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There are six kinds of disasters that cause money to dissipate and lead to evil ways

There are six kinds of scourges for good children, and it should be known that not only the loss of money will also lead to evil ways. Which six?

  1. Addicted to wine and wandering.
  2. Going in and out of other people’s homes from time to time
    • There are two meanings here:
      • Going in and out of other rooms, it is easy to disturb others.
      • It may lead to evil karma that creates evil. ——<< The Immeasurable Life Sūtra>> note: “Because of his fancy appearance, he feels hatred for his own wife. In private, he often communicates with his lover and creates evil karma. It is illegal to cost and damage family wealth.”).
  3. Love gambling games and wander freely
  4. Love kabuki music.
  5. Make bad friends.
  6. The behavior is lazy and slack.  

The Buddha speaks of its Righteousness with Praise:

Indulge in wine and enter other rooms, betting and game fans singing and dancing; It is not praised by sages to make wicked friends and slack off.

Drinking will produce six changes, which should be known. Which six?

  1. Is to consume money.
  2. Excessive drinking causes illness.
  3. It is prone to disputes after being drunk.
  4. It is because drinking will cause more anger.
  5. It is the gaffe after drinking that will bring bad reputation.
  6. Drinking alcohol will damage the mind.

After drinking alcohol, it is easy to waste one’s own business, the unearned money cannot be obtained, the already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

There are six kinds of changes in licentiousness. You should know which six kinds of changes?

  1. Can’t protect one’s health.
  2. Can’t protect his wife and children.
  3. Inability to protect and considerate family members.
  4. This person feels uneasy due to various incidents caused by suspicion.
  5. It is convenient to blame the enemy.
  6. Surrounded and persecuted by many troubles.

If you have this bad karma, it is easy to waste your career. Unearned money will lead to inability to obtain, and already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

There are six changes in gambling games, which should be known. Which six?

  1. Winning will cause resentment in the opponent’s heart.
  2. Losing this person’s heart is anxious and feverish.
  3. Friends and family members are worried and sad about this.
  4. Blame the enemy and feel happy about it.
  5. Gambling can lead to crimes in prison.
  6. The behavior of the gambler makes everyone suspicious.

If you have this bad karma, it is easy to waste your career. Unearned money will lead to inability to obtain, and already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

There are six changes in music preference, which should be known. Which six?

  1. All my mind is spent dancing.
  2. The mind is spent on singing and singing.
  3. The mind is spent on string sound and string music.
  4. All my thoughts are spent on the beat of the music.
  5. My mind is spent on drumming.
  6. My mind is spent on things related to singing and dancing.

If you have this bad karma, it is easy to waste your career. Unearned money will lead to inability to obtain, and already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

Making bad friends will produce six changes, which should be known. Which six?

  1. Often drunk and confused.
  2. Often confused.
  3. Will often indulge arbitrarily.
  4. Often soak in the tavern.
  5. Often get close to the villain.
  6. Often speaks vulgarly.

If you have this bad karma, it is easy to waste your career. Unearned money will lead to inability to obtain, and already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

Laziness and slackness can produce six kinds of changes, which should be known. Which six?

  1. Don’t want to work when you are full.
  2. Don’t want to work when you are hungry.
  3. Don’t want to work when it’s cold.
  4. Don’t want to work when it’s hot.
  5. Don’t want to work in the morning.
  6. Don’t want to work in the evening.

If you have this bad karma, it is easy to waste your career. Unearned money will lead to inability to obtain, and already earned will dissipate, and many years of savings will be exhausted.

Be a real noble person

In daily life, everyone hopes to meet the noble person and hope that the noble person can help. However, some people often take it for granted when they receive assistance from others, and even complain about the other party: “It is not enough for you to help a little bit, you should continue to help!” What’s more, the noble person has already appeared in front of you. But still ignorant or careless to identify the person of importance or great ability, thinking that the other party is nosy.

If you meet someone with this kind of mentality, it’s like an idiom that i have read: “A dog biting Lu Dong Bin and to ill reward a person’s kindness.” Lu Dong Bin took some food to feed the dog because of his kindness. As a result, the dog was not grateful, but bit him back. There are many such situations in society. You help the other person. Not only does he not know how to be grateful, but he even blames you for troubles. No matter how kind you treat him, he is dissatisfied, and may even return favour and revenge. Encountering such a thing, it is difficult for people to balance, what should we do at this time?

Lü Dongbin (796 CE-1016 CE) is a legendary Chinese scholar and poet said to have lived during the Tang Dynasty. Whether he actually lived the two hundred and twenty years cannot be determined. Elevated to the status of an immortal in the Chinese cultural sphere by Daoists, he is one of the most widely known of the group of deities known as the Eight Immortals. Lü is also a historical figure and mentioned in the official history book History of Song. He is widely considered to be one of the earliest masters of neidan, or internal alchemy. He is also depicted in art dressed as a scholar carrying a sword to dispel evil spirits.

Therefore, a scholar once told me: “Good people are difficult to do, and good doors are difficult to open.” Therefore, to be a small good person, you can’t be a big good person; To do small good things, you can’t do big good things; If you want to open the door of small goodness, you can’t open the door of great goodness.”

I ask him why? He said: “When a person is hungry, you give him a catty of rice and let him take it home to cook, he will be very grateful, because without this bowl of rice, he may not be able to survive. But if you take it People who have no food to eat are raised at home and give him food every day. When you ask him to help with things, he may become disgusted: ‘What’s so great, I’m just eating a few bites of your meal, what do you think of me?’ Gradually, such psychological contradictions and conflicts will appear.”

This layman’s statement is very interesting, and the reason seems to be correct, but in fact it is not completely correct.

For example, as long as someone knows that Fagushan or so-called Dharma Drum Mountain is an international Buddhist spiritual is doing relief work, they will come to the door one after another, hoping that we will give them money and materials. If they feel that we are not giving enough, they will shout loudly: “Buddha should be very merciful, why are you so so? No mercy?” So some people think that if we never do charity work, no one knows, and no one will call us or beg us.

Dharma Drum Mountain is an international Buddhist spiritual, cultural, and educational foundation founded by late Chan master Sheng-yen. The center focuses on educating the public in Buddhism with the goal of improving the world and establishing a “Pure Land on Earth” through Buddhist education.

But there must be mutual assistance and cooperation between people. When you have the resources and ability, you should try to help others. As for whether others regard you as a noble person, it doesn’t matter. Although there may be some sequelae, if you want to do good deeds, open good doors, and be others’ nobles, you shouldn’t care about it, and you shouldn’t hope to get thanks from others after doing good deeds. Doing good things is simply because you are “willing” to do it. When the other person gets help, you feel very happy. This is the reward you get from helping others. As for how others will criticize and treat yourself in the future, you don’t need to care too much.

Therefore, if you want to be someone else’s real noble person, you should try your best to do what you can do. Other people’s criticism, slander, and excessive demands do not need to be taken into consideration. Because no matter how others scolded, it is his business and has nothing to do with him; if you should not be scolded and get scolded, it is the wrongdoing of others, you don’t need to be angry or discouraged. As long as you can dedicate yourself, you should feel happy.

There is actually only one true “noble person” in life, but unfortunately many people don’t know how to cherish it.

Some people say that every person we meet in our lives who helps us is our noble person. Their appearance has warmed our lives. Maybe they gave us a hand when we were most desperate, or maybe they woke us up when they were full of ambition. In short, because of the appearance of nobles in this life, our lives have brilliance.

However, these nobles only flash in our lives, as gorgeous as fireworks but not long. How lucky we are to meet in this life; if not, it is normal.

Having gone through so many twists and turns and watching so many other people’s experiences, in my understanding, I always firmly believe that everyone has a real “noble person” in their life, that is, ourselves, and please cherish it for the rest of your life.

The meaning of hard work is to become your own nobleman for yourself, just like my dad always said: “The road must be walked by yourself, so that you can go wider and wider.”

No matter where we go, no matter what we do, we need to rely on ourselves for most of our lives. One of my noble said: “You cannot live without friends. Among all friends, the most important one cannot be missed, and that is myself.

I have a friend who met when he was in college. At that time, he was positive, sunny, and brave. Many people liked him and pursued him. As the same sex, we never envied him for having so many girls like it. On the contrary, who doesn’t like such a big boy?

Later, we joined the same company, the performance was similar, but the reputation was different. He is willing to help others, always willing to extend a helping hand to others, and when others have difficulties, he is always willing to ask him for help.

Perhaps everyone’s life trajectory is really different. After two years of working together, we could have been promoted together, but he was lying in a hospital bed for half a year due to an accidental car accident. It was only half a year later that he knew that his legs would not return to the way they used to be in this life, that is to say, he could only spend the second half of his life in a wheelchair.

Because of his good popularity, so many nobles appeared in his life at this time. All the employees of the company did their best to collect enough medical expenses for him, so that he and his family do not have to worry about high medical expenses, and avoid the pain of running around and borrowing money;

The company paid for him to install a prosthesis, so that he can stand up temporarily by external force. If the company does not pay the money, he will not be able to install a prosthesis for at least five years on his own family alone; friends volunteered to take care of him , Accompany him to relax every day, and even friends do not think he has trouble taking him to travel together.

He said these people are the nobles in his life. Indeed, without the help of these nobles, he would not have gone so smoothly after being hospitalized.

But since he was discharged from the hospital, I have witnessed him sitting in a wheelchair playing basketball and watching him dancing with the help of a prosthesis. I personally witnessed him who never knew how to cook before, but now he cooks three meals a day for his family and friends.

The big boys who were originally sunny did not complain about themselves after losing their legs, but instead loved life even more. His change and mentality may be related to the help of relatives and friends. It is the hope that these nobles have given him to live, but his own heart is even more powerful.

Everyone gave him help only once, once or several times. Behind everyone’s invisible, he encourages himself and faces life positively every day. It is hard for us to imagine that he faces his own double in these days. The legs are how to try to stand, try to play basketball, and try to cook again and again. It is also difficult for us to imagine how he spends every night that is sleepless.

He tried countless times and failed countless times. The ultimate success relied on his own tempering thousands of times. If it were not his own will and yearning for life, even if the people around him helped him, it would be nothing more than a body of self-pity. It is him who makes his life meaningful; It was himself who gave himself a second life.

There is a saying, when you go to a high place, it is you who stabilize you; when you go to a low place, it is also you who make you survive.

