Some people say that every person we meet in our lives who helps us is our noble person. Their appearance has warmed our lives. Maybe they gave us a hand when we were most desperate, or maybe they woke us up when they were full of ambition. In short, because of the appearance of nobles in this life, our lives have brilliance.
However, these nobles only flash in our lives, as gorgeous as fireworks but not long. How lucky we are to meet in this life; if not, it is normal.
Having gone through so many twists and turns and watching so many other people’s experiences, in my understanding, I always firmly believe that everyone has a real “noble person” in their life, that is, ourselves, and please cherish it for the rest of your life.
The meaning of hard work is to become your own nobleman for yourself, just like my dad always said: “The road must be walked by yourself, so that you can go wider and wider.”
No matter where we go, no matter what we do, we need to rely on ourselves for most of our lives. One of my noble said: “You cannot live without friends. Among all friends, the most important one cannot be missed, and that is myself.“
I have a friend who met when he was in college. At that time, he was positive, sunny, and brave. Many people liked him and pursued him. As the same sex, we never envied him for having so many girls like it. On the contrary, who doesn’t like such a big boy?
Later, we joined the same company, the performance was similar, but the reputation was different. He is willing to help others, always willing to extend a helping hand to others, and when others have difficulties, he is always willing to ask him for help.
Perhaps everyone’s life trajectory is really different. After two years of working together, we could have been promoted together, but he was lying in a hospital bed for half a year due to an accidental car accident. It was only half a year later that he knew that his legs would not return to the way they used to be in this life, that is to say, he could only spend the second half of his life in a wheelchair.
Because of his good popularity, so many nobles appeared in his life at this time. All the employees of the company did their best to collect enough medical expenses for him, so that he and his family do not have to worry about high medical expenses, and avoid the pain of running around and borrowing money;
The company paid for him to install a prosthesis, so that he can stand up temporarily by external force. If the company does not pay the money, he will not be able to install a prosthesis for at least five years on his own family alone; friends volunteered to take care of him , Accompany him to relax every day, and even friends do not think he has trouble taking him to travel together.
He said these people are the nobles in his life. Indeed, without the help of these nobles, he would not have gone so smoothly after being hospitalized.
But since he was discharged from the hospital, I have witnessed him sitting in a wheelchair playing basketball and watching him dancing with the help of a prosthesis. I personally witnessed him who never knew how to cook before, but now he cooks three meals a day for his family and friends.
The big boys who were originally sunny did not complain about themselves after losing their legs, but instead loved life even more. His change and mentality may be related to the help of relatives and friends. It is the hope that these nobles have given him to live, but his own heart is even more powerful.
Everyone gave him help only once, once or several times. Behind everyone’s invisible, he encourages himself and faces life positively every day. It is hard for us to imagine that he faces his own double in these days. The legs are how to try to stand, try to play basketball, and try to cook again and again. It is also difficult for us to imagine how he spends every night that is sleepless.
He tried countless times and failed countless times. The ultimate success relied on his own tempering thousands of times. If it were not his own will and yearning for life, even if the people around him helped him, it would be nothing more than a body of self-pity. It is him who makes his life meaningful; It was himself who gave himself a second life.
There is a saying, when you go to a high place, it is you who stabilize you; when you go to a low place, it is also you who make you survive.
I saw a question on a certain platform. Someone asked how I spent the hardest time in my life. Some people say that in that darkest moment, they said they pulled out of the abyss.
In a sense, the only real nobles in life are ourselves. We live in this world, and we all have our own established road to go. The difficulties and setbacks on this road can only be faced by ourselves, and no one can replace them.
My dad always said: “It is better to rely on others as self-reliance, and it is better to be a person than to be yourself.”
No matter when, we can really rely on ourselves. Just like this friend of mine, many people will think that he has benefited from the help of so many noble people in the second half of his life. But I think that the reason why these people lend a helping hand when he is the most difficult is because all his previous actions also brought warmth to others.
If he does not often help friends and colleagues, then these friends and colleagues are just expressing sympathy. If he is not diligent and hardworking at work, then the company is just giving some condolences out of humanitarianism. What he gets now is the blessing he has paid.
In the final analysis, the noble man in his life is still himself.
How short a person’s life is, but most people still don’t know how to cherish it. Most people complain about themselves, complain about their bad background, complain about bad work, complain about social injustice, complain about the lack of help from nobles, complain about people around them, and things around them are not going as smoothly. In fact, many times, it is these complaints that make our lives gloomy.
