they all want their men to pamper and love themselves unconditionally. However, women need to know that everything needs to be controlled. It’s like “doing” once, which is joyful, “doing” a hundred times, then it is boring and hateful.

Women want men to always respect themselves, love themselves, and be more tolerant of themselves, so they must manage themselves well and know what to do and what not to do. When you have done yourself well, he will love you who is sensible and knows how to advance and retreat.

Late Wedding – Chapter 10 – Future in-laws

Chapter 10 – Future in-laws

“I suddenly remember being very little and being embraced by my father. I would try to put my arms around my father’s waist, hug him back. I could never reach the whole way around the equator of his body; he was that much larger than life. Then one day, I could do it. I held him, instead of him holding me, and all I wanted at that moment was to have it back the other way.”
― Jodi Picoult ―

“Are you upset or out of your mind? You don’t pick any good man, but you pick a boy who doesn’t have money. You will have to eat the pain yourself.”Xu Yu’e spat these words, feeling that she was scolding herself. When she thought about it, she just didn’t know why she picked Wen Shi Xuan, who had no money. After so many years of marriage, having children has been bear hardships and stand hard work, and has not enjoyed a day of happiness.

Man Man knows her mother’s temper very well. If she speaks to her, she is afraid that her mother will be angrier. For safety reasons, she can only wait for Xu Yu’e to finish her fire.

After she scolded her eldest daughter, she still didn’t see the slightest movement of her eldest daughter. Xu Yu’e should also be tired of scolding, so she had to sit back in her chair to rest. She held her forehead, and after thinking about it for a long time, she couldn’t understand why she had an indefatigable daughter. If it would be nice to have a son, would the Wen family be afraid that the second family would climb on their own head?

Yuanyuan saw that Man Man was silent for a long time and was boring. She chewed her rice and said, “Sister, it’s okay or not, you can say something back to mom anyway.”

Fortunately, the little daughter is still intimate. Xu Yu’e grabbed the chopsticks and added another piece of meat to her little daughter’s bowl: “You have to be full to eat. You must use your brain to study hard every day, and you can’t be like your sister. Your sister is too thin, I introduced a few people before, just to see your sister thin like this, they all think she is not blessed.”

Hearing this, Wen Shi Xuan couldn’t eat a mouthful of rice. The wife made him understand, understand that the wife is not targeting Man Man, it is targeting him at all.

Xu Yu’e and Yuan Yuan raised their heads together and looked at Wen Shi Xuan who stood up.

“Dad?” Yuan Yuan asked.

“You guys continue to eat. I’m going to cook a bowl of noodles.” Wen Shi Xuan left the dinner table and kept his head down to avoid seeing his wife’s eyes.  

As he expected, as soon as Wen Shi Xuan walked away, Xu Yu’e grumbled at the dinner table again: “Ignore your dad. Does he think the family is very rich now? He still wants to smack things at every meal. If your dad had the ability, he wouldn’t have eaten this meal at home. He would have taken his wife and children to the restaurant to eat abalone shark fins.”

It was Man Man’s turn and couldn’t stand it anymore. While her mother and sister were eating happily, she quietly walked away and got into the kitchen.

Wen Shi Xuan, who was sitting on the kitchen threshold, lit a cigarette and smoked it. His two eyes looked like wood, and he couldn’t move.

“Dad. Let me cook noodles for you. Do you want to add eggs? Or I remember there is a tomato in the refrigerator.” Man Man walked in, opened the refrigerator door, took out the tomato, and washed it in the vegetable bowl then use a knife to cut into eight pieces.

When the fire of the gas stove ignited, Wen Shi Xuan regained his senses and said, “You are not full too, then take two eggs and cook two bowls of noodles by the way.”

“No. If Mom finds a few eggs missing, she will say it.”

“What can she say? She wants to ask; you just say that I ate two eggs and two bowls of noodles.” Wen Shi Xuan only dared to speak so hard when his wife couldn’t see or hear.

Man Man did not make a sound, put the noodles into the pot and boiled, took a long chopsticks and stirred the noodles neatly in it, and the noodles formed the appearance of blooming flowers. Seeing people’s appetites, it was pleasing to the eye.

The eldest daughter is not bad at all. Just talking about her gentle and quiet temperament, Wen Shi Xuan feels that as long as it is a man, he can be hooked on her. Therefore, he said the following not on his wife’s side, but felt that it was not worth it for his daughter: “Man Man, listen to Dad. You are very good. Dad thinks that you are much better than Yuan Yuan and Hao Xue. It doesn’t matter if you can’t find someone for the time being dad will help you find better people everywhere again. Dad doesn’t believe that you will marry badly. Therefore, we don’t need to wrong ourselves. If you simply marry, you will definitely make yourself suffer in the future.”

“Dad–“ Man Man is glad that the steam on the pot has covered her own little face with fog, which can hide her two red eyes at the moment.  

“Don’t blame your mother either.” Wen Shi Xuan said it back, as the head of the family, he naturally hopes that everything will be happy at home. “Your mother is like me, I am afraid that you are like her, married to someone like me who has no ability, and you will eventually suffer on your own.”

“I know, I understand.” Man Man Ying said, no matter what the parents are, they are their own parents. The grace of having children and the grace of raising children is what she wants to return. Therefore, no matter how angry and angry her mother is, she will not talk back. she understands that mother is also forced by life.

Two bowls of noodles were picked up, and the father and daughter ate one bowl at each end next to each other. The stuffy air in their hearts finally left the table and dispersed.

At night, she grabbed a broom to clean the broken bowls on the ground, and Jiang Yan’s oath suddenly appeared in front of Man Man’s eyes.

There will be no problem.

He was categorical, full of confidence, as if he had won the ticket.

Hey~

She only felt he is like a child.

“Top 15 Things Money Can’t Buy
Time. Happiness. Inner Peace. Integrity. Love. Character. Manners. Health. Respect. Morals. Trust. Patience. Class. Common sense. Dignity.”
― Roy T. Bennett ―

Father Jiang and Mother Jiang got off the plane and didn’t tell their son they were here. They secretly stayed in the hotel first and recruited Mo Wen Yang’s parents to come over and ask questions.  

The youngest son was on vacation for a few days, and immediately said that he fell in love with a girl at first sight and would not marry anyone except her. After hearing this in the hearts of parents, on the one hand they are happy that their son is planning to get married, on the other hand they are naturally worried about what kind of woman she is. She can make a man fall in love at first sight, is she a vixen??

Father Jiang and Mother Jiang, especially Mother Jiang, are in such a state of mind at this moment.

Fortunately, Mo’s father and mother also heard their son Mo Wen Yang say about this matter. As one of the initiators of the blind date party, Mo’s father answered the Jiangs’ questions like this: “Wen Shi Rong is a colleague of mine in the municipal government, I’m not very familiar with it. In fact, Wen Shi Rong invited my son over that day, just to see the new car at his home. Unexpectedly, Wen Shi Rong called so many girls over. Jiang Yan just went to play with Wen Yang and met that girl like this.”

“That girl is your colleague’s daughter?” When Mother Jiang heard that it was the woman’s parents who might be working in the city government, they were officials’ children, Jiang’s mother felt at ease.

But how dare Mo dad lie about this and clarify: “No. It is the eldest daughter of my colleague’s big brother, but she is about the same age as Jiang Yan, one year younger than Jiang Yan.”

That being the case, Jiang’s mother asked: “What does your colleague’s eldest brother do?”

“I don’t know this, so I have to ask my colleague.” Dad Mo said.

Mother Jiang thought, since the brothers are all work in the city government, the elder brother’s family background shouldn’t be bad. Anxious, he immediately begged Mo Dad to bring himself to the city government to ask Wen Shi Rong.

When she walked to the office building of the city government, Dad Mo took her for a walk, and walked to the door of the office where the sign was posted. Mother Jiang looked up and wrote Security Section, and immediately pulled Mo Dad: “What is your colleague position again?”

“He is the head of the team. Now that he is old, he has a clerical job and let him sit in the office.” Dad Mo said.

As soon as Mother Jiang heard it, she thought how big an official the woman’s uncle was, and he turned out to be a driver.

Seeing that Mother Jiang’s face was not good, Father Mo dared not step into Wen Shi Rong’s office at will, and hesitated: “This–”

“Go back.” Mother Jiang said a word lightly, but the steps did not hesitate to go back.

CHAPTER 11 – ANOTHER PROPOSAL

Late Wedding – Chapter 9 – Let’s get married

Chapter 9 – Let’s get married

“I promise to stand by you, to hold you up when you’re about to fall, and to always keep you safe. I never believed there was a girl out there for me. Until I met you. You changed everything. And I never want to live without you. I love you more than I ever thought possible.”
― J. Sterling ―

It’s not that he is poor, but he can be heard joking all the time. She doesn’t have this time to play affection with a man, and she can’t afford it either.

“Man Man.” Seeing her stand up, he stretched out his hand to pull her small wrist, clasping her wrist like some pliers.

Turning her head, the big spectacle lens of Gu looked at him: “Let me go.”

“No.” Definitely.

Is it possible that Miss Man Man wants to make a scene?

Man Man slowly said, “Why don’t you let me go?”

“You must have misunderstood me again.” Once again categorically.

Chu Xia and Du Yu looked anxious when they were there. You said that these two people haven’t started yet, how come they become awkward?

“Man Man.” Chu Xia came to persuade, “Don’t worry, listen to him to finish.”

“I want to listen to what he said.” Man Man is such a person, and things are very clear. “He is full of lies. Can she live with a man who is good at lying?”

Chu Xia was defeated, and it was a terrible defeat.

Man Man either doesn’t speak, or makes people feel complacent.

Du Yu blinked at Jiang Yan.

However, Jiang Yan’s actions still surprised him.

Standing in front of her, with a head raised, a tall and loose figure covering her small face. The corners of her arrogant mouth flattened, her eyebrows were drawn into her temples, her eyes like a star fell, almost as low as her white forehead. The strong breath fell on her ears, as if holding her earlobes, a short and powerful sentence:

“Let’s get married.”

The people and things around them are as hazy as smoke, and they are floating away. Man Man couldn’t see Du Yu and early summer. She stared at her big eyes. There were only his long eyebrows in her pupils. His starry eyes, and the dead heart in her chest was ignited, jumping again and again.

Between the rough palms, she held down along her soft little finger, then clasped one of her fingers, and made an action like an oath: “Wait for me. I am a soldier, and I must make a report if I wanna get married, but don’t worry, I should be able to approve it in about two months. I know you don’t believe me now, but I am sincere to you and really want to be with you.”

A man’s lingering love word.

Even if Man Man did not blush in the public, Chu Xia and Du Yu blushed.

The heart in his heart seemed to be supported by the palm of his stretched-out palm, too fast, so fast that he wanted to escape, because it was not real.

If he is not shabby, how can she get into his eyes?

Man Man is always practical. When the people around him blushed and their hearts were beating, his calm voice floated out with a desolation: “I need to think about it first.”

“What do you need to consider?” Chu Xia was in front of Jiang Yan, rushing to help Jiang Yan ask the question first. That group is anxious, who knows that the emperor is not in a hurry to die the eunuch.

No matter how good he is, can this marriage be done casually? Unlike foreign countries, Chinese marriage is a union of two families. You love me, not only for both men and women, but there must also be a family of both men and women.

“When she reports to his parents, let’s talk about it after agreeing.” Man Man wanted to minimize the damage between the two.

Speaking of the family hurdle, the two fires that Chu Xia and Du Yu burned for Jiang Yan’s marriage proposal were also extinguished.