I saw a question on a certain platform. Someone asked how I spent the hardest time in my life. Some people say that in that darkest moment, they said they pulled out of the abyss.

In a sense, the only real nobles in life are ourselves. We live in this world, and we all have our own established road to go. The difficulties and setbacks on this road can only be faced by ourselves, and no one can replace them.

My dad always said: “It is better to rely on others as self-reliance, and it is better to be a person than to be yourself.”

No matter when, we can really rely on ourselves. Just like this friend of mine, many people will think that he has benefited from the help of so many noble people in the second half of his life. But I think that the reason why these people lend a helping hand when he is the most difficult is because all his previous actions also brought warmth to others.

If he does not often help friends and colleagues, then these friends and colleagues are just expressing sympathy. If he is not diligent and hardworking at work, then the company is just giving some condolences out of humanitarianism. What he gets now is the blessing he has paid.

In the final analysis, the noble man in his life is still himself.

How short a person’s life is, but most people still don’t know how to cherish it. Most people complain about themselves, complain about their bad background, complain about bad work, complain about social injustice, complain about the lack of help from nobles, complain about people around them, and things around them are not going as smoothly. In fact, many times, it is these complaints that make our lives gloomy.

Everyone will experience suffering, and there is no absolute fairness in this society. We can only fight for what we want. There is no pie in the sky, and there is no free lunch. You will get as much as you pay. If you don’t work hard, you won’t gain, and if you don’t work, you won’t be rewarded.

Don’t complain about the so-called injustice, don’t complain about life because of difficulties, don’t sacrifice yourself for the grievances of others. Think of yourself as the most important person in your life, work hard to love yourself, work hard to love the world.

Even if you are in the darkest abyss, don’t give up on yourself, try to let yourself catch up with the sun, and live your splendid life actively and bravely, more than anything else.

There is only one life, and it deserves our best effort to give full play to its brilliance. When you learn to love yourself and cherish yourself, you will become a real noble person in your short life.

Late Wedding – Chapter 18 – It’s pride to like him

Chapter 18 – It’s pride to like him

They came out for official business. The soldiers didn’t even carry their mobile phones, so how could they carry bank cards.

Lord Lu touched the bottom pocket of his body and counted the RMB, a total of 206 yuan. The total amount of debt owed by Man Man is still 3,689, the difference is not a little.

The Lord’s eyes flew to the Gao Da Shuai without hesitation, “What did you say last night?”

“You said, all the brothers in the car said that if one party is in trouble, the other party will be together?”

If you throw it out, you won’t be able to collect it back like water.

Gao Da Shuai was crying at this moment, and after touching his body of three hundred and twenty yuan, he dedicated all his money to help Lord Lu pay off his debts. When it was still not enough, Yao Zi Ye who was present also went through his pockets to make money.

As a result, all the brothers in the car were mobilized to touch their own money to support. One of the brothers had only fifty cents in his pocket and said, “You and I don’t want the fifty cents, right? I want to give it to the beggar, and the beggar will refuse to not want it.”

Gao Da Shuai took away the fifty cents from his fingers and raised his eyebrows without saying a word: “We are now selling iron and we have to take out a penny. All we have to do is to take off the uniform given by the army-to sell ourselves.”

Sell yourself?

These soldiers may be poor, but they are sturdy, and the flesh underneath is all tempting.

The little girls on the spot blushed but couldn’t resist looking at the soldiers with fascinating eyes.

This kind of predicament has never been encountered before, and his face is so dark that he can’t be darker. First, he stares at Gao Da Shuai with cold eyes: “You want to sell yourself, don’t you?”

The difference between the money collected by everyone and the total debt payment is 24.9 yuan.

The other soldiers immediately surrounded Gao Da Shuai and moved the buttons on his clothes: “Da Shuai, would you like us to say something to you and see how much a piece of meat will start at auction.”

Gao Da Shuai couldn’t resist so many hands, he simply rolled up his two sleeves and said, “What’s the matter? It’s not that I haven’t tried shirtless and chopping bricks in the sun! “

Are you really going to take it off?

The little girls are excited!

The staff in charge of the collection had long received the cold eyes of the soldiers, and hurriedly called to stop: “Forget it, our hospital posted this 24.9 yuan.”

This is like a word.

Lei Feng is only allowed to learn from Brother Soldier, can’t you white-clothed angels learn it?

After a group of soldiers donated all their belongings, they are prepared to leave.

Behind the scenes, the people in the hospital were probably kind, saying to them: “In the future, if you see that this kind of patient has no money, don’t help them to do too many tests advocating the use of good medicine.”

The standard military posture of the soldiers, “Huh”, turning around, shooting arrows in their eyes, ten thousand arrows piercing through the heart.

“You, say, what?” Lord Lu’s eyes were not called sarcastic at this moment, but it was cold, and the surrounding temperature dropped to below zero. No one dared to meet his eyes, let alone say something.

The person who said the wrong thing lowered his head under his collar to reflect in circles.

Lord Lu wanted to capture the woman who had fled back and kill her! Doesn’t it mean that he can watch a lively life die. Last night, if you didn’t check and prescribe the right medicine, given the woman’s inherently weaker physical condition than ordinary people, she would be dead if she was delayed in treatment.

This group of people is called white angels in vain. No wonder the people who call the hospital outside are called white-eyed wolves.

Having said that, he didn’t even know the name of the woman who escaped.

The military cap was put on the top of the head properly, and the rotating five-pointed star was aligned with the middle of the eyebrows. I didn’t care about the three thousand six hundred or so but thought that the woman could wake up and rush to escape under such a physical condition.

Isn’t it easy to take out five hundred yuan and shake his face?

“Lord Jun.” Yao Zi Ye whispered behind him in the car.

“What’s the matter?” Lord Lu turned his head quickly, because Yao Zi Ye’s voice sounded different from usual at this moment.

“I remember that before we set off this time, you said that the family found Niu Niu”, didn’t you?”

The two pairs of eyes matched with too many complicated emotions.

Lord Lu whispered: “What is the specific situation, I won’t know until I go home this time.”

Yao Zi Ye didn’t say anything, his long eyebrows flying diagonally into the temple hid deep longing, wearing a military cap and boarding the military vehicle, walked to the back of the vehicle, and couldn’t help but shake when he saw where she was sitting last night.

Her pale little face and ink-like eyeballs suddenly appeared in front of him. Last night, with a light press, the extremely beautiful plum blossom appeared on her soft palm, and his heart was moved.

He sat down, but only freed the place where she was sitting, groping with his palm on the leather of the chair she had sat on, as if feeling the residual warmth, she had left behind.

Man Man finally waited for the car of Chu Xia Du Yu.

Chu Xia jumped out of the car and hurriedly ran towards Man Man. The two sisters face each other, experiencing a night of life-and-death isolation. Thousands of words poured into their throats, but they were all silent.

“Hey—” Chu Xia sighed, “I’m not good. I knew I wouldn’t put you in the car alone.”

“Let’s go.” Man Man shook her head, took her hand, and sighed likewise, “I have to rush back to the hospital to pay the money.”

The two of them entered the car, opened the chatterbox, and kept talking.

Chu Xia cursed that this hospital is not something, and the slaughter does not use this method of slaughter. Even if the money is really burned, it will not be burned so quickly. The hospital thinks that the patients are all printing banknotes.

“However, this time it was good and very fast recover.” Man Man returned, wondering where the more than three thousand six hundred were spent, and whether it was worth it.

We drove to the hospital safely.

The three of them walked into the emergency room. At this moment, it was more than half a morning before Lu Jun and his military vehicle left.

The people in the hospital were shocked when she saw the escaped patient turned back by herself.

“I’m here to pay for the medical expenses. Because you didn’t let me be discharged from the hospital this morning. I can only leave a note on the table.” Man Man expressed her intention to come back simply and clearly.

The people in the hospital are all guilty. This is great! Misunderstood her, especially the group of soldiers.

In other words, that group of soldiers learned Lei Feng thoroughly enough, and left no information when they left, and it was even more obvious that they did not covet the money at all.

She heard that the soldiers had paid for the medical expenses and did not leave a name for good deeds. Man Man and the three others looked at each other.

Chu Xia finally sighed: “It seems that my five hundred yuan is worth the money.”

The feelings in Man Man’s heart were quite complicated, and now she recalled what happened on the military vehicle last night and felt that the group of people was not so annoying.

That’s why Man Man and the others increasingly think that the hospital cannot be “pitted” by these soldiers, and they must tell the hospital in detail how these 3,600-odd soldiers were burned out.

The people in the hospital hurriedly dismissed the responsibility: “It was not our idea to give you these tests and use these medicines. There are two doctors in the group of comrades in the People’s Liberation Army who sent you.”

So, did the comrades of the People’s Liberation Army burn her more than 3,600?

Man Man and the three of them suddenly popped out an immoral word in their minds: self-inflicted.

Pooh Pooh. Du Yu slapped his face first.

Man Man told the people in the hospital: “If they call back, you must notify us immediately.” She said, leaving her own mobile phone number again.

Walking out of the emergency room of the hospital, she couldn’t help taking out the mobile phone in her bag to read the text messages. She didn’t see a letter from him. However, the man in military uniform like him saved her life last night, and she has something to say to him. Say, speak proud: The man I like is a soldier.

chapter 19 – Finally spoke to him

Late Wedding – Chapter 17 – Sorrowful Army Master

Chapter 17 – Sorrowful Army Master

After escorting the patient back for a CT scan, Yao Zi Ye sat on the bench next to the bed to take a breath.

A small hand slipped out of the sheet, and he gently grabbed the small hand and turned it over when he was about to put it into the pit. He saw her tender palm, pale complexion, and transparent like cicada wings.

At that moment he seemed to be manipulated by something, curiously picked up his finger and gently pressed it in the centre of her palm~

A red smoke suddenly appeared between the thin white palms, like a stone thrown in a lake, and the ripples that spread out, looked like the red plum buds that bloomed overnight, and the beauty was extremely beautiful.

He was shocked by this vision, but he grabbed her hand for a long time and didn’t let go.

Gao Da Shuai opened the curtain of the emergency room of the hospital and walked in. Seeing his appearance, he laughed at him: “Lord Yao, do you think people are ugly? You see how you are now.”

He calmly put her little hand in the bed, Yao Zi Ye turned around and asked him, turning off the topic in a serious tone: “Aren’t you caught by the doctor for questioning? How do you say it?”