Everyone will experience suffering, and there is no absolute fairness in this society. We can only fight for what we want. There is no pie in the sky, and there is no free lunch. You will get as much as you pay. If you don’t work hard, you won’t gain, and if you don’t work, you won’t be rewarded.
Don’t complain about the so-called injustice, don’t complain about life because of difficulties, don’t sacrifice yourself for the grievances of others. Think of yourself as the most important person in your life, work hard to love yourself, work hard to love the world.
Even if you are in the darkest abyss, don’t give up on yourself, try to let yourself catch up with the sun, and live your splendid life actively and bravely, more than anything else.
There is only one life, and it deserves our best effort to give full play to its brilliance. When you learn to love yourself and cherish yourself, you will become a real noble person in your short life.
There is an essential difference between likeand love, but in real life, too many people confuse love with like.
Explained in the dictionary:
The word like refers to love in general, and happy. To like is a feeling, including appreciation, admiration, love, and worship.
EXAMPLE :We like him because he’s funny. He is happy-go-lucky. When we are with him, we feel like laughing until we want to break our stomachs. But, we won’t miss him very much if we don’t see him for a week… (in other words: like to be directed to someone who can be a comedian to us. We will tell him to shut up if we want to break up…)
Have deep feelings for people or things
EXAMPLE : We do expect him to be ours. Everything we do, if we can, I want him to know … and we probably don’t want to hurt him. We will always think about him. (In other words: love is directed to someone we always remember and dream .. Without him we will feel lonely and we love him wholeheartedly with a sincere heart even if he does not know)
“LIKE” is not equal to “LOVE“. Someone likes flowers but she will pinch them back and place them in a vase to admire them; and those who love flowers will take care of them, protect them, love them, and spend time for them, so this is ” LOVE“.
In fact, people are the same, some people misunderstand likes and loves, and mistake likes for love. Personally, people like things that are beautiful. So, likes are just a kind of appreciation. They are willing to pay for you all their lives, love you, and protect you, tolerate you, appreciate, and accommodate you is really called LOVE.
Like is a kind of appreciation, and love is a kind of responsibility. Like is a kind of pleasing oneself, and love is pleasing to others. Love is just moving your mouth, and love is running and breaking your legs. Love is a kind of sublimation of like!
First, the literal meaning is different. Like in the encyclopaedia means “joy, rejoice, happy”, the main body is oneself, which means to like is to meet something or people that can make me happy. Love in the encyclopaedia means “the happiness of giving actively”, and the subject is the other party, which means that how to do it can make the other party happy.
Second, the distinction between subject and object. In fact, it is mentioned earlier. Like is to please oneself, and love is to please others. Like is to satisfy one’s own pleasant feelings, while love is selfless giving.
Again, the degree of difference. Like is shallow love, and love is deep like. You don’t have to think about it, just follow your heart, thinking too much can be counterproductive!
Like is not love. Do you know why? Let me make an analogy. If you love your parents, you just like your parents? This is not necessarily, it depends on your definition.
“Love” can be selfless, what happens to “like”? “Like” can also mean that you have a good feeling, that is, if you have a good feeling for a man or woman, you can also say that you “like” him, but “love” is not. It’s the upgrade of “like”, and only when you like it, there will be love. It can be said that this is different.
I think like is the predecessor of love, and only when there is like, there is love. They are inseparable from each other. Just like the chicken or the egg came first, whichever one makes sense, the same goes for “like” and “love.”
Although both like and love are produced in the same process, there are still obvious differences between them. For example; when you do something for a person you like, you want her to see and know that you did it for her. And when you love to do something for a loved one, you do it silently, without asking for any reason, because love does not require any reason.
“Like” is like a little grass. Looking at that charming little grass every day, you can’t put it down. Water it all the time and give it plenty of sunshine for fear that it will wither away. When the grass grows up, you will find that you have become accustomed to it, you can’t do without it, and you always want to have it. Once you lose it you will inexplicably hurt, this is “love”.
Without likes, there will be no true love. Direct love, it’s not love, it’s just love formed by trading. Without love, there can be many likes, until you are tired, hated, and disinterested, maybe you don’t like it anymore.
It’s easy to like, but it’s hard to love. Some people like many people in their life, but they can’t get true love. Therefore, Xu Zhi Mo said: I will look for the most precious things in my life that can be known with my soul-mate, career, belief, pursuit, etc. If I pursue it, it is my honor; if I don’t pursue it, it is also my destiny.