“No problem.” Jiang Yan vowed, “I will call my parents to come over today.”

With a small face lifted, the corners of his arrogant mouth were full of confidence and flying, which made her confused again.

“Come here, it’s time for lunch.” Chu Xia hurriedly greeted everyone to come over to eat, how to say that Man Man was proposed to marry him is a gratifying thing.

The picnic basket was opened, and the neatly cut fruits and vegetables were cleaned piece by piece. The rice dumplings placed in the crisper were wrapped in seaweed and filled with meat, and the fragrance was overflowing. Jiang Yan only needs to see this delicious food: he must abduct this daughter-in-law home if he says anything.

He went back and immediately called his parents and said that he had found a wife who was satisfactory to them. Good character and better cooking skills.

So, when it comes to the Jiang family, Jiang Yan is the youngest, but he has passed the thirty marks. Because he was the youngest son, he was pampered by Jiang’s mother since he was a child and indulged in everything. Her son said he wanted to be a soldier when he was admitted to college, and he said he wanted to start a career and study abroad. Mother Jiang was anxious. She didn’t take advantage of her son’s holiday. She wanted to take her son to see the daughters of some old comrades-in-arms to urge the marriage. As a result, as soon as the holiday was off, his son followed Mo Wen Yang to the south for vacation. Mother Jiang thought this was over, how long the marriage would have to be. She didn’t expect to receive such an urgent call from her son. She responded with a hello from her son that night and discussed with her husband. The next day, the two hurriedly boarded the plane and rushed to see the future daughter-in-law.

Man Man had no idea that his in-laws would come so soon in the future. She saw Jiang Yan’s childishness in her eyes, and she felt that he could only believe three points. Moreover, no matter what his parents are like, she thinks her mother’s level is already quite troublesome.

Xu Yu’e hated Jiang Yan’s affairs on the first day, and the family is well known.

After returning home from the picnic that day, Wen’s family of four had dinner in the evening, which of course was prepared by Man Man.

Wen Yuan only scanned the four dishes and one soup on the table, frowning and asked: “Sister, when did you buy this dish? You bought it yesterday, right? It’s not fresh anymore.”

“I went to the market at five or six o’clock in the morning to buy it.” Man Man used the chopsticks in her hand to hold the rice grains in the bowl, still speaking slowly, not stunned by any provocations.

Wen Yuan felt annoyed every time she heard her sister’s soft but still unable to grasp a handle. “Bang” put her chopsticks and said, “Sister, Sister Hao Xue said she met you on the mountain today. You. How can I go shopping in the mountains at five or six o’clock?”

“I came back from buying vegetables at five or six o’clock, and after borrowing a car from someone, we set off at about eight or nine o’clock.” Manman said.

“Did you go to play?” Xu Yu’e knows what the little girl is angry about. Doesn’t this angry sister go out to play by herself without bringing her own sister? In other words, she has hide it from her parents, which is strange.

“Mom, I’m an adult. Do I need to talk about where I want to go?” Man Man would be strange if he couldn’t hear his mother helping his sister to be angry, and just talked about reason.

“But Yuanyuan is now in a stressful period. As an elder sister, you have to be considerate of your sister.” Xu Yu’e now has only one little daughter, Yuanyuan, who will become a phoenix in the future, and she doesn’t put any hope on Manman.

“Okay. Let’s continue eating.” Wen Shi Xuan, who has always been hardworking in front of his wife and daughter, can’t help but feel that the eldest daughter has done nothing wrong.

Wen Yuan was unhappy when she heard her father say to help her sister: “Dad, don’t you know that the man who lost the face of you and mom last time, sister went to play with that man today.”

“What?” Wen’s father and Wen’s mother threw the chopsticks together.

“Sister Hao Xue saw it with her own eyes, and the man personally said she wanted Sister Man Man to raise him. Sister Hao Xue lost her face in front of a group of friends and died of embarrassment on the spot. I think if I were there, I would want to hit the tree. Come on, why do I have such a spineless sister?” Wen Yuan said this, confident and relieved. The dishes she picked up were stuffed in her mouth, but she completely forgot that these dishes are all. Her sister cooked it according to her favourite taste.

Man Man eat the rice in small bites.

“You unfilial daughter, can you still eat?!” Xu Yu’e slapped her angrily, and the bowl in Man Man’s hand fell to the ground and fell into eight pieces.

CHAPTER 10 – FUTURE IN-LAWS

Late Wedding – Chapter 8 – I only want her

Chapter 8 – I only want her

“Sometimes, you are the only one seeing what you want to see.”
― Emmanuel Apetsi

At that time, Man Man had no time to realize the meaning of his words. When she came back to her senses, she had already been dragged by him for a while.

The little face was red from the sun, and the lower shadow overlapped with his tall figure, and the light was so mottled that she dazzled her eyes.

The group reached halfway up the mountain. Chu Xia was the first to find a stone bench and greet others to sit on it. Seeing Man Man being dragged by Jiang Yan’s elbow to slowly walk up the stairs, Chu Xia smiled crookedly, and said, “You guys are pulling carts.”

Du Yu who was drinking water spouted out.

Man Man raised her eyelids, never knowing that Chu Xia was so eloquent, staring dryly.

Chu Xia afraid that she would really be angry on her, she sat down first, handed her a bottle of mineral water, and quietly approached her ear and said: “We hardly to come out and play together, just relax and enjoy the happy moment will do.”

She squeezed the lid of the mineral water bottle with her fingers, but she couldn’t unscrew it yet, and Man Man was sweating all over her body. She didn’t know if it was because of what Chu Xia had just said or was thinking about what he had just said.

Jiang Yan and Du Yu sat shoulder to shoulder under the tree to enjoy the shade.

“Has Man Man never had a boyfriend before?” Jiang Yan asked eloquently. Man Man looked like he had never been in contact with a man.

It stands to reason that Man Man is twenty-nine this year, it is impossible that he has never talked about a relationship.

When Du Yu talked about this, he felt sad for Man Man: “Don’t mention it. You should know the environment of her home? Just her mother who likes to make trouble without reason, how many good men have to be discouraged.”

Jiang Yan, who unscrewed the lid, suddenly had no intention of drinking water.

“If it’s her mother, let’s forget it, mainly her group of younger sisters.” Du Yu said this, real anger, “Everyone thinks they are royal descent. If Man Man makes a good love partner, they feel wronged. If Man Man makes a bad love partner, they feel that Man Man shames them. “

If it is a man with a normal mind and a good life, he will not want to approach Man Man when he hears Du Yu say this.

Du Yu dared to say that he was also betting on Jiang Yan’s sincere interest in Man Man: “Man Man is a mediocre person, her job is not good, and her family background is not very good too.” Du Yu put his hand on Jiang Yan’s shoulders: “By the way, buddy, what do you like about Man Man, I will give you a reference.”

“I like Man Man, but I like her It’s really unreasonable.” Jiang Yan said that he was embarrassed, and the corner of his eyes couldn’t help looking at Man Man.

Man Man has been struggling with the mineral water lid, her face tight.

The spontaneously clear temperament from the inside cannot be concealed, like a ray of clear light that stunned his eyes for a moment.

Jiang Yan thought: For such a good and innocent girl, there must be a good man to cherish and take care of.

The rustling, rustling, and wind rustled, feeling that his two beams of sight passed through the gap between the branches and fell on his face like a condensing light, and Man Man gently turned her face to another side.

How long hasn’t she been in contact with boys?

As far as I know, when the boys close to her know who is in her family, she can’t even compare to Yuanyuan who is not short-sighted in appearance. Her family is the worst in her family.

Because it didn’t happen at the beginning, she didn’t even have a boy ever told her to like her.

Man Man’s heart gradually became colder with this matter, and occasionally thought that it would be good to live a lifetime by oneself. However, why has a man suddenly appeared and said he likes her?

Man Man’s heart was beating again and again.

Looking at the sky, there is no cloud, the air in the mountains is fresh, and the breeze is breezy. There are more and more tourists going up the mountain, most of the tourists are getting younger and younger, and there are many groups of age tourist go to the mountain.

A group of about ten young people climbed up.

The bottle cap in Man Man’s hand could not be unscrewed, but when she raised her head, she ran into the face with Wen Hao Xue in the crowd.

It’s too late to hide.

“Sister Man Man?” Wen Hao Xue’s round face has always had a rich expression, and she was surprised to see the smile of her loved ones. It was only three seconds in the middle, and the camera couldn’t take a picture of her transition expression. “Sister Man Man, are you here alone? It’s boring to play alone. If you said it earlier, we could come together.”

Who wants to come with her?  

Chu Xia, who sat next to her and hugged her friend, immediately said: “Man Man didn’t come alone.”

Not alone?

Seeing Du Yu and Jiang Yan sitting under the big tree, Wen Hao Xue’s eyes smiled into two brackets.

Not to mention that Jiang Yan broke down, according to Wen Hao Xue’s understanding, Du Yu and Chu Xia also belong to white-collar workers such as the moonlight clan and have no money. So, Man Man, you should be careful when making friends. You made two friends who didn’t have money to help you match up. Didn’t you get caught? Reading this, Wen Hao Xue really “sympathized” with Man Man.

Standing there, motionless, and eager to stop, Wen Hao Xue really attracted the attention of his companions.

“Hao Xue, is it your sister?”

“Yes. My cousin sister.”

“Are you alone? If you are alone, let’s play with us. It’s fun if there are many people.”

“I think too, but my sister is not willing.” Wen Hao Xue said with infinite regret.

“How could it be unwilling?”

One or two eyes looked at Man Man, and then she saw Chu Xia, Du Yu, and Jiang Yan not without surprise. Now many girls’ eyes brightened when saw Jiang Yan Handsome face.

The handsome guy with red lips and white teeth is the most precious of non-sissy, and his slightly provocative long eyebrows are full of masculine temperament.

Seeing that everyone’s reaction was the same as she thought, Wen Hao Xue released a bomb: “Don’t look at him like this, he actually has other abilities.”

Carefully, everyone can imagine it.

Toy boy?

Those sugar baby who specializes in eating soft rice.

The girls giggled, no longer restrained, picked up their fingers and pointed at the handsome guy.

Du Yu was annoyed and wanted to stand up, but Jiang Yan held his shoulders.

“Don’t be angry, Brother Yu. I’m not angry.” Jiang Yan tilted his mouth and raised his eyebrows, showing his hostile arrogance, making a group of little girls’ blush.

Didn’t you say that you have broken down?

Proud like this?

Wen Hao Xue couldn’t resist it anymore: This man, who expression or gaze, would look like a shameless settlement? It’s not that she and my family have made a mistake.

Seeing that even the little cousin was suspicious, Man Man had even greater doubts about it in her heart.

A group of little girls whispered in exclamation.

Jiang Yan, who stepped on his long legs, suddenly sat next to Man Man, swept Man Man in his arms like a bird, Man Man’s small face was too late to turn red, and suddenly he heard a gentle sentence from the corner of his mouth:

“You are right, I only want her to support me.”

Boom.

Man Man’s brain was blown to a blank.

Wen Hao Xue and a group of girls retreated at full speed.

“I said, Hao Xue, your sister is so pitiful, she actually put on a shameless sugar baby who stated that wanted to eat soft rice.”

Little finger hooked into the ear hole, Jiang Yan only cared about Du Yu and Chu Xia who were leaning forward and backward with a smile, and he could leak his details at any time.

The petite body in his arms moved, and Jiang Yan realized that he had gone wrong and hurriedly released his hand.

But Man Man’s face is not red and her heart is not beating, and her voice is calm and natural: “Mr. Jiang, we really are not suitable.”