“Lord Lu was threatened by the doctor to sign, and he didn’t know when he could contact the patient’s family.” At this point, Gao Da Shuai sighed like a warrior in sad autumn, “I think these five hundred dollars are a little outweighed by the loss.”

Of course, it is not himself who is sad, but Lord Lu.

Yao Zi Ye also found it funny, but he didn’t dare to laugh.

Seeing that the Lord should have just been called by the doctor to give a lecture, he walked in with an extremely black face.

Gao Da Shuai immediately shut his mouth: The lord’s face at the moment is like Yama.

“She sleeps like this now, maybe it will be the night, the doctor in the hospital will not let us go, he is afraid that if she is dead, it will be difficult to explain.” Lord Lu’s emotions belonged to emotions, and in principle he did not dare to neglect at all. “All of you go back to the military academy first! I will stay with her until her relatives come to pick her up.”

Gao Da Shuai and Yao Zi Ye looked at each other: they agreed that the next scene would be very interesting, and they had no reason not to stay and watch it, presumably the brothers in the car thought so.

Anyway, they are returning from a mission, and it doesn’t matter if they return to the military academy late at night. Besides, if they heard that they were following Lei Feng’s behaviour in the school, they would want them to stay.

Besides, regardless of official or private matters, they tend to stay. On behalf of all the buddies in the car, Gao Da Shuai pretended to put on the shoulders of the Lord and said: “They are all brothers who were born to death, how could everyone let you stay and die alone?”

The Lord forever is lord, and his face was unchanging when he was ridiculed: “If you want to stay, you can stay.” After finishing speaking, he went outside to find another place to stay overnight.

The two remaining people looked at each other.

“Lord Yao, you want to stay with the beauties. I’ll go with the Lord.” Gao Da Shuai wanted to stay and watch the show, but he didn’t really want to stay here to watch the patient overnight and plan to find a place to doze off.

“Don’t go too far, I can’t call you if there is anything.” Yao Zi Ye confessed.

They were away on duty and couldn’t bring their personal mobile phones.

“Okay.” After a mouthful, Gao Da Shuai went out to find someone to continue talking.

Looking back at the small face of *****, there is no big glasses covering the ugly face, the slenderness of the skin and the delicate features of the facial features can be seen under the light, not the most beautiful proportion, but there is another kind of moving beauty.

Yao Zi Ye stared at this face, as if to dig it into his mind.

Throughout the night, Man Man slept very hard and did not feel conscious. When she woke up, everything she saw was white, and she immediately guessed that she was in the hospital. But unlike the past, the surroundings were deserted and there was no one to accompany her, not even ‘early summer’. She thought of what her father had told her before she left. This person really went out of the field. Once something happened, she would be unaccompanied and left in a lonely situation.

When Chu Xia pulled her to chase the off-road vehicle, she came out in a hurry, with nothing on her body, only a few hundred dollars stuffed in her trouser pocket. She wondered if she should make a phone call to Chu Xia. As for the family, don’t let her father worry about her.

She got up and felt that she was much better, and her stomach was not so uncomfortable. She didn’t know whether it was due to medicine or getting out of the car to sleep to refresh her energy.

She took a needle on the back of her hand and looked at the iron rod for ****, there were as many as two or three bottles of ****. She had tape attached to her body and three wires connected to a small machine on the bedside table.

Man Man was frightened. She was not frightened by the fact that she was seriously ill, but based on her previous hospitalization experience, she knew that this small machine called a medical monitor could burn patients’ money.

Just in time, a nurse came over and saw her awake to ask about her condition and take her temperature.

Man Man asked: “How much did I spend last night?”

“What?” The young nurse froze first, then realized that she was asking for medical expenses, and said, “I’ll check it on the computer for you.”

About ten minutes later, the little nurse came to get her a thermometer and told her the answer by the way: “As of this morning, it was more than three thousand and six hundred.” After saying that, he never forgot to tell: “Your hospitalization deposit has not been paid. Except for the remaining balance, another 5,000-yuan deposit must be paid.”

More than three thousand six hundred?

Burned more than 3,600 yuan in just one night?

How did it burn?

She used to hang potion in the emergency room for less than 1,000 yuan for three days.

She knows her own illness best, and she certainly can’t spend so much.

Man Man’s mind was shaken by this astonishing number.

Seeing the white figure of the little nurse about to float out of the curtain, Man Man chased and shouted, “I am going to be discharged from the hospital now.”

The nurse turned around sharply and stared at her horribly: “Discharged? You are now a patient with a critical illness notice. If you are discharged from the hospital, our hospital will not be responsible!”

Doesn’t this hospital let people be discharged?

She recalled that Driver Wang said nothing was wrong. The hospital was a money-making machine that turned around all day, and it was especially scary here.

Man Man made a decisive decision and tore off the wire connected to her body. She pulled out the hanging pin from the back of her hand and jumped out of the bed. Fortunately, the people in the hospital didn’t change her clothes and pants. The money in her trouser pocket was still there. Then she retrieved the big glasses on the bedside table and put them back on the bridge of her nose. There happened to be a pen on the table, and she picked up a cigarette case on the ground and opened the cardboard. She wrote a line of characters and her mobile phone number on it, stating that she was not escaping and not repaying the cost of the medicine. She was going to collect the cost of the medicine to repay the money, and then put the written note under the monitor.

While the nurse was busy early in the morning, Man Man slipped out of the hospital.

She stopped the car and drove herself to the nearest highway entrance. She found the public phone and dialled Chu Xia to talk about what happened last night.

Chu Xia heard that she was taken to the hospital and was “slaughtered”. She and Du Yu rushed to the place she said. But the traffic jam has not been completely cleared, so it will take a long time to get to Man Man.

At this time, because Gao Da Shuai who was guarding the patient for Yao Zi Ye left and went to the toilet, he found that the patient was missing when he came back.

As a result, the hospital was like a blasted pot.

In the morning, when the auntie cleaner was cleaning the tabletop, she swept the cigarette paper with Man Man’s words into the garbage bag.

It is not something that patients have not tried to escape if they have no money to pay for medical expenses, and more than three thousand and six hundred are not a small number.

A group of medical staff had no choice but to catch the group of buddies who sent the patient alive and ask them to explain.

Lord Lu’s black face eased a little in the middle of the night. In the early morning, he was woken up and said that it was the patient who had fled and asked him to pay off his debt. He rushed out with a black pan.

Now it’s not just Gao Da Shuai, all the buddies agree that: the five hundred dollars is collected, but it is not a small loss compared to the medical expenses.

chapter 18 – It’s pride to like him

Late Wedding – Chapter 16 – Military Men

Late Wedding - Chapter 16 - Military Men

Chapter 16 – Military Men

Man Man knew that she couldn’t be called a beautiful woman, so she took this question as the wind blew in her ears.

“Lord Yao, we have fifty men in this car, and a woman is in the car. What if this is not a beautiful woman?” Gao Da Shuai asked.

“Like you said, fifty men came, and one woman was a beautiful woman. Couldn’t it be ugly–“ Halfway through the bickering, he realized that this was too straightforward, so Yao Zi Ye stopped.

The eyebrows of the Liu Ye Chang flew diagonally to the temple, and he looked at Man Man’s quiet and watery face, as if the sky was struck by thunder without moving.

Gao Da Shuai stuck to his ear: “Look, although this looks not very good, but the temperament is unusual?”

With a punch to the chest of Gao Da Shuai, he grabbed the army uniform that had just been used as a quilt and threw it on his shoulders. Yao Zi Ye moved a little bit to show his mouth.

Army boss is really army boss. He doesn’t even bother to stand up and give her a seat.

If it is a beautiful woman, it will be treated differently.

Man Man has always been dismissive of such people, but the military uniforms on these people make her look dazzling. The men she likes are also soldiers, but by contrast, she feels that these men insulted by wearing military uniforms.

The colic in the stomach made her bend down and walk inside. She sat in the seat by the window, leaning her head against the cold window glass, like a block of ice covering her hot forehead.

After closing her eyes for only a few minutes, she found that the car kept stopping and driving, causing her uncomfortable stomach to churn, and her ears were not peaceful for a second.

“Lord Yao, don’t you play cards?”

“Are you all awake?”

“Here comes a beautiful woman, this is not all awake.”

These eldest soldiers, as soon as they had fun, all the sleepers ran away.

“Gao Da Shuai, how did she get in the car?”

“Lord Lu collected five hundred yuan for the boarding fee.”

“Five hundred dollars? Rich girl? Can’t see it? This chick–”

Man Man’s eyes were open, and the big black glasses couldn’t cover the watery eyes below. At this moment, she seemed to be examining their military uniforms. Not only the soldier who said the wrong thing, but the other soldiers felt a terrifying aura.

“What little chick? She is a beautiful comrade! Be careful when you speak, comrades.” Gao Da Shuai coughed.

“Dismiss! Dismiss! The beautiful comrades are not happy.” Yao Zi Ye is Mr. Yao. When he said something much more powerful than Gao Da Shuai, the crowd immediately dispersed.

With this sentence alone, Gao Da Shuai saw Man Man’s eyes poking on Yao Zi Ye’s back again and said: “You speak carefully. She is staring at you.”

“Stare at me?” Lord Yao’s long eyebrows flew to Man Man’s black glasses.

The ink pupil under the lens is like a drop of ink on rice paper, full of watery beauty.

This woman, as the tall handsome said, her appearance is not so good, her aura is extraordinary, and she attracted his sight. Even Bai Lu, the number one beauty in the military, has never made him so gaffe.

After a moment of silence, the eyes of the two of them froze in the small space.

Man Man thought that this person was speechless and lacking in quality. She looked at him more when she was upset but realized that this person was quite special. Especially his eyes, based on the analysis of her painter, she has never seen the eyebrows and eyebrows of people grow close to the temples. Such eyes are not dan’s eyes, but contain double eyelids, which reminds her of ancient times. The white-clothed general in the ink painting is beautiful but heroic.

Another burst of colic in the stomach, Man Man covered the eyelids.

“Lord Yao, do you think the beautiful comrades are dazzled?” Gao Da Shuai inserted teasing at the right time.

“Speaking and shutting up is the beautiful comrade, you are really not serious at all!” With a low drink, as if venting depressed, Yao Zi Ye put away the half-hanger in front of him and asked in a solemn voice, “Why did Lu Jun put people in the car?”