Many people can’t distinguish what is like and what is love. Simply put, likes don’t need to be considered too much, and likes can be changed at any time. For example: I can like you today, and I can like her tomorrow. However, love is different. “Love” is restrained. Love is not a matter of one or two days but is permanent.
For example, when you like someone, you often inadvertently try various ways to attract the attention of the opposite sex and let him/her pay attention to you. Like is only a one-sided consideration. Generally speaking, it is not comprehensive, let alone the relationship between the two people from the perspective of the other person. Just thinking about how you treat him/her well. And love, will always help each other silently behind his back. He or she is happy or sad because of his/her emotions, so if you love the other person deeply, then every move of him/her will attract your attention.
Generally speaking, it is just verbal talk, and no actual action is taken. The time for liking someone is short, and will disappear with the passing of time. Loving someone is more than just verbal talk. He/she is full of my mind. Sometimes I can’t help but the urge to find her, contact him immediately, or come to him right away. It’s not just verbal talk.
Like a person, just enjoy the good time now, never caring about what life will be in the future. This is not the case with love. Loving someone will always consider for their future and plan the future lives of the two people.
Personally feel: “Like” is like you are fond of a good apple and want to eat it; “Love” is like you have finished eating the apple you like, carefully planting the seeds in the ground, and carefully caring for it to sprout. Grow into apple trees, cultivate and manage them with all their heart, until the fruit trees are full of apples again, and apples are loved by people…
Love is giving, sincere care and tolerance, do not ask for any return, just hope that the other party is joy and happy.
Like is possession, just want to ask for the companionship of the other party, think that if you pay, you must be rewarded, and if you don’t get any return, you will be preoccupied. These are two different concepts. Like is to pay and want some return, and love is to feel happy when you suffer!
Like is to see your advantages, love is to accommodate your shortcomings, like is to change you in the way he likes, love is that you can be yourself with peace of mind. Truly love a person, after being separated, you will miss it from the bottom of your heart, and you will fall into it when you meet…
Love is a feeling, shallow, temporary; love is a responsibility, deep, eternal.
Love is a lifelong thing, both emotional things, and rational things. Almost all love is long-term, almost always a lifetime thing. But likes are often short-term, although they also think rationally, but most of the time, emotional things seem to dominate, likes can be casual, but the word love often cannot be easily said.
The difference between liking and loving is that you will like a lot of people,and you can do it to like a lot of people. There are not many people you love in your heart for a lifetime, and it is difficult to love and like a person for a lifetime.
Like is the first sight, love is forever;
Like is not hate, love is hate and cannot be separated;
Like is to fall in love with strengths, and love is to live with weaknesses;
Like to want to have sex with you, to love to want to cook with you;
Love is fearless, you hold her hand and firmly believe that you can always be together forever.
Love is about gains and losses. After meeting her, your superiority and pride disappear without a trace, and you live without dignity. You are often worried and afraid of her leaving, because you can’t imagine what to do if she is missing in the future.
Like is the cause, love is the result.
Like is happiness and love is suffering. Only in this way will it be unforgettable and unforgettable.
Love is the starting point, love is the end, from the beginning to the end is the completion.
Love is unlimited giving? Don’t ask for anything in return. Like can be pursuit.
Most of the times, people with good looks like beautiful and handsome ones. Everyone possesses a heart to appreciate what is beautiful. As for love, it is through communication, chatting and socializing, that you can feel the feeling of heart trembling, toss, and turn, and it is difficult to fall asleep. Sometimes a very beautiful girl comes up with jokes or curses as soon as she opens her mouth, and the best image will collapse in an instant. Therefore, love and liking are a progressive relationship. If there is no liking, then there is no love, if you love it then it must be liked.
Of course, there is also love at first sight. The so-called “There is a maiden fair, whom a young man is wooing.” Falling in love is like playing a game called “fighting the landlord”. If you like him, you are willing to show him your biggest card, because you want to show him the best. If you love him, you are willing to show him all the small cards and hole cards, and if he sees your small cards and is willing to lose to you, then he loves you!
However, love can be divided into two types: one is affectionate love: love and affection, one is the love of men and women: love. Therefore, family love is “like + habit”. The love of men and women is “like + hormones”.
Hehe, general engineering thinking likes to formulate complex descriptions. The above can be regarded as formulas.