Huh—Jiang Yan took a breath.

“Every person needs to take one day away. A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any one of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence. Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”
― Maya Angelou ―
CHAPTER 9 – LET’S GET MARRIED

Late Wedding – Chapter 7 – Love letter

Chapter 7 – Love letter

“The more I write about us, the more our love feels like art.”
― Laura Chouette ―

At night, turning on the flashlight in the bed, Wen Man lay on the bed and quietly pulled out the letter paper from the cowhide envelope.

On the dark stripes of the red bars, the free and easy pen and ink marks are like his character:

“Hi Man Man, dear Man Man,

What to do?

Because of your bowl of instant noodles, I think about it day and night, and think about your bowl of instant noodles every day.

I think I, Jiang Yan myself, have never missed something like this for thirty years. I was afraid that I was poisoned or ill. I ran to the hospital. The doctor diagnosed me: You are miserable. You are poisoned. If there is no antidote for this poison, it will invade the internal organs.

I thought about how this doctor’s words resembled the poisonous symptoms of martial arts masters in the Eight Divisions of Heavenly Dragon, which was clearly not credible.

However, when thinking of you, my heart hurts.

Even if I was in pain, I never thought that I would die. This may be the place I am most proud of, Jiang Yan himself. However, I will be afraid, you hate me——

I Jiang Yan has not tasted the taste of being hated by people, but if the taste of being hated by people I like, I Jiang Yan has tasted it for the first time, it is you, Man Man.  

Man Man, I like you.

Will you blush over this sentence?

I fantasize about this question every day, fascinated, and I am afraid that if I ask you this question in person, will you say to me annoyingly:

Mr. Jiang, how I hate your handsome face.”

Seeing this sentence, Wen Man’s mouth grinned.

Wen Yuan, who was sleeping on the lower bunk, turned over.

Wen Man hurriedly covered her mouth with her hands, and involuntarily swept down the letter paper, reading word by word:

“Actually you don’t know me.

Man Man.

There is a scar on the back of my neck, which is very ugly.

Man Man

Don’t hate me so much, okay?

I like you so much.

I Jiang Yan swore to heaven

I confess to women

This is the first time in life

Glorious

Sacred

Great.

So, it’s not difficult to get to know me, Man Man, let’s meet again … N times.

When the time comes, maybe you will tell me

Mr. Jiang, of course your handsome face can make me angry, but I don’t hate you.”

Looking at the complete letter, the smile in the corner of her mouth smiled into her heart, warmly.

If he wanted her to laugh and want her to be happy, he did it.

After folding the letter and putting it back in the cowhide envelope, Wen Yuan below suddenly said: “Sister, are you asleep?”

As soon as the flashlight was pressed, it was turned off immediately.

However, Wen Yuan has found out that she is not sleeping, and the exit is a series of unforgiving complaints: “You go to work at nine o’clock every day, and I have to go to class at 7: 30, do you know? !”

Wen Man wrinkled those two long and supple eyebrows slightly, looked at the dark ceiling and said: “I’m sorry, Yuanyuan, I just couldn’t sleep.”

With a bang, Wen Yuan turned over violently on the lower bunk. The shock caused the entire duck bunk to shake up and down, accompanied by an angry roar: “It’s better if you can’t get into a good university. Do you think I can’t get into a good university?” !”

The lower lip bites the mark tightly, Wen Man suppressed the ups and downs of her chest: “Yuanyuan, if you are really capable, you will be admitted to the Central Academy of Fine Arts and then you will say this to your sister!”

After waiting for a long time, Wen Yuan below did not dare to make a sound anymore.

The smile on the corner of Wen Man’s mouth fell off little by little and sank into the darkness. Thinking of his letter, she suddenly thought in her heart:

“If you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it’s your world for a moment.”
― Georgia O’Keefe ―

Mr. Jiang, if you know our home is like this, would you still like me?

After Jiang Yan sent out the love letter he wrote for the first time in his life, his heart was as happy as a flying bird. He had insomnia that night, so he called Du Yu and asked if he could ask Man Man out again.

“We only met today, and we will meet again tomorrow?” Chu Xia was surprised.

“I think he is so enthusiastic, but he is a bit sincere.” Du Yu is very confident in Jiang Yan.

Chu Xia recalled and said, “You are not wrong in what you said. So far, I have never seen such a person chasing Man Man like this.”

“I think…” Du Yu turned to his side and discussed with his wife face to face, “It’s better to find a time for four of us to go out in the countryside. On the one hand, the two of us have not been romantic for a long time, and the other in terms of giving them a chance for intimacy.”

“Okay.” Chu Xia really thinks this suggestion is very good, so Man Man should be allowed to walk around and breathe fresh air, and stay in that Wen’s house, and sooner or later will be pissed off.

Wen Man heard that Chu Xia asked him to come out on the weekend again, and became a little wary: “Who else is there besides you and me?”

“You are responsible for preparing the picnic in the suburbs, and I will arrange the rest.” Chu Xia shamelessly.

Wen Man really didn’t know how to say it, maybe that letter had taken root in her heart. When she saw Jiang Yan appear as expected, she did not reject it in her heart.

Jiang Yan borrowed Mo Wen Yang’s vehicle. Du Yu was going to drive, and Chu Xia had to sit in the front seat with her husband, and the remaining two had to sit in the back seat.

The luggage was picked up on the car, and it was converged and set off at the door of the company.

Wen Man, who was sitting in the back seat against the car window, almost put her face on the cold window.

The first time she was so close to a man, her heart was dry and her face was dry.

Seeing her cramped and cautious, Jiang Yan kept smiling in his heart, surreptitiously stretched out his hand, and touched the end of her white fingers with his fingertips.

Wen Man was startled, and was about to retract her fingers, but was clamped by his fingers.

Immediately afterwards, his fingers were inserted between her five fingers along the gap between them, twisted like vines, and the warm heat flowed through the fingertips into the mouth of her heart.

The tea-coloured glass in the car window reflected the smile on the corner of his mouth, and Wen Man saw that he felt as if he had knocked over the jar in his heart.

“What are you thinking about?” Jiang Yan found the suspiciousness on her face and leaned involuntarily.

Wen Man’s small heart thumped several times again, and the smell on his body spread a little bit into her nose. It was a fresh and clean soap fragrance, like a freshly cut lemon. Her little face, smoked by this lemon, was flushed like a tide of water.  

In Jiang Yan’s eyes, the beautiful beauty in front of him was like a delicious red apple, causing his throat to itch and his lower abdomen to heat up. He licked his lips thirsty, but when he saw the beauty so shy, he dared not deviate.

These ten wrapped fingers were wrapped all the way to the end.  

The breath of spring is strong, the weather is not cold or hot, and the outing is just right.  

Along the road, I saw a lot of young people who travelled together, and there were many couples.

When going up the mountain, Du Yu and early summer shook hands.

Man Man followed behind, very nervous in her heart.

Such a scene reminded her of college.

Too young and too wanton, she felt dreamy and unreal, thinking she was still at home this morning and how to save money if really want go to Beijing.

“Man Man?”

A voice wrapped around her ears and lowered her ears, a thick warm breath teasing people.

Man Man jumped aside like a frightened bird.

Jiang Yan has never seen such a restrained girl. The smile in his heart couldn’t help but the corner of his mouth, pointing to the flower beside the road: “Do you like it?”

“Like—” Seeing him doing something to pick, he hurriedly “Hey”, stop it, “It’s not good to pick flowers.”

The shy show hand is quite courageous now, grabbing his half-sleeved arm.

When I realized it, Xiao Shou suddenly retracted it again, and the electric shock was not so fast.

Can’t help it, I can’t help it anymore.

He grabbed her little elbow, and he raised Ying Ting eyebrows to her, his eyes lit up like stars: “Miss Man Man, you have to believe that this beautiful man of me can’t be a hooligan.”

CHAPTER 8 – I ONLY WANT HER

Late Wedding – Chapter 6 – Little satisfaction

Chapter 6 – Little satisfaction

“True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future, not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is sufficient, for he that is so wants nothing. The greatest blessings of mankind are within us and within our reach. A wise man is content with his lot, whatever it may be, without wishing for what he has not.”
― Seneca ―

Don’t look at Wen Man’s usual warmth. Once it’s true like this, the two crescent eyes behind the big black glasses can bluff the place of life.

Jiang Yan didn’t dare to say a little at this moment anyway. The burning smell from the pot made him realize how many mistakes he had made. But before going out, he didn’t forget to find a pair of gloves everywhere, handed them to her, and said cautiously: “Wear them, be careful not to burn your hands again.”

So, Wen Man raised his pretty eyebrows and finally recognized him. Without taking over the gloves, she just asked: “Why are you here, Mr. Jiang?”

“I am Du Yu’s friend.” Jiang Yan heard her read Mr. Jiang, knowing that she remembered himself, and smiled handsomely, “I didn’t expect to meet you here.”

“How did you meet Du Yu?” Wen Man’s eyes were pointed.

“I knew Du Yu before.” Jiang Yan was about to poke a hole in her face as she stared at him, keeping his style, and smiling.

Wen Man didn’t know how to describe him, saying that he was a shabby man, but the courage of this kind of gesture was nothing like an ordinary family member. So, she twisted her eyebrows a little, and whispered: “If you are really friends with my senior, then I really misunderstood you. After all, the last time you went back to the Wen family, it seemed that your friends were all rich people.”

“How is it possible that my friends are all rich people? Especially with income like mine.” Jiang Yan raised his eyebrows slightly unhappy when she heard her say this.

Wen Man thought for a long time, but couldn’t catch any suspicious points in his words, and said with a long sigh: “So, are you really Du Yu’s friend?”

Seeing that she believed in himself, Jiang Yan nodded: “Since we are all friends of Du Yu, then we are also friends.”

If Wen Man can’t hear the meaning of this, that’s weird. Therefore, the white and tender skin of her pointed little face was slightly red, and it dimmed again when she thought of her mother Xu Yu’e’s reprimand that night.

Although she herself is so old, she shouldn’t marry herself casually. Of course, it doesn’t depend on whether the other party has money, but the character of a man is ultimately the most important thing. But this person is not going to mention it. The worst thing is that it seems that only good looks are desirable.

Jiang Yan saw her face red and white, and asked in a low voice: “What’s the matter?”

“Mr. Jiang, I have to clarify if there is something. I don’t think I and you are suitable. I believe your world is better than mine. You should have had many girlfriends.”

“Who said that I have many girlfriends?” Jiang Yan seemed to be a little angry when she interrupted her, his brows frowned, and his face turned to one side and said in a deep voice, “I thought you and your family People are different, and they don’t look at me with colored eyes.”

Wen Man should have been blocked by the slightly heavier sentence behind him, and seeing the look in front of him, he was not at all frivolous, and today he is not as fashionable as he was at the dinner gathering that night, just like Du Yu. Wearing a normal shirt and blue and black pants, showing some elegant student spirit.

Jiang Yan reached into his trouser pocket. After moving a little his eyebrows, he took out a simple cowhide envelope, slapped it into her hand, and turned around and walked out of the kitchen.

In the living room, Du Yu saw him come out and asked, “What’s wrong, aren’t you helping in the kitchen?”

“I accidentally burnt the vegetables.”

“Burning! You burnt the vegetables?”

Du Yu’s voice suddenly increased, and Jiang Yan was slightly surprised.

“Oh. The dishes cooked by Man Man are exquisite and very delicious.” Du Yu touched his chest somewhere, distressed that the delicacy at noon was missing one dish.

Jiang Yan saw someone feel distressed because of the food for the first time, and was slightly surprised again: “Is it delicious?”