“This–I really don’t know.” Gao Shuai painfully recalled the wonderful opening he missed, “When I went there, I only saw five renminbi like lottery tickets thrown on Lord Lu’s head.  Lord Lu is worthy of Lord, he just calms down, if it were me, I would have thrown back ten sheets.”

Oh! No! Lord Lu came over.

“My lord, are you always here to inspect the prisoners?” Gao Da Shuai kept playing with a ridiculous smile.

As a result, it was not without accident that Lu Jun was very rude and slammed.

Gao Da Shuai hurriedly changed his words: “Comrade beauty is like a sleeping beauty, just fell asleep again.”

“Push her awake, I have something to ask her.”

The cold voice fell into Man Man’s ears. Man Man snapped his eyelids open before someone touched her shoulder.

Yao Zi Ye retracted his hand and pulled the clothes on his shoulders.

Man Man raised her eyes, touched those cold eyes, and gently bit his lips.

If possible, she also didn’t want to say a word to this person.

“I ask you, where do you want to get off?” Lord Lu asked.

“Let me down at the nearest pharmacy.” Man Man said, but he didn’t expect to toss in this car, even his voice became dull and crisp.

The three people looked at her for a minute of suspicion.

Man Man had no time to shrink her head, and a palm was pressed against her forehead.

Liu Ye frowned and turned into a big mountain. Yao Zi Ye turned to face the other two people and asked, “Is she sick just to get in the car?”

Gao Da Shuai hurriedly dismissed his responsibility: “She can walk by herself when she gets in the car.”

“Is there a high fever?” Lord Lu asked back, his voice was cold, but there was a slight ups and downs.

“It’s more than a high fever!” Yao Zi Ye said displeased and touched his pulse on Man Man’s little wrist. This touch changed his face.

“What’s the matter?” Pushing Gao Da Shuai away, Lord Lu leaned forward. After all, he brought people up, and he was responsible. This time, I took a closer look and found that the little face under the glasses was full of sweat, and if my lips hadn’t been bitten red with their teeth, they would have been white and bloodless.

“Why don’t you say that you are feeling well?!”

Suddenly, with a roar, Man Man’s ears were almost blown off.

Man Man opened her eyes wide, and couldn’t believe that she met the eyes of Lord Lu.

Isn’t it the cold blood military who doesn’t let people get on a military vehicle regardless of whether they are dead or alive?

At this time, the Lord’s angry eyes are just afraid that he will take the responsibility. The corner of Man Man’s mouth evoked a hint of sarcasm: “Don’t worry, let me go to the pharmacy.”

“What are you going to do at the pharmacy? Can you go to the pharmacy in this situation?” He gave her a sharp glance, perhaps because he was accustomed to giving orders. Lord Lu turned around and said to Gao Da Shuai, “Let the car go to the hospital.”

“I told you to go to the pharmacy!” She was furious but stood up, but the soles of her feet were floating.

Hey!

A string of exclamations.

Two big hands embraced her dumped body.

“Hey, comrade beautiful girl, comrade beautiful girl—”

Man Man finally struggled between the eyes, saw some green shadows, thought of that person, and closed it.

The galloping military vehicle sounded the alarm and hurried all the way to the nearest second-level regional hospital.

It was a cold emergency room. Suddenly, a troop bus rushed to the door. Several soldiers carried the patient and rushed into the emergency room.

Seeing the crowd coming fiercely, the hospital did not dare to neglect. Immediately give the patient a needle, draw blood, and check. Because some of the more expensive examination items are involved, and because the patient’s condition looks dangerous, the doctor on duty finds the group of soldiers who sent the patient and says, “This patient is going to be in critical condition. Notice. Who of you is the patient’s family member?”

“We–“ The soldiers looked all over the Lord.

Lord Lu was pushed to the forefront by everyone’s eyes and lifted the pen.

“What is your relationship with the patient?” the doctor on duty asked again.

Lord Lu didn’t get the pen to write, and said, “We just saw her sick in the middle of the road and sent her over.”

It turned out to be a good comrade of the People’s Liberation Army who learned from Lei Feng. The doctor on duty seems to have a sense.

Gao Da Shuai pouted his mouth behind the Lord: Come on, she paid five hundred yuan to let people get on the bus.

CHAPTER 17 – Sorrowful Army Master

After reading these 5 stories, let you suddenly realize. . . . .

Past Life and Present Life

Once upon a time, there was a scholar who had an appointment with his fiancée to get married on a certain day of a certain month in a certain year. On that day, the fiancée married someone else. Scholars have been hit by this and can’t afford to be sick.

At this time, a traveling monk passed by and took out a mirror from his arms and asked the scholar to look at it. The scholar saw the vast ocean, and a murdered woman was lying naked on the beach. A person passing by, took a look, shook his head, and left. Another person passed by, took off his clothes, covered the woman’s body, and left. Another person passed by, went over, dug a hole, and carefully buried the body.

The monk explained that the female corpse on the beach is your fiancée’s previous life. You are the second person to pass by and once gave her a dress. She is in love with you in this life, just to repay you. But in the end, she wants to repay the person who lives forever, the last person to bury her, and that person is his current husband. The scholar realized his illness and healed.

The Child’s Heart

A single woman had just moved. She found a poor family living next door, a widow and two children. One night, there was a sudden power failure in that area, and the woman had to light a candle by herself.

After a while, she suddenly heard someone knock on the door. It turned out to be the child of the neighbour next door. He asked nervously, “Auntie, do you have candles in your house?” The woman thought: Is their family so poor that they don’t even have candles? Don’t borrow them, lest you be dependent on them! So, he yelled at the child and said, “No!”

Just as she was about to close the door, the poor boy showed a smile of love and said, “I knew that there must be no candles in your house!” After finishing speaking, he took out two candles from his arms and said, “Mom and I were afraid that you would live alone without candles, so I brought two to send you.” At this moment, the woman blamed herself and was moved to tears, and she hug the child tightly in her arms.

Pure Heart

There was a small town that hadn’t rained for a long time, causing heavy losses to the local crops, so the priest gathered everyone and prepared to hold a prayer meeting in the church to pray for rain. There was a little girl in the crowd. Because she was too small, almost no one could see her, but she also came to participate in the rain prayer meeting.  

At this time, the priest noticed what the little girl had brought, and excitedly pointed at her on the stage: “That little sister touched me very much!” So, everyone looked in the direction of his fingers.

The pastor went on to say, “We came to pray today for God to rain, but she was the only one in the whole synagogue with an umbrella today!” Everyone took a closer look, and sure enough, a small red umbrella hung next to her seat; at this time, everyone was quiet for a while, followed by a burst of applause and tears intertwined with the beauty.  

Sometimes we have to say: children are not small at all; they are actually very big! Their love is great! Their confidence is great!

We are only inconvenient for three hours

Luckily, I booked a ticket back to my husband’s house with my husband that day. After getting on the bus, I found a lady sitting in our seat. My husband motioned to me to sit next to her first but did not ask the lady to give way. I took a closer look and found that her right foot was a little inconvenient, so I realized why my husband didn’t ask her to give up her seat.

He just stood from Chiayi to Taipei, and never told the lady that the seat belonged to him. After getting off the bus, I said to him, who was distressed about her husband “Giving way is a good deed, but for so long from Chiayi to Taipei, you can ask her to return her seat to you halfway and let you sit down.” The husband said, “People are not convenient for a lifetime, and we are only inconvenient for these three hours.”

When my husband said that I was very touched. Having such a good husband who is kind and unwelcome makes me feel that the world has become much gentler.

If the mind turns, the world may be different from then on. In life, everything could turn, depending on how we think and turn. We may not succeed in three minutes, but maybe if it takes that minute, life will be different from now on.

The elderly couple lives in a hotel

One early spring night, everyone was asleep, and an elderly couple walked into a hotel, but the hotel was full.

The clerk at the front desk couldn’t bear to let the old couple go to find other hotel late at night, so he led them to a room: “Maybe it’s not the best, but at least you don’t have to run around.”

When the old man saw the neat and clean house, he lived in happily with his wife.

The next day, when they were about to check out, the waiter said, “No, because you live in my room. I wish you a pleasant journey!”

It turned out that he himself spent the whole night at the front desk. The old man was very touched and said, “My child, you are the best hotel operator I have ever seen. You will be rewarded.” The clerk smiled, sent the old man out, and turned around and forgot about it.

One day, he received a letter with a one-way ticket to New York, and he came to a magnificent building as indicated in the letter. It turned out that late at night he received a billionaire and his wife. The rich man bought a big hotel for the clerk and was convinced that he would manage the big hotel well.

This is the legendary story of the famous Hilton Hotel and his first manager.

The cause and effect are in your own hands! When the masters have not yet clearly defined their grand goals in life, they have done the present things with their heart!

Everyone is a waiter, and greatness always starts with serving others first. How great a person’s ability to serve others is, how great is his life’s achievement!

The clerk was Boldt and the elderly gent was William Waldorf Astor. The building he pointed to was the Waldorf Astoria, in all its glory. 

The original hotel started as two hotels on Fifth Avenue built by feuding relatives. The first hotel, the 13-story, 450-room Waldorf Hotel, designed by Henry Janeway Hardenbergh in the German Renaissance style, was opened on March 13, 1893, at the corner of Fifth Avenue and 33rd Street, on the site where millionaire developer William Waldorf Astor had his mansion.

William Waldorf “Willy” Astor, 1st Viscount Astor

(March 31, 1848 – October 18, 1919) was an American-British attorney, politician, businessman (hotels and newspapers), and philanthropist. Astor was a scion of the very wealthy Astor family of New York City. He moved to Britain in 1891, became a British subject in 1899, and was made a peer as Baron Astor in 1916 and Viscount Astor in 1917 for his contributions to war charities.

George Charles Boldt Sr. 

(April 25, 1851 – December 5, 1916) was a Prussian-born American hotelier. A self-made millionaire, he influenced the development of the urban hotel as a civic social center and luxury destination.

Inspirational quotes to make your life no longer confused

This is a realistic society, feelings can’t be eaten as food, and poor couples are sad. Don’t believe the storyline in the movie, it’s just a place for many strangers to hustle and bustle emotions. Only irrational and unrealistic people believe.