Like it, no matter how much you love it, it’s nothing more than shocking eyes and lips, delighting, emotional, and emotional! Love is drunk with eyes and lips.
There is a connection between liking and love, and love must first have liking to lay the foundation. If there is no liking, there can be no love in the heart. It can only be deceived. Conspiracy, exchange of material desires, deduce likes and loves to fake sentiments, pretend to be, and play tricks. It is worthy of vigilance, improve the ability of discrimination, and beware of scams.
The difference between like and love is that like is the enthusiasm of love. Love is produced through the fermentation of warm soil. Love has desires. Like does not necessarily mean love. Love must have like. This is the difference, love is no doubt, love is loyal, behaves seriously, is sincere. Like is satisfied, the mood is optimistic about deliberateness, expressing happiness and not disgusting, appreciate the deeds, with the heart, accept quickly and easily give up. Love is heartfelt and warm, licking the heart, seeing blood stains, being affectionate, it is the palliative disease. Once you fall in love, you will not pull yourself away, it is difficult to give up, blast the fire, the passion is surging, the blood just fills the pulse, love does not Lazy.
Like generally pays attention to the outer surface, “at first sight” is casual and wilful; while love pays more attention to the deep inner exchange of ideas, “love is forever” is tolerance, dedication, and selfless giving. Not asking for anything in return. If there is no result if you like someone, you will not feel heartache, but if you love someone with no result, you will feel heartache. To endure the pain is to say the feeling of love, just like cutting out the heart.
Like is like, love is love, the pronunciation and writing of the two are different. Regarding the difference between like and love, some netizens have summed up a sharp response from God:
To like is to take medicine, to love is to take a condom.
I like to miss you, but love can’t help but fall on you.
To like is to sleep with her for a while, to love is to sleep with her for a lifetime.
To like is to untie your clothes, what goes is the kidney, love is to dispel your style, what goes is the heart.
Like wants to take you to bed and have sex with you, love wants to take you home to see your parents.
There is one kind of emotion in the world called “like”, and the other kind is called “love”. Like and love are two different concepts.
Refers to a person who has a good opinion of another person and is willing to associate with him or her. There are older people who like younger generations, including children and peers. There are young people who like their seniors, including outsiders, to say hello when they meet, or are willing to help him or her, without giving back.
Generally refers to the emotion between the two sexes. Regardless of long-term liking or short-term liking, love must go through the process of liking. Only by liking a person can you have a deeper relationship with him and her, deepen mutual understanding, and develop from friendship in the process of getting along. To like, from like to love. It’s just that some of this kind of love is that one side admires the other, and some loves each other.
I think that liking and love are not only related to the relationship between the two of us, but may also be related to our age.
When I was in high school, there was a boy who I liked very much. At that time, I wanted to see him every day after class. I was very happy to see him. During the summer vacation, I called every day at home. I met when I was free. I wrote letters when I didn’t see him. Write a love poem to him, full of joy. That’s it, I didn’t think about anything else, I didn’t hold hands or kiss, but this time of love is strong.
Without knowledge, let me just talk about my opinions. I think there must be love between relatives, and most of them like it between male and female friends!
Let me give you an example. When talking about a girlfriend, I only hope that she is her own. No one can get her. She belongs to her. I want to be together every day. I like it very much! But after getting married, she is no longer a girlfriend, a wife, or a relative! It feels different. You can give your life and everything for her. When she marries someone else can be happier, it can make her live a better life. This is love!
Sometimes when I think about it, what should I do if I suddenly got cancer? Will distribute the few assets to his wife and elder brother, why do you want to give it to your elder brother? I definitely hope that he will do my share of filial piety for me. I have no chance. Then the divorce asked her to find a good-tempered husband. This is love! Rather than the kind of like that I wanted to selfishly own when I was young! Like is possessed! Love is dedication!
Is love a combination of like and appreciation?
Love is a combination of liking and appreciation. I agree with this point of view, and I think it is a more rational and perfect love. However, what I want to say is that I like the combination of liking and appreciation. Once loved, like is shallow, love is affectionate like. This sentence not only expresses the like and love, but also the difference between love and liking.
Appreciate, sometimes, or most of the time. It’s just an expression of love, not love. Believe, understand, and tolerate each other. Love is the mutual support of two people and the mutual respect and mutual respect.
What my understanding of love may be, but I only know that I can really be lucky enough to meet the person I love and love me, I will love it, care it, and cherish it! Having said so much, I believe you should understand the difference between like and love!