“Very delicious.” Du Yu raised a finger mysteriously, “As long as you have eaten it once, you are sure to be infatuated.”

Speaking of being very delicious, Jiang Yan licked his tongue to the corner of his mouth, looking back at the instant noodles Wen Man had made for him that night, the taste was unparalleled.

But Du Yu put his hand on his shoulder and asked, “Are you making Man Man angry?”

Jiang Yan mumbled, thinking that when Wen Man was angry, those eyes were quite scary.

“How did you make her angry?” Du Yu comforted him on the one hand and asked carefully about the whole process on the other.

“I’m worried about her hand.” Jiang Yan slowly explained the reason.

Du Yu understood what was going on and smiled and asked him not to worry at all, “Man Man knows better than us when it comes to kitchen work. She has never been burnt for so many years. She knows exactly how hot it is. By the way, she will not be burned.”

Jiang Yan listened to him repeatedly assuring that his handsome eyes still looked at the kitchen door again and again.

Seeing him like this, Du Yu couldn’t help but recalled himself when he fell in love with his wife Chu Xia, so he believed a little bit about what he said.

After half an hour, the meal was officially opened.

Four people are sitting around a small square table. After Chu Xia placing the last dish in the middle, she patted her hands and said, “Come on everyone, let’s start to enjoy our wonderful lunch.”

That’s what I said, Du Yu and Chu Xia had a good heart, and they didn’t move their chopsticks immediately. Du Yu spooned a bowl of soup and put it in front of Jiang Yan, and said, “Try it.”

Wen Man tufted her eyebrows, touched her hand down, and she could touch the cowhide envelope in her pocket.

Jiang Yan, who was sitting across from her, picked up the small soup bowl, and after taking a sip slowly, a pair of clear eyes looked over through the mist from the mouth of the bowl.

The moment Wen Man received his gaze, she yanked her head down, put her hand in her jacket pocket and grabbed the envelope, and frowned sharply.

Chu Xia and Du Yu looked at them peacefully as if they were looking at each other, smiled at each other, and raised their chopsticks.

“Where does Jiang Yan work?” Chu Xia was a substitute for the buddies to inquire about each other’s situation.

“I go to school and work in Beijing.” Jiang Yan replied, “So if you are going to Beijing this time, I can be a tour guide.”

“What about the specific job?”

“For the time being in the unit of the army, doing jerseys.” Jiang Yan said, “Because it is an unstable public office, so I don’t have as much money as other friends.”

“But not afraid. At least you have a job now. My first request of my husband is also, don’t be lazy.” Chu Xia smiled.

Wen Man raised her eyebrows when she heard this. Who even told her a few days ago that she couldn’t find a man without three things, now?

Moreover, don’t look at the three people talking and laughing, the chopsticks never stopped for a moment, and the whole eight dishes and one soup had been swept by these three people in ten minutes. Of course, Chu Xia and Du Yu ate a lot every time it was her turn to cook. Today is no exception. However, this newcomer is like that night, as if he has been hungry for eight lifetimes, after the first bite, immediately drank three bowls of soup in one breath.

To this end, she bent her crescent-shaped eyes contentedly, pushed the big black glasses on the bridge of her nose, and covered herself.

CHAPTER 7 – LOVE LETTER

Late Wedding – Chapter 5 – Intentional encounter

Chapter 5 – Intentional encounter

“Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together,but do so with all your heart.”
― Marcus Aurelius ―

Wen Man didn’t know about Jiang Yan’s visit. Every time she works, even if the sky is thunder, she will not be distracted.  

When she got off work, Wen Man washed her hands at the sink. Chu Xia came over and said to her, “Man Man, are you free this weekend?”

“Anything that I can help you?” Wen Man asked.  

“My husband came back from a business trip and wanted to eat a big meal.” When Chu Xia said this, her eyelids kept blinking.  

Wen Man looked at her with her head tilted: “Chu Xia, what’s wrong with your eyes?”

“It’s okay! Maybe I just ran back from the outside and got into a little sand, and it was okay with a blink of an eye.” Chu Xia Forte pretended to rub her eyes and spoke.

“Okay. Since your husband is back, if you want to reward him, I suggest you still engage in a few dishes of home-cooked food in this season. Because in the spring, it is better to have a lighter diet.” Wen Man knew exactly why her good friend said this, and she planned it for her good friend.

“Man Man. You know, I’m not familiar with cooking or something, otherwise you come and help me.” Chu Xia pulled her hand and asked sincerely.  

 Wen Man smiled and said, “Okay, my dear Chu Xia.”

Chu Xia is Wen Man’s best friend. I remember that when Wen Man was in college, she suddenly fell ill and didn’t dare to tell her family that it was Chu Xia who took care of her day and night in the hospital for a week. She also used her own scholarship to help Wen Man, who had no money to pay a large amount of medical expenses. From that time on, Wen Man determined that no matter what request Chu Xia had, she would never refuse it. As for the husband of Chu Xia, Du Yu, he was a senior they met in college. He is two years older than them. Although he doesn’t look very good, he is generous and honest. The most important thing is that he loves his wife’s Chu Xia very much. He advocates that all family expenses should be paid by men. Therefore, the wages received by Chu Xia never need to be paid to the family and used by oneself. If the husband is like this, what can the wife ask for? Therefore, Wen Man’s goal to find a man is this kind of good temperament, and everything else is secondary. Unfortunately, she never met one.

On the weekend, Wen Man took a bag of apples and went to Chu Xia’s home.

Chu Xia lived with her husband and rented a house of tens of square meters. It’s not that Chu Xia and her husband don’t want to buy a house, but they just don’t know where they want to officially settle down. This city cannot be said to be bad, but the hometowns of Chu Xia and Du Yu are not in this city. The two couples are still young and want to work together for a better world. So long ago, the two of them had the idea to go to Beijing to build their own universe. Today, Du Yu has found a better job in Beijing, and wants to take his wife to the north soon. Chu Xia has also agreed and inform the company that she might leave at any time.

On the way to Chu Xia’s home, Wen Man thought about Beijing. She also wanted to follow Chu Xia to Beijing. Beijing is the national cultural centre. As an artist, she naturally thinks of Beijing. As Chu Xia said, Wen’s family is full of things, and she can’t get married at home anyway. Being seen will only embarrass her parents. It’s better to go abroad to avoid suspicion.

If she wants to go, it’s best to go with Chu Xia and have a care.

“Cooking is at once child’s play and adult joy. And cooking done with care is an act of love.”
― Craig Claiborne

Wen Man rang the doorbell, and Chu Xia came over to open the door for her and said, “Come in. My husband is going to bring a friend home by the way.”

“Four people?” Wen Man asked.

“Yes.”

Put the picked apples into the refrigerator. After Wen Man washed her hands, she went into the kitchen to help Chu Xia prepare lunch. With Man Man’s help’, Chu Xia only helped in the kitchen for a while then walked out, set the table and chairs, put the tableware, and cleaned around the house by the way. After all, there were guests who wanted to come over.

When it was almost time, Chu Xia heard the click of the door lock, and Chu Xia immediately walked to the door. After the door opened, facing the two men standing in front of the door, she put her finger to her lips and said, “Man Man doesn’t know yet. I didn’t tell her.”

“What are you afraid of?” Du Yu grabbed his wife’s hand and smiled heartily in a manly style. “Jiang Yan is indeed our friend now.”

So, the person following Du Yu is Jiang Yan.

Speaking of Jiang Yan met Chu Xia in Wen Man’s company that day, and after expressing his intentions, he asked Chu Xia about Wen Man. Chu Xia learned that this man was not a real shabby prince, and that she was very concerned about her buddies, so she revealed a little bit of Man Man’s hobby and so on. After seeing what happened to Wen’s house that night, Jiang Yan knew that Wen Man was not a frivolous woman who could get an appointment or date casually, so he asked for Chu Xia some trick. Chu Xia immediately said, “Let’s have a meal together.”

The idea of Chu Xia is: If this man can really taste the goodness of Wen Man from Wen Man’s meal, then there is absolutely no problem entrusting Wen Man to this man. At the beginning, because of Wen Man’s meal, she became Wen Man’s most dedicated best friend. Wen Man really good in cooking, most of the food she cooked like drugs, always make us miss her cook. It is also because Wen Man’s family is usually constantly picky about her cooking, which leads to her continuous improvement and continuous progress, so that she has today’s cooking skills.

After the two men entered the door, they asked, “Do you need any help?”

Chu Xia thought about it, and said, “Do you want to drink? There is a bottle of red wine left in the house. Let’s open it.”

Because there is no special corkscrew for red wine, the two men delved into using other tools to pry open the corks of wine bottles.

Wen Man suddenly shouted in the kitchen: “Chu Xia, come and help!”

It just so happened that Chu Xia entered the room, looking for something, but couldn’t hear it. Du Yu thought about it carefully, pouted his lips toward Jiang Yan and motioned. Jiang Yan accepted this kind offer with a smile and walked into the kitchen alone.

The kitchen of Chu Xia is a long strip, and the passage is a bit narrow, so two people can barely stand side by side. When Jiang Yan walked in, he saw the ponytail on the back of Wen Man’s head turned into a small bun, clamped by a green hairpin, and the little woman was full of charm. He stagnated and paused at the door. The rich aroma of the soup rushed toward him to make him energetic, and the beautiful woman in front of him seemed to be surrounded by clouds.

“Chu Xia!” Wen Man was the ear of the soup pot on the stove with two hands, and cried, “bring over the raw onions on my scratching board, hurry up!”

Waking up by the sound, Jiang Yan took a closer look at this moment and found that her two hands holding the soup pot were burnt red. This frightened him. After a stride, he grabbed the soup pot in her hand and put it back on the stove, then took her two wrists and pulled it under the faucet.

Splashing———–the water hit the shrimp red skin, and it turned white after a short while.

He exhaled deeply: Fortunately, nothing happened. However, soon, his spine swished into coldness, seeing Wen Man’s crescent eyes fixed on his face. Those cold sober eyes seemed to have caught the thief. Perhaps he was guilty of the thief. He thought so, and his hair stood up, and he hurriedly let go of her hand and explained: “I, I didn’t mean to—”

However, Wen Man ignored him. Instead, she immediately turned off the stove as soon as she smelled the scorching smell. After opening the lid and seeing the burnt vegetables, she suddenly turned to face him: “Get out! Don’t enter my kitchen in the future!”

Late Wedding - Chapter 5 - Intentional encounter
CHAPTER 6 – LITTLE SATISFACTION

Late Wedding – Chapter 4 – Want to take her seriously

Chapter 4 – Want to take her seriously

“Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around.
Life is too short to waste your time on people who don’t respect, appreciate, and value you.
Spend your life with people who make you smile, laugh, and feel loved.”
― Roy T. Bennett

“What are you angry about?” Mo Wen Yang drove the Dong Feng Feng Shen sedan that had just bought one hundred thousand yuan. He was refreshed. He dialled his bangs with one hand and said Jiang Yan with a smirk on his mouth. “This shabby prince is You have to pretend to be, and if someone makes you angry, you can’t blame others.”

“I’m not angry that people think I’m shabby prince.” Jiang Yan Ying pulled out a strong body, lying on the car chair lazily, crossed his hands on the back of his head, and the slightly hooked corners of his mouth filled the boy’s naughty taste. However, thinking of Xu Yu’e’s angry face, his piercing eyebrows frowned slightly, and the corners of his mouth flattened and said, “What about you? You stayed in Wen’s house for so long, which girl did you fancy?”