Set goals for yourself, one year, two years, five years, maybe you were born not as good as others, but through hard work, you can often change 70% of your destiny. Remember, broken cans can only be friends with the cowardly.

Friends invite you to dinner, don’t take it for granted, please be courteous, otherwise your reputation will get worse and worse.

Among good friends, you must cultivate a confidant. Don’t think that you are so exquisite and you are friends everywhere. In the end, there is only one who truly treats you, trust me.

Don’t believe in fortune-telling, constellation and numerology, it is to coax children, and fate is in your own hands. Sitting at home and waiting for a house or car, it is better to sleep and have a good dream.

People we don’t like should be contacted less, but don’t speak ill of others behind your back. People who like to gossip must be a gossiper. Remember, disaster always comes out of your mouth.

Play less games, this is not Korea, you can’t hit the house, the car, and the capital. You can have hobbies, but grasp the scale and play less farm, ranch, landlord fighting and other highly attractive promotion games. Maybe your level is very high, but it doesn’t mean how successful you are. On the contrary, it will affect and occupy the time of your success.

People have inertia, which is inherent, but we can change this inertia, because many people are changing. Don’t wait for someone else to do it before saying: “I just thought of it” for a certain thing or business. Don’t wait until others have already made money to say: “I just want to do it.” No one believes in the market and opportunities, and what everyone believes in is called inflation.

Know what you want to do? In the dead of night, you should ask yourself what your future plans are, and move in that direction to realize them. Instead of doing nothing and doing unnecessary things.

Way out? When you go out, there is always a way. Difficulties? It must be difficult to be stuck at home all day.

As a woman, don’t think that you are better than others because of your age and qualifications. Think that your career has nothing to do with yourself, and don’t think that you are just washing clothes, cooking, and looking after your children. That would be a big mistake.

To be a human being, to be accomplished; filial piety is the priority in all things, teach children the way of character, husband and wife are harmonious and beautiful, and happiness is forever. But these are not things that can be done just by talking about them. To do this in the early years of liberation requires a lot of effort and hard work. Today’s realistic society requires you to pay a lot of money, and smart people know this truth.

Don’t often go online to do boring things and play some meaningless games in your free time. Read some literary works, learn some business processes, management practices, international current affairs, and legal common sense. This will ensure that you will be able to talk at any gathering.

I would rather kill a thousand times by mistake from all aspects of the information, and I will not miss any chance of success. Only then will you not buy regret medicine.

Classic inspirational quotes Ver.3

It’s not that the more people you know, the better. Don’t squeeze in a circle that can’t be squeezed; Don’t use it as bragging capital to know who has seen whom. Keep your anger and don’t go to others, the miracles of others have nothing to do with you; Don’t chase what you can’t get, and never pay attention to what makes you angry. Read more, walk more, go to school, go to work, and travel on the road.

Everyone is growing, we will encounter many temptations, suffer many injuries, and see many incredible people and things. Really, we all encounter many wicked people who are selfish and disputed. But no matter what, you must remember, don’t let all this change your heart. Because our initial simplicity is the most precious thing in life. If you don’t change your original intention, you will always be you.

If you cry, your opponent will laugh. If you laugh, your opponent will cry. Life is like an angry bird. Every time you fail, there are always a few pigs laughing. All you must do is to ignore the ridicule and cheer yourself up. Smile confidently, then do what you need to do confidently. Be brave, it’s no big deal!

We must not be afraid of failure, we must have the spirit of repeated failures, and regard failure as a stepping-stone to success. When you suffer more failures, you will get closer and closer to success. Of course, you must have enough ability to resist failure, and continue to work hard and enterprising. Self-reliance is like the salt in a dish for a woman, a little less, no problem, no problem at all, the problem is big.

Let the long river of life and history carry memories, let every memory bloom with beautiful waves, the dance melody of youth is leisurely, the drums on the way forward, life is like an ancient battlefield, urging war drums and retreating gongs. As long as the drum in your heart doesn’t stop, there is no reason for you to stop. You can’t sound the gong to retreat until the moment your life stops breathing.

Don’t lose ambitions and desires—This refers to ambitions and desires in a positive state, which can make a person’s power to the fullest, and can force a person to give everything to eliminate all obstacles. They can make people move forward at full speed without worries about the future. Therefore, we should maintain a kind of ambition and desire and don’t throw them away.

In the wind and rain, even if you are blown down, people must dare to crawl forward in the mud. Through all the hardships, even if they are overwhelmed, people must dare to stand upright under the heavy pressure. Time condenses the past into memory. You can look back, but you can’t turn back. All the partings you have and lost cannot be changed. No matter how bad fate is, we must move forward.

In the face of the road of life, I always firmly believe that every person who has the courage to cross the obstacles through the clutter is wonderful everywhere on the road of life. The station on the side of the road is a place for us to rest in life. Stop there for a while, maybe we will meet many passers-by, all because of fate. But most of the passers-by are passing by, but some passers-by make you moved and don’t want to leave.

After facing so many accidents, we know how to persevere; But it’s not just talking about it, you must pay a lot to have it; And on the road of persistence, I have no complaints and no regrets. I always believe in me who insists on walking, even if it looks a little weak, but I have my attitude and I have my persistence. I believe in tomorrow! Believe in love! Will create all miracles.

Classic inspirational quotes Ver.2

If you don’t clench your fist, you don’t know how powerful you are; If you don’t grit your teeth, you don’t know how cruel your persistence is; If you don’t stomp your feet, you don’t know how correct your decisiveness is; If you don’t stare, you don’t know how strong your heart is. The strongest competitiveness has only two words: ACTION.

Chasing dreams should be full of passion, the body is full of energy, and the heart is extraordinarily full, rather than a sickly and depressed person at this moment. Youth, how can it wither away because of a failure, but should be high-spirited, full of conviction, grasp the best years, and fulfil the wishes and dreams made in the past.

Life does not have to be perfect, if it is wonderful. People’s teeth are hard, and their tongues are soft. At the end of life, the teeth are all lost, but the tongue does not fall. Therefore, life can be long if it is soft, but hard is a disadvantage. A soft heart is the greatest improvement in practice. People who generally describe attachments say that your heart is hard, like steel.

You must work hard for what you want, and you must give it to yourself. The deeper you camp about certain things, the more troubled you are, and the more persistent you are about certain people, the tighter the bondage. In the world, there are a few people who are in harmony with the world and a few people have left behind the gains and losses. Only a thought is the scenery, what is forgotten is the smoke and the interpersonal relationship, there are still a few people who remember your smile, and a few people wipe away your tears.

When difficulties come, please raise your left hand, the left hand represents the direction, it will not bow to difficulties; when encountering setbacks, please raise your right hand, the right hand represents hope, it will not be frustration worry. When the left hand claps the right hand, our pace has a rhythm, when the right hand claps the left hand, our strength is active!

When the late wind blows the leaves, spring is waiting to wake up. You leave the footprints of your heart in the dusk, so that the hurried years are also confused. If we were separated in yesterday’s drift, we would rub our shoulders in the wind and not be able to see each other. I will wait for the dawn in the cold night, and bathe in the dawn with you when all things are revived!

Life is understood because of experience. Only if you have suffered from life can you be peaceful and indifferent. If a person has not tasted bitterness, it is difficult to know the taste of sweetness. Facing suffering bravely and overcoming suffering optimistically is also a kind of practice. There is no eternal night, there is no eternal winter, the suffering will eventually pass, and the sun is always behind the wind and rain!

People will always encounter setbacks, there will always be low ebbs, there will be times when they are not understood, there will be times when they are not satisfactory, there will be times when they are sullen. These times are precisely the most critical moments in life. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and look forward with confidence, believing that life will not abandon you, and destiny will not abandon you. If you can’t stand loneliness, you won’t see the prosperity.

You can be short of money; you can’t be short of virtue. You can lose your word; you can’t lose your trust. You can fall, you can’t kneel. You can ask for a name, you can’t steal a name. You can be low, you can’t fall. You can relax, you can’t indulge. You can be vain; you can’t be hypocritical. You can be ordinary; you can’t be mediocre. You can be romantic; you can’t be debauchery. You can be angry; you can’t make trouble.

Time lurks in the eyes of the years, following the rotation of the four seasons, rhythmicating youth and passion. The years of striving to realize dreams are called youth, and it is always young and young. Dreams are folded paper cranes, flying under the sky of life in the breeze of hope. Tireless, not afraid of risks, eternal faith clinging to that faraway place!

Classic inspirational quotes Ver.1

The joy of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not the end of struggle, but the process of hard work. You must go your own way, no one can replace it. Life is like a boat, vacillating; life is like water, plain and most beautiful; life is like hemp, inextricably linked. Life is as expected, ups and downs; life is like wine, pure but not greasy; life is like bamboo, step by step. Life is to be born and live.

The facts are already established, and you can’t help you decide, and you can’t change them. The only thing we can do is to continuously increase our competitiveness, obtain greater social resources, reduce the negative energy on our body a little bit, and step by step to squeeze ourselves out of the stupid team. Stand taller, even if it’s only a little bit, there will be less choppy around you.

In the journey of life, the best among those women has the courage to strut. They have an open mind and a broad natural future. They don’t blame the sky because of the violent snowstorm, they don’t blame the ground because of their stumbling feet, and they don’t blame others for rubbing shoulders one after another. Raise your chest and clink glasses with thunder; dedicate your blood to fight against the sun, respecting others as yourself, and guarding yourself as you are.

I have admired the splendour of life, and I have been obsessed with the bleakness of the value of life. In my life, there seems to be a lack of the most peaceful colour, and this colour, which cannot be made up for by the day after tomorrow, is born in the beginning. Contradictions exist in everyone, just because of shallow and deep reasons. The spirit is refreshed by you; the look is calm and stable for you.

Persevere in our inner dreams, even if there are real obstacles, so what, take the courage to move forward and fight for the dream. Persevering in one’s dream is not simply an infatuation, nor a rigid determination. It is perseverance and never give up. Do more for your dreams, believe in yourself, you can do it too!

For so many years, I have been at war with my own heart, because I am afraid of falling into sorrow and being rejected by others; however, now I understand that if you cannot love, life is meaningless. I always think that others have the courage to love, but I don’t. However, now I find that I can love. Even if love means farewell to loneliness or sadness, it is worth everything.

I just want to be an ordinary person and don’t want so much burden. I don’t want to experience great joy and sadness, I don’t want to bear too much expectation, I want to make life simple, I want to let myself go with the flow, occasionally quietly fantasizing, and occasionally shallow romance. But too often, I can only bear the burden and be strong alone. In this rushed world, no one has time to take care of you. If you are not strong, who will be brave for you.

Farewell, farewell to myself yesterday. I don’t want to talk about what’s behind me. I just know that every time I turn a page, I don’t want to look back again. How many times have my feet hurt during the journey that I can’t turn back, I just look forward to seeing if I can get a bright day in front of me.

Sometimes we are habitually worried about what will happen tomorrow and what to do and want to solve tomorrow’s worries as soon as possible. But if you really have trouble tomorrow, you will not be able to solve it today. Seriously living in the moment is the truest attitude towards life. Every day, there are daily life lessons to be handed in. It is already very good to work hard to do today’s homework!

Rolls-Royce, this is the only one in the world! Don’t ask yourself if you can do it, just ask yourself if you want it, if you want it, if you want it, you can, if you can, you can do it. Always remember what you want, not what you fear. The choice is before the action, the action is after the decision! The choice is greater than the effort! The direction is wrong and the effort is in vain!

Late Wedding – Chapter 15 – Stop the military vehicle

Chapter 15 – Stop the military vehicle

Man Man and the others got off the train in Shi Jia Zhuang. Because Du Yu ordered a batch of decoration materials and goods in Shi Jia Zhuang before and bought a small truck to take it to Beijing by himself. These things in Shi Jia Zhuang are cheaper than in Beijing, including some daily necessities. They were in the wholesale market in Shi Jia Zhuang along the road. Man Man and Chu Xia bought some more things and threw them on the small truck by the way.

In this way, after staying in Shi Jia Zhuang for one night, the three of them recharged and set off for Beijing early the next day, which is expected to take four or five hours by car.

Leave early, find a local driver who is familiar with the road, driver Wang, and show them the way when they return to Beijing together. They are countless, not counted as encountering a major traffic jam.

“It is said that the surface of several places is dry and cracked, and the road section is being repaired.” Driver Wang walked to the front and asked people, then came back and said, “It was blocked since the middle of the night last night. It was supposed to be accessible this morning, but it has not been finished repaired yet. No one on the road today knew it, so it was blocked.”

Traffic jams are the most feared, because they can’t walk in front of the village or shop at the back. They see that they have walked two-thirds of the journey.

Driver Wang brought a few plastics lunch boxes back from wherever he went. The three people simply ate lunch in the car. In the afternoon, the small truck followed the car in front, rubbing the road like a turtle. By five or six o’clock, they couldn’t even buy lunch boxes.

Chu Xia searched the bag for Master Bao Kang’s blueberry sandwich biscuits and distributed them to Man Man.

Man Man curled up on her seat like a limp worm. She shook her head: “I have no appetite and don’t want to eat.”

She touched Man Man’s forehead a bit hot, and the Chu Xia probe pointed to Du Yu in the front seat and said: “I felt something wrong with the lunch box at noon. Man Man’s stomach is weaker than mine, I’m afraid she can’t stand it anymore.”

The two of them have been together with Man Man for so long, and they both know that Man Man’s stomach disease is out of hand. Chu Xia remembers very well that every time Man Man went to the hospital with a stomach problem in college, she couldn’t be discharged without tossing for a few days. At this thought, both were scared out of a cold sweat.

Du Yu hurriedly got out of the car and ran to discuss with Driver Wang. I wanted to find a traffic policeman to explain the situation and clear the way for them. After a long walk, they couldn’t find a policeman.

Driver Wang suggested: Call the emergency call.

Man Man insisted on sitting up: “No need. I’ll be fine later.”

Seeing that the patient seemed to be able to hold on, Driver Wang said to the three of them: “To be honest, if she can’t go to the hospital, don’t go first. Hospitals in Beijing burn the most money. One of my relatives stayed in the hospital for ten days and spent almost eighty thousand without getting better. End up, he was carried home but cured himself.”

The three of them heard him say this, especially Man Man, she was reluctant to go to the hospital anymore.

But the traffic jam is still blocked, if you can find a pharmacy to buy two stool medicines, it can help the patient alleviate the condition. According to this idea, when Chu Xia saw a green off-road bus like a military vehicle grazing the emergency lane next to the minivan, she made a decisive decision and took Man Man out of the car.

It is said that it is an emergency lane. In the case of heavy traffic jams, some vehicles regardless of traffic rules are blocked in the emergency lane. However, military vehicles performing official duties have the priority to drive. If the alarm is raised, other vehicles must give way to it. In this way, military vehicles must be much faster than other vehicles.

At that moment when a few vehicles were blocking in front and the military vehicle stopped, Chu Xia rushed to catch up with Man Man, and slapped the door of the military vehicle.

When the car door opened, she saw the driver wearing a military uniform. She thought that she was really a comrade of the People’s Army, and she should speak very well, and said, “Sir, my friend is sick and can’t move in the traffic jam now. Can you help my friend get into the city first?”

The driver may be just a soldier, afraid to catch the idea, looking back expectantly: “Lord Lu, someone wants to get in our car.”

“Who?” With a strong male voice, a tall soldier appeared at the door of the car. The small orange light in the car pecked out his two thick and sharp eyebrows, his face was beautifully lined but full of toughness, and his ink-stained eyes were like knives, poking straight into the human spine.

Like Chu Xia, people who are not afraid of the sky and fearlessly shiver when they first touch his eyes.

Man Man felt that this person was not easy to provoke, and whispered: “Chu Xia, let’s go.”

Go? Why go? Didn’t the People’s Liberation Army save the people in dire straits? Chu Xia stood still and had to let Man Man get on this military vehicle.

“Patient?” Lord Lu squinted indifferently to Man Man’s small face hidden in the dark. He was not so pale when he saw, “We are not an ambulance.”

When the hard-lined figure turns, the car door closes.

Chu Xia squeezed the door of the car and shouted angrily: “Why are you unreasonable? Are you the People’s Liberation Army?”

Forced to turn around, he raised his thick eyebrows: “I said, it’s a military vehicle, not an ambulance. I can call for an ambulance for you.”

“We just don’t want to call an ambulance now. This car is jammed like this, how long will it take for the ambulance to come here.” Chu Xia bit him and held on.

“Lord Lu–“ The soldiers who drove felt that the noise would go on endlessly, and they couldn’t really push the woman out of the car, so it’s better to forget.

“Can the military truck be towered by others?” He said lightly and harshly, and the soldier immediately shut his mouth. Turning his head, the corners of his indifferent lips hooked up, and he wiped out a sneer: “You probably don’t think that if you call for an ambulance, you have to spend money, and you don’t have to spend money on a military vehicle.”

“What are you talking about?!” Chu Xia was irritated, and she stared at him tit-for-tatly, “I think you’re the only money enthusiast! How much do you charge to get my friend in the car?”

A knife-point wink swept over their two simple cotton shirts and jeans, and said, “Five hundred.”

Man Man’s small face turned from white to black. Chu Xia’s fists were shaking.

The man put a hand on the car seat and looked down at them with a look that seemed to have known it.

Riding a tiger is hard to get off (it’s mean get into a position from which there is no retiring).

It’s really going to leave him right now, she might be looked down upon by people like him for the rest of her life!

Clicked to open the wallet and found five red papers worth 100 yuan.

“Chu Xia–“ Man Man resisted the colic in her stomach, hurriedly hopped into the car in stride, but was too late to stop it.

Five renminbi “snapped” were slammed on the man’s head, and the man was motionless. Under their angry gaze, they didn’t pick up one renminbi. They just turned their faces slightly and said to the soldier who was driving: “Let her get into the car.”

Man Man was anxious to put her hand into her trouser pocket, and she was going to return the money to Chu Xia. Chu Xia held down her hand and told: “You keep the money for yourself. It costs money to buy medicine in the city. I don’t know how expensive this pharmacy in the city is. Call me if you have any questions.”

“Chu Xia.” Man Man hesitated to speak.

She patted her shoulder, Chu Xia got out of the car and watched the car door close.

Passing through the brown car window, Man Man saw the shadow of Chu Xia submerged in the traffic. She stood unable to move for a while, and she was cold all over. She only saw the attitude called Lu Jun just now, and she didn’t necessarily know how nice the people in this car would be. Looking over the corner of her eyes, she happened to meet those cold ink pupils, and her teeth bit her lower lip.

The man really didn’t even want to care about her and pointed to the other soldier and said: “Gao Da Shuai, find a seat for her.”

The new soldier seemed to be more polite to her, with a smile: “Come here.”

Moving forward, she found that the military vehicle was basically full. Soldiers are either wearing long-sleeved light green army shirts or wearing a military jacket outside. Leaning heads against each other and dozing off, each of them looked tired.

Walking to the last row of seats at the end of the car, she saw a person lying flat on the seat of four or five people. The handsome kicked on the seat and shouted, “Lord Yao, get up!”

After shouting twice, the soldier did not move, as if he was asleep.

Gao Da Shuai had to leaned down, pressed his ears, and shouted: “Yao Zi Ye, get up quickly for me, there is a beautiful woman!”

Perhaps the word “beauty” had the effect. The dead fish-like uncle of the soldier suddenly struck a carp, sat up, raised his head, and met Man Man’s small face with glasses, and narrowed his narrow eyes: “This is a beauty?”

CHAPTER 16 – Military men

Late Wedding – Chapter 14 – Go See Him

Chapter 14 – Go See Him

A week after Jiang Yan left, Du Yu and Chu Xia decided to drift north in advance due to some incidents. The time is set in four days.

Chu Xia discussed with Man Man. Considering that Jiang Yan was in Beijing, Man Man had already wanted to drift north. Anyway, Man Man would follow them to Beijing this time and only stay for a few months. Men and women who have just fallen in love, if they are in a long-distance relationship, it is easy to get cold.

Time is running out. Man Man returned home that night and saw that her mother and Yuan Yuan were not there. She immediately told Wen Shi Xuan about this.

Wen Shixuan heard her say that she was leaving in four days, and he couldn’t bear to say, “Can you? The weather in the north is no better than in the south.”

As a father, he is afraid that his daughter will suffer more than at home when he goes out, and that Man Man is thinner, so he is afraid that her body will not be able to stand it. Wouldn’t it be better if she is fully prepared before leaving?