“The only thing you can see is that you caught it first?” Mo Wen Yang raised his eyebrows, knowing that the Wen family had all ran to the balcony to witness the rendezvous between a man and a woman, but unfortunately, he could not see it with his own eyes. Just ask the person concerned.

The car happened to pass by a streetlamp, and as the light flickered in front of him, Wen Man’s little white face flashed, like a warm little lamp dangling in front of him. Jiang Yan felt warm in his heart, and suddenly felt that Jiang Yan’s heart was filled with a kind of inexplicable homely warmth.

Seeing that he was completely distracted, Mo Wen Yang couldn’t help but shrink his mouth to whistle: “Hey, do you really have a crush on someone?”

Jiang Yan was startled by these words, and his eyebrows tightened again. That’s right, Wen Man is a very good girl, with a good temperament and a kind heart; but her family is top-notch. He Jiang Yan has been in the society for so many years and he has met many people, but he has never seen someone like the Wen family. For such a superb money worshiper, Eugénie Grandet also need to step down gracefully. Therefore, if he is a normal man, he would never want to have contact with Wen’s daughters.

Mo Wen Yang seemed to have guessed what he was thinking. He looked at the road conditions ahead and said casually: “It is not at all like the senior intellectual family my dad said. Maybe Wen Shi Rong and his wife and daughter pretend to be more similar, but other the elders look very vulgar briefly. As for the girls, they are actually okay.”

“When they heard that I had impoverished family, all of them ran away.” Jiang Yan didn’t want him to argue for the Wen family, and coldly told the truth.

Mo Wen Yang saw that he had made it clear that he hated the Wen family, shrugged and frowned reluctantly: “Okay buddy, let’s take it as a trip out this time. There are no wonders in the world, and there are all kinds of people, so let’s look at the excitement and see the novelty.”

“Yes, if you don’t come out like this, you won’t be able to see people like Wen family in this world.” Jiang Yan raised his handsome eyebrows, and the corners of his arrogant mouth evoked amusement. Apart from the depression, the experience of being treated and almost hungry tonight is really a strange story. Moreover, it was the Wen family who had this kind of superb quality that allowed him to discover such a strange woman as Wen Man. Thinking of the bowl of instant noodles, he licked the corner of his mouth, as if it was not the delicious bowl of instant noodles, but the taste of Wen Man. That night, Wen Man kept flashing in front of his eyes, almost occupying his dream of the night.

The next day

“The most amazing and eternal art you will ever create will be the spontaneous one”
― Sami Abouzid ―

Wen Man arrived at the company the next day and talked to Chu Xia about the blind date last night. He also touched his stomach and said, “I almost starved to death.”

“Who told you not to eat Japanese sushi with me?” Chu Xia raised her eyebrows, not ready to sympathize with her, “Why, did you miss the handsome guy at the expense of his belly?”

“There are handsome guys.” Wen Man thought about the shabby prince last night, and a sigh was pulled from his lips, “Unfortunately, he is not rich.”

“It doesn’t matter if you don’t have money, you just have a car and a house.” Chu Xia analyzed for the buddies, and now the renminbi is depreciating, buying a house is the best way to keep the value.

“He doesn’t have a house or a car, anyway, everyone in our family looks down on him.” Wen Man “hey” deeply. This sigh is not that there is no money in the poor settlement, but how can this poor settlement be so proud.

Three no poor people. Chu Xia also sighed deeply and put her hand on the shoulder of her best friend: “Man Man, listen to me, this man who has nothing, really can’t get married.”

“What nonsense are you talking about? I didn’t like him.” Wen Man finished speaking, moved her hand away, tied an apron and went to work in the mounting room.

In the afternoon of the same day, after Jiang Yan found out which company Wen Man was employed in, he urged Mo Wen Yang to take him to see it.

Mo Wen Yang was surrounded by a group of people last night, and had no time to glance at Wen Man. He had long wanted to see what the woman who had captured Jiang Yan looked like, and for this reason he was filled with curiosity about Wen Man. He agreed to Jiang Yan and hurriedly drove the car to the company where Wen Man was located. First, he ran into Chu Xia at the door holding the paperwork, so he asked about Wen Man’s whereabouts after showing his identity.

Chu Xia saw the two of them dressed very well and came over in a car, “Hey”: Didn’t Man Man say that it was a shabby settlement? Could this be the handsome guy Wen Man said last night?

“Didn’t Wen Man work here?” Mo Wen Yang saw that she never said a word, and he couldn’t help but feel puzzled.

At this moment, Jiang Yan dazzled the sight of the beautiful woman, left his buddy Mo Wenyang, and walked straight to the other side of the aisle in the office building.

In the indoor floor-to-ceiling windows installed across the office building, Wen Man’s slender and soft figure lay on the workbench, like a sculpture under the fluorescent lamp, with a layer of fine sweat already secreted from the tip of his small nose.

The most difficult part of the mounting work lies in patience and care. A little carelessness will ruin the original author’s efforts. Therefore, mounting is a separate skill, and a good mounting master has the same value as an outstanding painter and calligrapher. It’s a pity that most people don’t understand the depth of this industry.

It was four years after graduating from university that Wen Man decided to transfer to work in the mounting room. She originally studied art design, but later found that her personality was not suitable for this job, because the current advertising agency pursues fashion, and the industry atmosphere is rather impetuous. Wen Man’s temperament has always been slow and tidy, and she likes to concentrate on pursuing the ultimate in detail, which is more in line with the requirements of the decorator. However, after all, she is a newbie who started late in this industry. The salary for her first arrival is not high, so after so many years of graduation, her salary has been in the range of two to three thousand, which can be regarded as a low-level powder collar in big cities.

Jiang Yan knows a little bit about mounting, because there are elders in the family who are good at calligraphy. Watching Wen Man’s small hands repairing the remnants of the painting little by little on the copy table, her dark hair is tied in a gentle bun on the top of her small head, and the soft shadow is drawn into an oblique photo. It is already a painting of a classical lady like ink painting, which is exciting.

Mo Wen Yang walked up to him at some time and looked at Wen Man in the framed room with him and said with a smile: “So you like this type of woman.”

Jiang Yan didn’t argue with him, a pair of star-like handsome eyes stayed in Wen Man’s posture for a long time.

Out of curiosity, Chu Xia walked behind them and listened to the conversation between them. Suddenly he was suspicious: Is it really a shabby settlement?

Jiang Yan narrowed his eyes to Chu Xia when she walked over. After turning around, he first looked at her. Seeing that she was not as secular as the Wen family, he asked: “Are you a good friend of Wen Man?”

“Yes. Is there any problem?” Chu Xia always looked at him with a puzzled look. The two handsome guys standing in front of her are obviously more heroic than Mo Wen Yang.

“How long is a good friend?”

“It’s been ten years since college.” Chu Xia unconsciously slowed down his tone, because this handsome guy brought arrogance that ordinary people don’t have when asking questions, and seemed to like to speak under pressure.

Mo Wen Yang saw Chu Xia’s slight fear and smiled and interjected: “Don’t get me wrong. He is not that kind of person, just used to giving orders.”

“What do you mean?” Chu Xia seemed to have discovered the New World, and her eyes flashed brightly.

Jiang Yan was worried that Wen Man would find out that he called her to the corner with a handsome face, but he looked at her from the corner of his eye and said, “Could you please help me keep a secret with your friend and your friend’s family first.”

“Why did I do this for you?” Chu Xia had to consider what this person was trying to do with Man Man and asked tit-for-tat.

“What I can assure you with my life is that I will be nice to your friend Man Man.”

Chu Xia raised his head and read a clear light in the man’s eyes: He was serious.

Late Wedding - Chapter 4 - Want to take her seriously
CHAPTER 5 – INTENTIONAL ENCOUNTER

Late Wedding – Chapter 3 – The throbbing of a bowl of instant noodles brewing

Chapter 3 – The throbbing of a bowl of instant noodles brewing

“One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well.”
― Virginia Woolf ―

“Sister Hao Xue, I will show you something interesting.” Wang Shao Han slipped into the study-room and pulled Wen Hao Xue out of the crowd.

Mo Wen Yang was still performing calligraphy in his study-room currently.

Disturbed by a little kid, Wen Hao Xue put up with his temper, and immediately stared after walking out of the study-room: “What’s the matter?”

Wang Shao Han took her to the balcony and pointed to the intersection: “Look, who is sitting with whom?”

Seeing the shabby prince sitting next to Wen Man, Wen Hao Xue’s eyes brightened, and she stroked Wang Shao Han’s head: “You stinky boy, with blazing eyes, worthy of praise. Go! Pull out your parents and have a look.”

Wang Shao Han pursed his mouth, and unwillingly, he pulled Wen Hao Xue out, just not wanting to inform him.

Wen Hao Xue didn’t know what this kid was thinking, she grabbed him a cheek, and said: “Go and drag the other sisters out.”

Wang Shao Han laughed, hehehe ran into the study.

So, after a minute, no female relatives were watching Mo Wen Yang in the study, and all of them slipped to the balcony.

“It’s time for Sister Man Man to get married. If she doesn’t marry again, what shall we do as younger sisters?” The sisters are all babbled. Although this is not so bad for a shabby settlement, some people want to get married. That’s pretty good.

The elders think so too: “Yeah! No matter how poor he is, he is still a man, and a woman must find a man to live.”

Isn’t this taking the opportunity to ridicule? Everyone gossiped about her daughter being not outstanding and that she was a pair of ragged shoes that no one wanted. While Xu Yu’e was choking, she grabbed her little daughter: “You run down quickly and call your sister up.”

“Mom. I won’t do such a shameful thing.” Wen Yuan held her breath just like her mother. She had long felt that it was useless to have an older sister who couldn’t let herself show off in front of her classmates. Now Wen Man can only choose to settle down because she can’t get married, and it’s even more embarrassing.

“Speaking of which, the sister-in-law is really true. Nowadays, when the girl is still a college student, the family has to arrange a blind date so as not to get married late.”

“Sister-in-law and eldest brother gave Man Man the name it really is, Man Man, doesn’t it sound the same as Wan Wan (Means “Late” in Chinese)?”

Not only was Xu Yu’e embarrassed, but Wen Man’s father Wen Shi Xuan also just came over and heard this, the middle-aged man’s old face was equally black.

So, if daughter can’t get married, the outsiders don’t blame themself, and the first target is the child’s parents. Some parents bear it on their own, and some parents usually endure enough to be spoken by others in society. They can’t bear it when they come home, and their anger is vented to their children.

Wen Man was a bit unlucky, and what she met was this kind of parents who like to go home to show off their anger.

The chirping on the balcony. Wen Man and Jiang Yan are far apart, and they didn’t hear them. They just sat full and sat in their original positions for a while.

“Your name is—” Jiang Yan asked.

“Wen Man.” Wen Man said in a very ordinary tone.

Jiang Yan looked at the big black glasses on the bridge of her small nose and almost dropped to her lips.

She is not the kind of beautiful woman.

The facial features are not bad, the nose is small, the lips are small, the eyes are a bit small, the face is thin, the fingers are long, and it is not a beautiful face, but her face will be pleasing and comfortable if everyone looks at it for a long time, because her expression is always with a faint smile, like a “carefree” cloud in the sky.

“What about your name?” Wen Man was a little uncomfortable with his eyes. Although she knew his name, she asked politely.

“Jiang Yan. [Yan] is a derivative of [Yan], and the word [Xing] with three dots of water in the middle of the word [Yan].” As if worried that she could not figure out his name, he took her a hand and made gestures on her palm.

It was the first time that Wen Man was squeezed by a man. Her eyelids blinked in surprise. She wanted to retract her hand, but she was afraid of being rude, so she could only endure it in silence.

“Do you know which word it is?” Jiang Yan lowered his head when he saw her, and asked with some worry, his face closer.

“I know.” Wen Man immediately retracted his hand when he relaxed a little. However, there was his residual temperature in his hand, the feeling he had just touched, but the strange things made her remember deeply. His hand is not as arrogant as he himself, with a thick cocoon, which can make people feel that this person is gentle but actually very powerful.

“Really know?”

Wen Man suddenly felt that his heat was spraying onto his face, and he raised his angle of view unconsciously, and found that he was close at hand, looking at her with a pair of smiling eyes. Pulling her brows slightly, she quickly lowered her face, and packed her things to leave.

Seeing her transient look, Jiang Yan was astonished, and then stood up and asked, “Did I do something wrong?”

“I don’t know how many girls you have made such a joke, but I am not used to it.” When Wen Man said this, she only looked at the flower garden by the roadside. She won’t look at his handsome face that don’t know has bewildered how many girl’s hearts.

Most of the good-looking men are the easier to be distinguished and admirable. This is almost a constant law.

Jiang Yan immediately realized that she had misunderstood, and this made him care very much, which he had never cared about. So, when she was about to start her step, he rushed to her to block her.

The Wen family on the balcony almost stared now they saw Jiang Yan stopping Wen Man.

“Oh my God. Does this shabby prince have a fancy to Sister Man Man?”

“Good deed, sister-in-law, congratulations.”

Xu Yu’e turned around and left the balcony after listening to the cynicism of the crowd.

“I… I’m not that kind of person.” Jiang Yan danced with both hands and patted his forehead again, “Really, I just think you are a good girl.”

Wen Man blinked his eyelashes blankly to see how he was at a loss: Could it be that he is not arrogant, but not good at speech, so he simply pretended to be deep and silent.

“Hey—” Jiang Yan hugged his head with his hands and showed innocent eyes like a pair of children from his fingers.

Wen Man was also amused when she saw him like this. The corners of her lips were slightly raised, which was cute.

At this time, Xu Yu’e came over and shouted from a distance: “Man Man, come here!”

Jiang Yan heard this cold, arrogant and angry woman’s voice, his eyebrows flicked unpleasantly, and when Wen Man was about to brush her side, she held her hand and asked: “Who is that person?”

Feeling that he shook his hand and used his strength a little bit, Wen Man was taken aback and said, “My mother.”

Is it her mother? It’s not like it at all! Jiang Yan looked at Xu Yu’e’s face with all emotions on her head from afar and frowned deeply. How can such an arrogant woman raise a daughter with rich content like Wen Man?

Wen Man broke away from his hand and walked towards her mother with her head down.

So, when Jiang Yan saw that she walked to Xu Yu’e, Xu Yu’e should have been scolded in a shameless manner. He felt agitated suddenly, and took out his cell phone from his trouser pocket to make a call to his companion: “Mo Wen Yang, how long do you want to play tricks in front of the group of monkeys?”

Mo Wen Yang finished his calligraphy performance early, and while the Wen family ran to the balcony to watch the excitement, he answered his phone and replied: “I can go anytime! If it weren’t for you, this ‘Jiang’s young master’ would like to act, you must know, you will always be my priority in my schedule, wherever you go, I will go—”

“Fuck you! Let’s go!”

Hearing Jiang Yan’s tone was very unhappy, Mo Wen Yang immediately bid farewell to the Wen family after closing the line.

“So fast.” Of course, Wen Shi Rong was reluctant to let go of ideal son-in-law, accompanied Mo Wen Yang to the door, and eagerly asked this young man by the shoulders, “How do you feel tonight?”

“Uncles and aunts are very hospitable.” Mo Wen Yang replied in the tone of a three-good student.

The answer is not what has been asked. Wen Shi Rong was about to continue knocking from the side, due to Mo Wen Yang received another call from Jiang Yan, so he stopped looking at the faces of any Wen family members and went out straight away.

CHAPTER 4 – WANT TO TAKE HER SERIOUSLY

A man does these things to prove that he really loves you

“The first step to be a good man is this: You must deeply feel the burden of the stones someone else carrying.”
― Mehmet Murat ildan

Most women often say that men can’t believe what they say, anyone can rely on it, that is, men can’t rely on things like that. It’s sad, it can only be said that you haven’t met a good man, or that women don’t understand men at all. If a man really loves you, he will do the following things:  

A man does these things to prove that he really loves you

Willing to pay for you

Money is not the most important thing in romantic life, but it is necessary. If a man really loves you, he will not calculate money for you. As long as you need reasonable and able to pay, he will certainly not fail to agree. Because in his heart, even you are his, why can’t he spend money for you?

Willing to listen to you

Women often have a lot of unhappy things. In the eyes of men, many are just small things, and they are not even worth caring about. A man who loves you will want to know what you are thinking, and will be willing to listen to your complaints. After hearing a lot of your words, he will comment and comfort you.

Willing to suffer for you

Most young men are hard-working, and it doesn’t matter if they suffer. People with limited financial resources will reduce their expenses and pay for them emotionally. A capable person will think about your future when doing everything. When a man eats himself, he will think about whether you have eaten or not. When he is entertaining, he will always think if he can take you there. When he is happy, he will always think of how you feel at this time. , In short, no matter what state you are in, men will think of you.

Willing to end for you

When two people eat together, often girls will end up saying that they can’t eat anymore. A man who loves you will be willing to help you with the rest. Most men of this age are raised in the presence of a baby at home. They have always been paid by their family members and enjoyed themselves. If he really loves someone, he will let go of himself and go for the one he loves.

At critical times, he will always protect you

“Rain with an umbrella while holding hands with your lover is damned sure nice.”
― Carew Papritz ―

When two people are shopping together, the man who loves you will walk on the side of the road, and you will be on the side of the road, so you will be safe. When climbing, the man who loves you will always be behind you and can protect you from climbing. When it rains, he will always tilt the umbrella a little more towards you, even if he gets wet, he doesn’t want you to get a little bit of rain. When there is a strong wind, he will hug you tightly and prevent you from being blown by the wind… No matter what the situation, he is willing to minimize the harm to you.

A good man needs a good woman to take good care of. Maybe the man next to you is not perfect, not the prince-like man you have always dreamed of, but as long as he treats you sincerely, you should To cherish, a woman’s greatest cherishment for a man is to love him well, there is only him in her heart, and she is willing to work with him to endure what she has to face in life.
  
Finally, I hope that all people in the world who truly love each other will stay together, cherish each other, and face it together.

“A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.”

By Oscar Wilde

I can’t accept open marriage and choose not to marry

How long is it suitable for two people to be married? A British survey agency conducted a survey of 1,000 couples and found that for couples with a harmonious marriage relationship, the average length of love before marriage is 3 years. “Long-term love and not getting married” may be due to practical reasons, or it may be because in the long-distance love race, the matter of getting married has gradually become less important.

The story is about three people who have been in love for more than ten years but have not entered into marriage. The reason behind of the “Long-term love and not getting married”:

I can’t accept open marriage and choose not to marry!

The reason why my boyfriend and I are not married is me, I am a firm “non-marital person”.

I met him when I went to study in the UK at the age of 23. He moved his family to the UK when he was in junior high school. He is a Chinese with a relatively high degree of westernization.

My thoughts have experienced a relatively big change after going abroad, and ten years ago, I never thought about not getting married or something. Of course, an objective factor is: The sky is high, the emperor is far away, people are abroad, and they are gradually weakened by the influence of domestic traditional concepts. Before the age of 30, the family has been urging marriage, and even came all the way to the United Kingdom to “investigate” my boyfriend.

After crossing the hurdle of being 30 years old, they have been “indifferent” a lot. It may seem that I have lived well abroad, of course, because I can’t get involved.

The reason why I didn’t want to get married was not because of feeling. We only had one time relationship crisis for the past ten years. At that time, it was because my company transfer me to Europe for work study. I was a little distracted by the foreign state. To be precise, I met another person who crushed me briefly. Although nothing happened in the end, it prompted me to reflect on the intimate relationship.

It is certainly a good thing to end from the beginning, but I dare say that it is difficult for most adults to really like only one person from start to finish, although people with a sense of morality know how to stop in action. I personally think that “open relationship” has its rationality, but I don’t recognize “open marriage”. Some people play their own after marriage, but marriage is only an economic bond. I don’t understand what is necessary to maintain this kind of dead marriage.

Similarly, a stable intimate relationship does not need to rely on a wedding certificate to prove anything. Whether I am with this person depends only on whether our relationship is in tune and whether we can support each other’s lives. I have lived with my boyfriend for six years, and I have experienced it together, whether it is daily chores or the larger changes in my life. To be honest, it is no different from married couples.

Recently, because of the impact of the epidemic, our relationship has become closer. Before, we were busy working, and the time to stay together every day is limited. Now we work from home, but we have more time to explore more common hobbies. I heard friends in China say that there was a wave of “divorce” after living in isolation, which further verified my previous view: there is no inevitable connection between a good relationship and whether to marry, and marriage is not the inevitable direction of an intimate relationship.

It can be expected that at my current age, if I still live in the country, I must be gossiped by people around me, even not just me, my family may also suffer. But in the UK, examples like me abound. No one will take us “seriously “. The boyfriend’s family asked us about getting married once “side by side” two years ago, and after receiving no positive answer, they closed their mouths very tacitly.

Later, I would still go to his house for dinner on larger festivals. We live in harmony like relatives. Is it a wife or a girlfriend? Is identity so important?

After 13 years of being together, i “pretended to break up” with my boyfriend in front of my family.

I started to be with my boyfriend when I was 16 years old. This relationship has accompanied me through the purest campus time. Regrettably, I should not be married.

The reason is quite vulgar due both of us are in a different walk of life or so-called ”social match“, and it is impossible to reconcile, but I’m not willing to give up this relationship for more than ten years.

Before graduating from college, our feelings were always in an “underground state”. My family didn’t ask me, and I didn’t say anything. I thought that after one or two years of stable work, I would also be able to have a perfect wedding “from school uniform to wedding dress”. Who knows, this relationship has just surfaced, and it was unanimously opposed by the whole family.

My boyfriend’s family situation is not very good, he is born in the countryside. Although he is very strong himself, it does not change the personality of the “Phoenix man” or so-called “self-made man” in the eyes of my parents. Twenty years have passed in the twenty-first century. My family still believes very much in the “social match” set of things, and this matter is not only opposed by my parents ‘ generation, even the old people at home come out to do my ideological work.

One thing that makes me cry and laugh is that one of the examples given by my grandmother is that my mother just found the “Phoenix man (self-made man)” —– my dad made himself so hard, so I must not let me go back to my mother’s old way. My heart says that my dad has been hard for so many years, and as the economic pillar of the family, he must be secretly despised by them.

The old man was too old, even if he was upset, he couldn’t openly contradict him, so under their strong request, I pretended to have “broken up” with my boyfriend. I only vaguely revealed part of the pressure at home to my boyfriend. He also knows that we want to gain a foothold in Shanghai. At present, we can’t do it by ourselves (the down payment of the house cannot be helped at all at home, and my house is frozen again.), I said that when the two of us are capable, it’s not too late to talk about marriage. At this stage, seeing the parents can only be ashamed.

But as I grew older every year, I sometimes played drums in my own heart. Watching the little sisters around me get married one by one, my “love vanguard” lagged the big army. On the other hand, I really envy those people with similar families who don’t need to worry about these things, even if some of them seem to me to have only met through blind dates, and the feelings between the two are not so deep.