“The weather is warm now, and Chu Xia and Du Yu are just short of staff, I just can help.” Man Man really wanted to help her friends start the business and chose to go with them. Usually, Chu Xia helps her not only a little bit.

Seeing his daughter’s decision had been made, Wen Shi Xuan said: “Okay. After you go to Beijing, I will talk to your mother again.”

The two father and daughter agreed to act first and report later. After all, Xu Yu’e didn’t give up on Jin Ruo Wen’s proposal, and talked about it at the dinner table every day. Wen Shi Xuan was also afraid if Man Man stays at home, she will be forced to marry by Xu Yu’e sooner or later. This dad doesn’t like his own daughter marrying a rich boss to support her own family.

Man Man was worried about revealing, and while Yuanyuan was not at home, she only secretly packed some of the most used things with her. As for the savings, take them all with her. She worked for a few years and accumulated less than 10,000 yuan because of the large expenses at home. Fortunately, Du Yu and early summer said that she would pay for her food and accommodation and transportation. When she went there, she only needed to buy some daily necessities, and the cost should not be large.

Even so, Wen Shi Xuan secretly stuffed her a sum of money the night she was about to leave. A thick bundle of renminbi frightened Man Man.

“Dad?” Man Man conservatively estimated that there were at least five thousand in it. This amount shocked her heart. She didn’t know the financial situation of the family, and she was going to send it back to Wen Shi Xuan soon.

“Dad kept it from your mother and saved it for you and Yuanyuan. One for you, one for Yuanyuan.” Wen Shi Xuan didn’t allow her to plug it back in, and Qian told Wan, “If you go there and you lack money to spend, call dad. Dad will send it to you when he tightens his pants.”

“Dad–” Man Man said in her voice, meditating in her heart that she would earn a lot of money in Beijing to give back to her father anyway.

Wen Shi Xuan sniffed. At this time, he, the father, must be stronger than his daughter: “Although you are sisters with Chu Xia, you are not family members after all. Remember, if something happens, be sure to call home. No matter how bad the family is, if you have difficulties, the family will definitely not care about you.”

“I remember.” Man Man nodded repeatedly.

Wen Shi Xuan searched for a bowel movement and didn’t explain it yet, and said, “Before you leave tomorrow, go and say hello to your grandma.”

Wen Shi Xuan is a filial son. Although he did not give his mother a wealth of wealth and enjoyment, he did not forget to educate his children to be filial to the elderly.

With a mouthful, Man Man went to her grandma’s house first after sending her luggage to Chu Xia the next morning.

Granny Wen lives alone in the undeveloped Niu Tian Village on the outskirts of the city. This is the former residence of the Wen family. Every Spring Festival, Man Man would go back to her former residence with her grandmother to have a reunion dinner with the Wen family. She heard her father talk about her childhood. What Wen Shi Xuan often said to her was that she was different from Yuan Yuan when she was young. She was born at her grandma’s house. Grandma loved her very much and tied a piece of spiritual treasure to her neck to keep her safe throughout her life.

This piece of jade Man Man has been worn from birth to now, and it is tied with a red string without leaving her body. The father didn’t talk about it in front of others, mainly because he was worried that his little daughter Yuan Yuan would have opinions when she saw it.

Pushing open the batten gate, there is an old locust tree in the old yard. The Wen family reunion dinner during the Spring Festival. If the weather is good, the table will be placed under the locust tree. This spring is warming up, and the branches of the locust tree have more green buds, which looks particularly pleasing.

Grandma Wen sat on the small bench under the locust tree alone, picking wild vegetables in her hand.

Speaking of the Wen family’s temperament, loneliness, and weirdness. She doesn’t like to move to the city to enjoy the good fortune with her children and grandchildren. She just like to guard this old house. Now the grandma’s health is okay, it’s no problem to eat and live alone, and Wen Shi Xuan and her sons and daughters don’t force their mother to live with other people.

If it wasn’t for her father and that piece of jade, Man Man felt that she, like her sister, could not like such a lonely grandmother.

“Grandma.” Man Man shouted affectionately, and she put a bag of apples in her hand on the wooden table.

Grandma Wen looked up slowly, looked at her slowly, and lowered her head again, without saying a word.  

This look of the old man who doesn’t agree with anyone is a memory that Man Man has had since he was a child. The father said it was because grandma was dazzled by the back of her ears. Touching the piece of jade in the placket in the palm of her hand, Man Man believed that his father said that grandma had always loved her very much.

She sat with the old man for a long time, and Grandma Wen never answered. With such a polite and docile temperament to everyone, she also couldn’t hold on until the end, so she had to get up and say awkwardly: “Grandma, I’m going back.”

Grandma Wen was still silent.

Man Man took her small bag and walked out of the Wen family’s former residence. When she went out to pull the door, she suddenly heard a heavy snort from grandma: Damn girl!

This was probably the first thing she had heard from her grandma in her life. She couldn’t figure out the meaning of her grandma’s words, Man Man frowned. However, she remembers that both her mother and second aunt had privately complained from the elderly, saying that Grandma Wen was a typical patriarchal mother-in-law, so the two daughters-in-law who could not give birth to a son were rejected by Grandma Wen.

Man Man knows that patriarchy is still a deep-rooted idea of the older generation in this place. She can only hope that her parents-in-law will not be like Grandma Wen in the future.

So, she thought of Jiang Yan. Probably because thinking of him, she felt that leaving home to go far away, without the anxiety and loneliness of wandering in a foreign land, her heart jumped like a spark of sparks, and she seemed to be able to ignite when she saw him.

She and Chu Xia Du Yu got on the train in the afternoon and sent him a text message. She didn’t know if he could receive it in the army. Since his last text message more than a week ago said he had returned to the team, no news came back.

“When we arrived in Beijing, we asked someone to find out about his army camp and went to the army camp to see him.” Chu Xia gave her an idea.

Man Man smiled: “What’s the hurry? His ring is with me.”

Chu Xia rolled her eyes to her: I don’t believe you are not in a hurry.

Leaning head on the car window, listening to the rumbling train sound, this time, the train is about to bring her to his side, Man Man’s smile fills the corner of her eyes.

CHAPTER 15 – Stop the military vehicle

Your success is defeated by these people!

Don’t spend time with people who make you angry because that person won’t bring you happiness.

Don’t spend time with people who are more mindful because your kindness can’t play with him.

Don’t spend time with people who don’t know how to cherish you, because that person is worthless.

Don’t spend time with people who perfuse you because you can’t get the sincerity from them.

Don’t spend time with people who tell lies because you are always living in his deception.

If you want to live happily, please stay away from such people. People who don’t understand gratitude are more terrible than wolves, and they do and cherish it!

Please stay away from these people:-

Unfilial Type

Don’t respect your parents, even insult, beat and scold your parents. This is the first kind of people who are inferior to beasts!

Beast Type

When such a person opens his mouth to borrow money from a friend, he can’t wait to kneel down, pat his chest, express gratitude and promise to repay the money on time. When it came time to pay the money, he avoided seeing him, shirking for various reasons, even shutting down and avoiding it, refusing to pay back the money.

Unethical Type

He is happy when you help him, he turns back when you don’t help him, and when he involves a little benefit, he will immediately be a black-faced person.

Disaster Type

He doesn’t know how to respect others, he is self-centred. In the past few years, he has been speculative, got some money, and met a few government officials. He feels that everyone is inferior to himself. He is accustomed to people who base their happiness on the suffering of others, and he is annoyed by his own interests that harm everyone’s interests. He wants you get trouble every day! He likes to show off his achievements in front of the weak.

Ungrateful Type

You did 9 things well for him in 10 things, and if one thing was not as good as his intention, he turned his face. When getting along with people, he never remembers what others treat him well, only the things that are not good for him. He has never been grateful for what his friends have helped him or paid for.

If you hand over the above kinds of people, your life will basically be ruined in half.

Be sure to make four friends as below: –

  1. Appreciate your friends: Encourage you and help you when you are down and disappointments.
  2. Friends with positive energy: Accompany you when you are sad and uncomfortable.
  3. Friends who lead you: Willing to lead you selflessly through the mud and fog.
  4. Friends who can criticize you: Always remind you, supervise you, and don’t want your life to stumble.

Life can’t ignore every step

“Even a snail will eventually reach its destination.”
― Gail Tsukiyama ―

God gave a young man a task to take a snail for a walk.

The young man can’t go too fast, the snail has tried his best to crawl, always moving a little bit every time. He urged the snail, frightened it, and blamed it.

Snail looked at him with a sorry look and said, “I have tried my best. I have to go step by step.”

The young man pulls the snail, pulls it, he even wants to kick the snail. The snail was injured, it was sweating, panting, and crawling forward step by step.

“It’s strange, why did God ask me to take a snail for a walk?” He thought, “God! Why?”

The sky is quiet. “Oh! Maybe God went to catch the snail? Well, let go! Anyway, God doesn’t care, what am I going to do? The snail can go wherever he wants.”

The young man allowed the snail to crawl forward, and he sulked behind. Huh? He smelled the scent of flowers, and it turned out that there was a garden by the side of the road. Slowly, he heard the birds sound, he heard the birds are singing, and he saw the sky full of beautiful stars. Huh? Why didn’t he have this experience before? Could it be that he made a mistake? The young man suddenly understood why God told him to take a snail for a walk.

The foreign language of the book: God let the snail take the young man for a walk means that people should take every step of the day.

“People walk step by step, and you can’t ignore every step.”

By Yao Ming

The secret of success—-Two ants

“If an ant carries an object a hundred times its weight, you can carry burdens many times your size.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo

The two ants were very unfortunate and strayed into the glass.

They flustered around the bottom of the glass, trying to find a gap to climb out. Soon, they found out that this was impossible.

So, they began to climb up along the wall of the cup. It seems that this is the only path to freedom.

However, the surface of the glass was so smooth that they fell heavily as soon as they climbed two steps.

They rubbed their aching bodies, got up, and climbed up again. Soon, they fell heavily to the bottom of the cup again.

Three times, four times, five times … once, seeing that they were about to climb to the mouth of the cup, unfortunately, the last step failed, and this time it hurt more than any time.  

It took them a long time to catch their breath. An ant rubbed his ass and said: “We can’t take any more risks. Otherwise, it will fall to pieces.” The other ant said, “Just now, are we not only one step away from victory?” Then he started climbing again.