When I was adolescent, I also dreamed of that kind of dreamy wedding. Only after I got older did I realize how many realistic tests must be experienced behind that solemn sense of presence. Houses, cars, deposits, wedding gifts………………a marriage without material security is like a mansion with a weak foundation. I can’t imagine the scene after entering it.

Perhaps as the old saying goes,falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. I have also heard of couples who broke up during the marriage phase, not to mention the problems of supporting the elderly and raising children after marriage, so let’s wait until we have enough confidence to face these things.

When I returned to my family as “single” in name, my mother also offered me a target, but in an attitude of being responsible to my boyfriend, I rejected all of them. I will explain the reason privately if the other person is a little more understanding, and I will blacken the people who are not good at talking.

I have never told my boyfriend about these things. Although I am tired of “acting” on both sides, the pressure of life is already so great that I don’t want to add unnecessary troubles to him anymore.

After being in love for 10 years, we became a couple whose marriage failed.

I was 18 years old with my current girlfriend, and two days is a full ten years.

To be precise, we are a couple who failed to get married.

When I was almost 25 years old, that is, three years ago, my girlfriend and I tried to marry once, because the two of us really got along well. At that time, there was no idea about marriage. Her family had been urging the marriage, and my family was also urging the marriage. We both discussed it and decided to get married.

At that time, I felt that marriage should have no effect on our love, at best it would be more ritual. Our family relationships are more harmonious, and our parents are also young, so we thought that getting married is a more formal relationship.

After the day was set, we started to handle it. My parents played with our enthusiasm for getting married, and immediately acted as the shopkeeper after the tinkering, and went on a trip together. Leaving my girlfriend and I watched the wedding day approaching day by day, they were busy day by day and anxious day by day.

During the three months of preparing to get married, our seven-year relationship almost collapsed. Basically, we ended up arguing for seven years together.

25 years old is the age of struggle at work, and my girlfriend and I are very aggressive. We put a lot of energy on our work, and suddenly we must divide up part of our amateur energy for the wedding, they really give us a terrible headache.

It’s not just a wedding, you must put it on the agenda before you get married to buy a house. The two parents were only concerned about giving orders remotely. My girlfriend and I could only do it, staring at the house, looking for a wedding planner company, and both of us were totally unprepared.

This is when the contradiction arises. Originally, I was going to try on clothes that night(only have time in the evening), but I was suddenly notified that I was going to work overtime. I feel very tired and annoying, It had been postponed twice. I called my girlfriend to inform but who know she was directly on fire, saying that this is not her wedding alone, and asked if I could put more heart on the wedding preparation.

I quarreled with her in the stairwell of the company for more than half an hour. We both complained to each other about how hard and tired we were recently. At the end of the quarrel, she cried and said that if we can’t get along well, then “break up”.

I was stunned at the time, and felt that our relationship for so many years had not broken up no matter how many things. When we quarreled before, we didn’t talk about breaking up with each other, but this time we shook our relationship so easily for a little thing.

Marriage scared me, it started from that moment.

That was the first time I missed work, and I hurried back home to find a crying girlfriend. The two of us carefully analyzed and discussed all night, and came to the conclusion that our relationship itself is okay, and all the problems are the impact of “marriage” on our living conditions.

The two of us were already very busy. The time we needed to be considerate and caring for each other in our relationship was mostly taken away by the trivial matters of the wedding.

Fortunately, we were reconciled in the end, and of course the wedding was over (cancel the marriage event). After explaining to both parents for a long time, they gradually chose to respect our decision.

After experiencing this, I found that not everyone needs marriage as an advancement or bond of relationship. As long as two people are comfortable and can be loyal and love each other, the responsibilities and constraints brought about by marriage become less important.

I have been in love with my girlfriend for ten years, and it is still like our “first love”. We don’t know when we will get married, but I know that it must be the “right time” or “right timing” and it will give us enough time to prepare for the next step.

Marriage is not only about the right person, the right time, but also the right feeling.

What is the difference between LIKE and LOVE? Boy and girlfriend, please think carefully after reading.

There is an essential difference between like and love, but in real life, too many people confuse love with like.

Explained in the dictionary:

Like

The word like refers to love in general, and happy. To like is a feeling, including appreciation, admiration, love, and worship.

EXAMPLE : We like him because he’s funny. He is happy-go-lucky. When we are with him, we feel like laughing until we want to break our stomachs. But, we won’t miss him very much if we don’t see him for a week… (in other words: like to be directed to someone who can be a comedian to us. We will tell him to shut up if we want to break up…)

Love

Have deep feelings for people or things

EXAMPLE : We do expect him to be ours. Everything we do, if we can, I want him to know … and we probably don’t want to hurt him. We will always think about him. (In other words: love is directed to someone we always remember and dream .. Without him we will feel lonely and we love him wholeheartedly with a sincere heart even if he does not know)

“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.”
― Pablo Neruda

LIKE” is not equal to “LOVE“. Someone likes flowers but she will pinch them back and place them in a vase to admire them; and those who love flowers will take care of them, protect them, love them, and spend time for them, so this is ” LOVE“.

In fact, people are the same, some people misunderstand likes and loves, and mistake likes for love. Personally, people like things that are beautiful. So, likes are just a kind of appreciation. They are willing to pay for you all their lives, love you, and protect you, tolerate you, appreciate, and accommodate you is really called LOVE.

Like is a kind of appreciation, and love is a kind of responsibility. Like is a kind of pleasing oneself, and love is pleasing to others. Love is just moving your mouth, and love is running and breaking your legs. Love is a kind of sublimation of like!

First, the literal meaning is different. Like in the encyclopaedia means “joy, rejoice, happy”, the main body is oneself, which means to like is to meet something or people that can make me happy. Love in the encyclopaedia means “the happiness of giving actively”, and the subject is the other party, which means that how to do it can make the other party happy.

Second, the distinction between subject and object. In fact, it is mentioned earlier. Like is to please oneself, and love is to please others. Like is to satisfy one’s own pleasant feelings, while love is selfless giving.

Again, the degree of difference. Like is shallow love, and love is deep like. You don’t have to think about it, just follow your heart, thinking too much can be counterproductive!

Like is not love. Do you know why? Let me make an analogy. If you love your parents, you just like your parents? This is not necessarily, it depends on your definition.

“Love” can be selfless, what happens to “like”? “Like” can also mean that you have a good feeling, that is, if you have a good feeling for a man or woman, you can also say that you “like” him, but “love” is not. It’s the upgrade of “like”, and only when you like it, there will be love. It can be said that this is different.

I think like is the predecessor of love, and only when there is like, there is love. They are inseparable from each other. Just like the chicken or the egg came first, whichever one makes sense, the same goes for “like” and “love.”

Although both like and love are produced in the same process, there are still obvious differences between them. For example; when you do something for a person you like, you want her to see and know that you did it for her. And when you love to do something for a loved one, you do it silently, without asking for any reason, because love does not require any reason.

“Like” is like a little grass. Looking at that charming little grass every day, you can’t put it down. Water it all the time and give it plenty of sunshine for fear that it will wither away. When the grass grows up, you will find that you have become accustomed to it, you can’t do without it, and you always want to have it. Once you lose it you will inexplicably hurt, this is “love”.

Without likes, there will be no true love. Direct love, it’s not love, it’s just love formed by trading. Without love, there can be many likes, until you are tired, hated, and disinterested, maybe you don’t like it anymore.

It’s easy to like, but it’s hard to love. Some people like many people in their life, but they can’t get true love. Therefore, Xu Zhi Mo said: I will look for the most precious things in my life that can be known with my soul-mate, career, belief, pursuit, etc. If I pursue it, it is my honor; if I don’t pursue it, it is also my destiny.

Many people can’t distinguish what is like and what is love. Simply put, likes don’t need to be considered too much, and likes can be changed at any time. For example: I can like you today, and I can like her tomorrow. However, love is different. “Love” is restrained. Love is not a matter of one or two days but is permanent.

For example, when you like someone, you often inadvertently try various ways to attract the attention of the opposite sex and let him/her pay attention to you. Like is only a one-sided consideration. Generally speaking, it is not comprehensive, let alone the relationship between the two people from the perspective of the other person. Just thinking about how you treat him/her well. And love, will always help each other silently behind his back. He or she is happy or sad because of his/her emotions, so if you love the other person deeply, then every move of him/her will attract your attention.

Generally speaking, it is just verbal talk, and no actual action is taken. The time for liking someone is short, and will disappear with the passing of time. Loving someone is more than just verbal talk. He/she is full of my mind. Sometimes I can’t help but the urge to find her, contact him immediately, or come to him right away. It’s not just verbal talk.

Like a person, just enjoy the good time now, never caring about what life will be in the future. This is not the case with love. Loving someone will always consider for their future and plan the future lives of the two people.

Personally feel: “Like” is like you are fond of a good apple and want to eat it; “Love” is like you have finished eating the apple you like, carefully planting the seeds in the ground, and carefully caring for it to sprout. Grow into apple trees, cultivate and manage them with all their heart, until the fruit trees are full of apples again, and apples are loved by people…

Love is giving, sincere care and tolerance, do not ask for any return, just hope that the other party is joy and happy.

Like is possession, just want to ask for the companionship of the other party, think that if you pay, you must be rewarded, and if you don’t get any return, you will be preoccupied. These are two different concepts. Like is to pay and want some return, and love is to feel happy when you suffer!

Like is to see your advantages, love is to accommodate your shortcomings, like is to change you in the way he likes, love is that you can be yourself with peace of mind. Truly love a person, after being separated, you will miss it from the bottom of your heart, and you will fall into it when you meet…

Love is a feeling, shallow, temporary; love is a responsibility, deep, eternal.

Love is a lifelong thing, both emotional things, and rational things. Almost all love is long-term, almost always a lifetime thing. But likes are often short-term, although they also think rationally, but most of the time, emotional things seem to dominate, likes can be casual, but the word love often cannot be easily said.

The difference between liking and loving is that you will like a lot of people,and you can do it to like a lot of people. There are not many people you love in your heart for a lifetime, and it is difficult to love and like a person for a lifetime.

Like is the first sight, love is forever;

Like is not hate, love is hate and cannot be separated;

Like is to fall in love with strengths, and love is to live with weaknesses;

Like to want to have sex with you, to love to want to cook with you;

Love is fearless, you hold her hand and firmly believe that you can always be together forever.

Love is about gains and losses. After meeting her, your superiority and pride disappear without a trace, and you live without dignity. You are often worried and afraid of her leaving, because you can’t imagine what to do if she is missing in the future.

  • Like is the cause, love is the result.
  • Like is happiness and love is suffering. Only in this way will it be unforgettable and unforgettable.
  • Love is the starting point, love is the end, from the beginning to the end is the completion.
  • Love is unlimited giving? Don’t ask for anything in return. Like can be pursuit.

Most of the times, people with good looks like beautiful and handsome ones. Everyone possesses a heart to appreciate what is beautiful. As for love, it is through communication, chatting and socializing, that you can feel the feeling of heart trembling, toss, and turn, and it is difficult to fall asleep. Sometimes a very beautiful girl comes up with jokes or curses as soon as she opens her mouth, and the best image will collapse in an instant. Therefore, love and liking are a progressive relationship. If there is no liking, then there is no love, if you love it then it must be liked.

Of course, there is also love at first sight. The so-called “There is a maiden fair, whom a young man is wooing.” Falling in love is like playing a game called “fighting the landlord”. If you like him, you are willing to show him your biggest card, because you want to show him the best. If you love him, you are willing to show him all the small cards and hole cards, and if he sees your small cards and is willing to lose to you, then he loves you!

However, love can be divided into two types: one is affectionate love: love and affection, one is the love of men and women: love. Therefore, family love is “like + habit”. The love of men and women is “like + hormones”.

Hehe, general engineering thinking likes to formulate complex descriptions. The above can be regarded as formulas.

Like it, no matter how much you love it, it’s nothing more than shocking eyes and lips, delighting, emotional, and emotional! Love is drunk with eyes and lips.

There is a connection between liking and love, and love must first have liking to lay the foundation. If there is no liking, there can be no love in the heart. It can only be deceived. Conspiracy, exchange of material desires, deduce likes and loves to fake sentiments, pretend to be, and play tricks. It is worthy of vigilance, improve the ability of discrimination, and beware of scams.

The difference between like and love is that like is the enthusiasm of love. Love is produced through the fermentation of warm soil. Love has desires. Like does not necessarily mean love. Love must have like. This is the difference, love is no doubt, love is loyal, behaves seriously, is sincere. Like is satisfied, the mood is optimistic about deliberateness, expressing happiness and not disgusting, appreciate the deeds, with the heart, accept quickly and easily give up. Love is heartfelt and warm, licking the heart, seeing blood stains, being affectionate, it is the palliative disease. Once you fall in love, you will not pull yourself away, it is difficult to give up, blast the fire, the passion is surging, the blood just fills the pulse, love does not Lazy.

Like generally pays attention to the outer surface, “at first sight” is casual and wilful; while love pays more attention to the deep inner exchange of ideas, “love is forever” is tolerance, dedication, and selfless giving. Not asking for anything in return. If there is no result if you like someone, you will not feel heartache, but if you love someone with no result, you will feel heartache. To endure the pain is to say the feeling of love, just like cutting out the heart.

Like is like, love is love, the pronunciation and writing of the two are different. Regarding the difference between like and love, some netizens have summed up a sharp response from God:

  1. To like is to take medicine, to love is to take a condom.
  2. I like to miss you, but love can’t help but fall on you.
  3. To like is to sleep with her for a while, to love is to sleep with her for a lifetime.
  4. To like is to untie your clothes, what goes is the kidney, love is to dispel your style, what goes is the heart.
  5. Like wants to take you to bed and have sex with you, love wants to take you home to see your parents.

There is one kind of emotion in the world called “like”, and the other kind is called “love”. Like and love are two different concepts.

Like:

Refers to a person who has a good opinion of another person and is willing to associate with him or her. There are older people who like younger generations, including children and peers. There are young people who like their seniors, including outsiders, to say hello when they meet, or are willing to help him or her, without giving back.

Love:

Generally refers to the emotion between the two sexes. Regardless of long-term liking or short-term liking, love must go through the process of liking. Only by liking a person can you have a deeper relationship with him and her, deepen mutual understanding, and develop from friendship in the process of getting along. To like, from like to love. It’s just that some of this kind of love is that one side admires the other, and some loves each other.

I think that liking and love are not only related to the relationship between the two of us, but may also be related to our age.

When I was in high school, there was a boy who I liked very much. At that time, I wanted to see him every day after class. I was very happy to see him. During the summer vacation, I called every day at home. I met when I was free. I wrote letters when I didn’t see him. Write a love poem to him, full of joy. That’s it, I didn’t think about anything else, I didn’t hold hands or kiss, but this time of love is strong.

Without knowledge, let me just talk about my opinions. I think there must be love between relatives, and most of them like it between male and female friends!

Let me give you an example. When talking about a girlfriend, I only hope that she is her own. No one can get her. She belongs to her. I want to be together every day. I like it very much! But after getting married, she is no longer a girlfriend, a wife, or a relative! It feels different. You can give your life and everything for her. When she marries someone else can be happier, it can make her live a better life. This is love!

Sometimes when I think about it, what should I do if I suddenly got cancer? Will distribute the few assets to his wife and elder brother, why do you want to give it to your elder brother? I definitely hope that he will do my share of filial piety for me. I have no chance. Then the divorce asked her to find a good-tempered husband. This is love! Rather than the kind of like that I wanted to selfishly own when I was young! Like is possessed! Love is dedication!

Is love a combination of like and appreciation?

Love is a combination of liking and appreciation. I agree with this point of view, and I think it is a more rational and perfect love. However, what I want to say is that I like the combination of liking and appreciation. Once loved, like is shallow, love is affectionate like. This sentence not only expresses the like and love, but also the difference between love and liking.

Appreciate, sometimes, or most of the time. It’s just an expression of love, not love. Believe, understand, and tolerate each other. Love is the mutual support of two people and the mutual respect and mutual respect.

What my understanding of love may be, but I only know that I can really be lucky enough to meet the person I love and love me, I will love it, care it, and cherish it! Having said so much, I believe you should understand the difference between like and love!

Destined love

“Sometimes the dreams that come true are the dreams you never even knew you had.”
By Alice Sebold

When I was a little girl, I knew that one day my wishful prince would come unexpectedly. I often imagine him riding a snow-white horse, he will invite me to seat at horseback and then ride me to his city. I believe that somewhere in this world there is a special person looking for me, just as I am looking for him. If it is destined, this kind of thing will happen.

I was 17 years old that year and he finally showed up. The young man’s name was Ted Bennington, and he was a new neighbor. My mother gave me a small gold box hung on a necklace on my birthday. The golden box is not new, but it is her collection for many years, and my mother always keeps this small box together with a few souvenirs that father gave her mother.

I said: “Mom, do you really want to give me the box? This belongs to you!”

Mom said: “Really! It really means a lot to me, but as I promise to myself that I will handover this box to you when you are 17 years old, and it’s belonged to you now my girl.”

There was an elusive look in my mother’s eyes. I glanced at her puzzled. In fact, the marriage between father and mother can be described as happily ever after. My father was warm and considerate, mum and dad always seemed to have unlimited happiness when they were together until my father died two years ago. I am secretly funny; I really don’t know what sad things will happen to my mother. But I do like this box, it is small and exquisite, shaped like a chicken heart, tied with a small gold chain, which makes people love it. But what makes my heart beat the most is that Ted Bennington gave me a simple blue headscarf with gold trim on it, which is really beautiful. I love the gifts Ted gave me, but I love him more. I like his pale-yellow curly hair hanging down on the front collar, bright and honest blue eyes also nice square jaw, it looks cute. He looks shy, likable, and serious, he looks so outstanding when compared with the glib tongue, self-righteous guys in our upper grades.

“Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it.”
By Nicholas Sparks

About two months ago, I started to pay attention to Ted, when he came to our class for only a month. He is a quiet boy and never participates in any team in the school. After class or on weekends, while other classmates were hanging out and having fun, he had to go to a grocery store to work. At that time, it was an alumni dance party. As a senior high school girl, you can’t have too many choices, because most boys in this grade give their hearts to the first and second high school girls. I had to make a list of the remaining boys and crossed out the ones that were too short, now only 4 people remained in my list. But three of them were either too fat or unable to get along with me or spitting when talking, Ted became the only candidate in the end. When he walked out of the classroom after class, I was waiting there, pretending to bump into a piece by accident.

I accosted and said: “Nancy is hosting a family dance this weekend, Ted, this is an event for women to invite men. Do you want to go?”

“Go? You mean to go with you?” he asked.

“Yes!” I said.

This, this, I must go, thank you! I’m happy to go.” He said.

He was a little flattered, really wondering if he had ever taken a girl to any place when he grew up. I can’t help thinking, maybe it was a mistake to invite him. Will everyone like him? The people who attended the prom were all mainstream figures in the school. Is Ted a group? However, everything at the party was pleasant. Ted tried his best to adapt to it, dancing, participating in games, and talking with people, it really seemed like a proficient socialist.

After the party he sent me home on the way, we talked about each other’s plans after graduation, I said that I will study secretarial major. He told me that he was working hard to get a scholarship from Durrain College and was going to study medical science there. The moonlight is dim and graceful, which makes people have an inexplicable impulse. Suddenly it became clear to me that my little empty hand was shaking on one side of my body, and I believed his hand was the same. I really don’t know how many times our little hands touched each other and how many times we were electrocuted? On this road, we two stopped talking, and instantly felt that there was only us left in the whole world, and suddenly felt that each other could hear each other’s nervous and excited heartbeats. Now we are enjoying walking silently in the moonlight. What’s even more inexplicable is that our hands slowly got together at each other without knowing when they started.

“Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”
By William Jennings Bryan

Ted took me to the alumni dance party, which seemed so natural. A feeling of heart trembling made me suddenly realize that Ted is the special person I have been expecting since I was young! Our feelings became more and more deep as time went by. We took a walk together, went hiking, and participated in a picnic party under the blue sky. Ted played a melodious guitar during the picnic, and we sang aloud together. These are days of infinite poetry and happiness. Then one day, Ted brought good news. He had won a scholarship from Durrain College.

Ted asked: “People would call me Doctor Bennington, how do you feel?”

I said: “It’s wonderful! But I will miss you.”

He said: “Me too, I wish you could go with me.”

I comforted him and said: “Don’t worry! I’ll be waiting for you here. Maybe I can find a job in that college before you graduate.”

Ted said: “That’s great, but I’m afraid.”

“What are you afraid of?” I asked.

Ted said: “Oh, everything is so perfect, I’m so afraid of losing you.”

“Blindly worry!” I said to him, “you won’t lose this destined love!” but I was wrong. In the first few months when Ted left me to go to college, we wrote letters to each other more diligently. But gradually, our letters became lesser and lesser, probably this is the beginning of the ending. He couldn’t go home together celebrate Thanksgiving, and when he came back at Christmas, I was getting measles. Finally, Ted has a new girlfriend. She is a classmate of their school. Ted wrote to say that he was sorry about it and said that he knew I would understand.

It was raining the day the letter was received. I lay on the bed listening to the patter of rain. I don’t hate Ted; I don’t even hate that girl. It’s just that I can’t believe what happened. At this moment, my mother walked in. I know what she is going to say.

Mum said: “There are other lads, you may not believe it now, but there will always be.”

I said: “Maybe, but Ted is my only beloved, I will never love again!”

Mom was silent for a while, and then said: ” Is the little gold box I gave you hanging on the necklace still there??

I said: “Little gold box? Oh, of course. It’s in the top drawer of the dressing table.”

Mom took out the little gold box and asked me to put it on. “Look,” she said, “this is the special lover who gave it to me when I was 17 years old.” I cherished the little gold box and thought of my dead father. What a happy life he once had with my mother!

“He is kind, likable, and different. I was convinced that he was the man I was destined for,” my mother said slowly, lost in thought, “but within a few days of our engagement, he died in A train accident.”

“What did you say?” I exclaimed, “I thought… You mean you had loved someone before Dad? The other person you thought was the most special?”

Mum said: “Yes, that’s the way it is, I think if I marry him, I am sure I will be very happy. But the result was that I married your father three years later. We also love each other, and I am also very happy with him.”   

“I don’t understand.” I said.

Mum Looked at me quietly and said: “Baby, what I want to tell you is that there is not only one special person in this world who will make us happy, but there are many such good people, Ted is just one of them. It’s just that he came too early.” . I almost cried because I felt that my childhood dream was being crushed.

Mum said softly: “One day, a good man will come at the right time, and he will be the one you are destined for.”

  She leaving me alone, walked out and closed the door gently. I’m listening to the sound of rain, I looked at the door my mother closed when she went out, but I thought of another door which was the other door of hope she opened for me just now.

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.”
By Bill Keane

“You remember your first love because they show you, prove to you, that you can love and be loved, that nothing in this world is deserved except for love, that love is both how you become a person and why.”

By John Green