Falling again and again, climbing again and again, he touched the edge of the cup mouth in the end, and with the last bit of strength, he turned over the transparent wall.

Across the glass, the ant in the cup asked both enviously and enviously: “Tell me, what is the secret of your success?”

The ant outside the cup replied: “It may be the most difficult when approaching success, and whoever does not lose confidence in the most difficult time may win.”

The ants in the cup were inspired and encouraged, no longer afraid of being hurt by falling, and they began to climb again. They eventually climbed out of the glass and rendezvoused with another ant.

And the important factor why the little ant cannot give up is that it has the belief that it will win. If it adheres to the belief that it will win in setbacks, it will not lose the power to persist.

Note for girls: 10 kinds of men can’t marry

I often encounter friends asking, what kind of man is worth relying on for a woman, and what kind of man can I choose to make the chances of happiness greater? In fact, this issue is a very grand subject. Different people have different preferences and choices, and the bottom line of acceptance is also different. It is difficult to generalize.

And happiness is a systematic project. It is a variable thing that two people restrain and deduce each other in the process of facing each other day and night. It is by no means like buying something. You can have it for a lifetime if you pay one price at a time. This is also a lot of people. Envy someone else’s partner, but in fact, there may not be a reason for such a result if you really match you.

The key to happiness lies in one’s own hands. A person who knows how to manage and select will do the most suitable things to the most suitable person, so that the situation will have a healthy development, and bad taste and naive way will also cause a person to be very It is difficult to examine and choose the right person in essence, and finally deal with the problem rather confusingly. So this is a two-way question: try to choose someone you can appreciate and accept, and then work hard to manage it.

But in general, when it comes to choosing a relationship, we still need to avoid the other’s obvious defects in personality and quality. Some problems cannot be remedied through our efforts. Some common choices still have a clearer standard. For ordinary people, it is better not to try out some minefields. Let’s talk about men like this.

In order to make it easier for everyone to understand and operate, I have also included suitable and unsuitable people among the various types. Because the world is mysterious and unpredictable, there are no absolutes, so I was named. Men, don’t be discouraged, and don’t blame me for ruining your good deeds. Wild lilies also have spring, and your future direction is still very bright.

Minefields No. 1: Misbehavior

If he is keen to tell you how to use improper means to punish others in the workplace, or relish communicating with you how to go unorthodox, how to make Yin deceive and exclude dissidents, or if you find that he has a strange and cunning, unscrupulous side, good at dealing with fraud, and dismissive of rules such as conscience and morality, then you must be vigilant.

Character is the most foundation of a person. The problem of character is a matter of principle. All his life, he will live with the world and feelings given to him by this kind of thing, and he will never be eluted. Don’t think that he is a manifestation of a man’s ability. A person’s disregard for the rules and lack of moral warmth is a personality defect. He will also have his own characteristics in dealing with emotional issues. Even if he is docile and considerate to you now, in the end, if you put him in a choice and dilemma, he will use his most primitive and familiar means to deal with you, and love will not always have the original restraint and influence.

Don’t use examples such as some men who have the means to be all-powerful and will also be good to their wives to convince themselves that it is always a case of small chances, and some successful men will compromise certain bad habits of society. It may not be that they yearn for cunning in nature and are willing to twist themselves like this. They still have their own measure and kindness in their hearts, so they will return to nature in another place. It is not the same as those men who lack poor character in their nature, and the latter is also difficult to achieve big things.

Not suitable for the crowd: people who have relatively high requirements for human character and quality, have certain principles, hope that the relationship between people and people is more normal and healthier, do not like to secretly calculate and do not appreciate personal fraud.

Suitable for the crowd: familiar with thick black studies, and do not mind learning from another master; appreciate men with means, only care about the results and not about the process; do not feel that there is anything wrong with this way of life, advocating the law of the jungle.

Minefield No. 2: Narrow-minded

His heart and mind are narrow than anyone else’s, and whoever treats him badly or inadvertently offends him is brooding and must find a chance to return it. Where did you offend his old man, he can’t forget it for the first time, always remind you of this. When he quarrelled, he was more like a woman than you. He had to count all your questions, always remember how you were sorry for him, and asked you to pay the price.

If something is unsatisfactory, he will sigh and feel unhappy. He has never forgotten and surpassed the contradictions and the faults of others. He will never forget and compete with himself. He is intolerant and cannot accept some of your dissatisfaction. He will always remind you where there is a problem with you and how he is dissatisfied. He also cares too much about his relatives and colleagues or classmates, and he can’t let go of trivial matters, all of which become the source of depression and harm to others. For such a man, you should start to be vigilant.

A man who lacks the mind will live a very unhappy life. Such a man is even more unable to adapt to society than such a woman. He can neither accomplish great things nor deal with family conflicts and is destined to be a failure.

People who like the need to live are very gloomy. For them, the world is a relationship between the victim and the victim. Any slight damage can be attributed to a complex causal relationship by them. They have a strong vengeance. It is not only a narrow-minded problem, but also a gloomy mentality of not being able to persuade oneself and having to pay the price to others to get satisfaction. For such a person, it’s worth being vigilant that you can’t do not sin against them for the rest of your life. Everyone lives in a mutual run-in, so if you offend him, he can’t use normal methods to resolve it, he can only Be able to add back to you your feelings.

Not suitable for the crowd: people who are easy-going and don’t like to care about themselves and can’t stand the other person’s memory being too good; require men to have a mind, not a mother-in-law; people who are cheerful, careless, and without scheming are easy to be caught by the other person in this issue.

Suitable for the crowd: the style of work is strong, and it can suppress the revenge of men; be submissive, and do not like to violate the new era model of men’s three virtues and four virtues.

Minefield No. 3: Selfishness and Self-Interest

He thinks about himself first in everything, always judges things according to his own standards and imagination, doesn’t listen to the opinions of others, and only cares about his own wishes. He will also be nice to you, but if you don’t act according to his requirements, he will turn his face. He pays more attention to his own interests, often asking you to do something under the banner of being nice to you, and without exception he is the beneficiary. In the two people get along, he will choose the direction that is beneficial to him to determine your direction. He is more concerned about the material, benefits, and reputation you can bring to him, and he doesn’t care much about how you really feel. If you meet such a man, you should be vigilant.

Selfishness is a natural reaction, but extreme selfishness is difficult to provide a woman with the warmth and love she really craves. A person who always thinks about himself is destined that his world and space are only so small, and marriage is mixed with too much mutual understanding and dedication, and without commitment, there can be no happiness at all.

Not suitable for the crowd: people who think that lovers should help each other, pay each other, and have high expectations for their feelings; be shrewd in doing things, and cannot tolerate the other party taking advantage of themselves; people who are strong in character, and have the courage to resist unjust relationships.

Suitable for the crowd: those who love the supreme, believe that love is a complete payment, and do not mind the return; those who are broad-minded and really do not like to care.

Minefield No. 4: Hypocrisy

What he says and what he does are never the same thing. He is very good at hiding what is in his heart, and what he can express is what you like to hear and are willing to listen, but he may not be able to do what you really need. You will find that he will perform well in front of others, but on other unimportant occasions he will be different.

He has no truth in his mouth, big things lie, small things lie, completely unrelated things he is also used to making up an answer he likes to tell you. His psychological quality is super good, even if you catch it and expose it, he laughs like Wei Xiao Bao and begins to organize new lies all over the mountains and fields. He is not bad, but also sincere and kind. It is this habit that drives people crazy. He said he wanted to correct it, but it is difficult to do it.

He will always avoid the truth about anything to you, and when you ask, he will start play Tai chi, and three pushes and two pushes will eventually be over. He never talks about his feelings and future, he closes himself tightly, and you will never know his heart. When you discuss problems with him, he avoids talking about him left and right, and you will not understand any of his clear views and ideas. At this time, you may think that he is very mysterious, very charming, and worth digging like a treasure? No, you should be vigilant.

People who love to lie are a kind of psychological defect. They crave the approval of others and hope to be affirmed by others. Because they have lived in an unsafe environment or learned to observe words and watch people cook dishes to cover up their mistakes, they have become a habit of life.

People often say that it is better to be a real villain than a hypocrite. When a person knows how to hide something disgraceful in his heart, it will be more dangerous. When such a man already uses means to show what he can be accepted by the world, but hides a more complex heart, it will never be difficult for you to know what such a man will do, it is a feeling of staying on top of the dynamite vault.

The first principle of love is sincerity, even if there is no deep love, but with a sincere heart, it is enough for us to be warm. A person is not even willing to open his heart to others at least and reveal his intentions. The depth of his love is doubtful. Moreover, people with flashing words generally have very heavy intentions and cities. Too gloomy schemes make it difficult for you to enter his heart. You may always be excluded from his world, which is unbearable for some people who like to see each other honestly with their loved ones.

Not suitable for the crowd: naive personality, not good at perceiving people’s hearts; people who hate hypocrisy and want their lovers to be sincere; people who hate being blinded by lies.

Suitable for the crowd: People who are sloppy and don’t like to get to the bottom of things; people who like men’s cities, don’t want to worry about figuring out each other, and like to be arranged and manipulated.

Minefield No. 5: Violent Character

He likes to use violence to solve problems, and if you don’t succumb, he doesn’t mind using brute force to suppress. He always has his own reason for hitting you. Every time you provoke an incident, you force him to do it. You must be very obedient and obedient to him to show a gentle side, but if you disobey a little, his anger will be instantly ignited. In short, it is good to be nice to you, and it is really dared to do it when it is bad. You need to be vigilant anytime.

Violent personality is also a personality defect. In fact, they are lonely and incompetent from their hearts. Because they are afraid that others will see it, they use power to protect themselves twice. They don’t know how to deal with the problem correctly, so they will take the most direct and effective way to deal with it. Violence is an addictive thing. Except for occasional conflicts, the violence that has become a habit can only get stronger and stronger. Obedience and submission will never solve the fundamental problem.

Not suitable for the crowd: strong self-esteem; hate violence, strong personality; a smart woman who runs after a dozen and will never look back.

Suitable for the crowd: the personality is weak enough to be able to get rid of the control of others; believe that violence is also love; masochistic patients.

Minefield No. 6: Contempt for Women

He does not think that a woman is a creature of his own kind, and he will be nice to a woman, but this kind of kindness is like a pet, without real understanding and respect from the heart. He doesn’t like to care about women, but the starting point is complete contempt and unwillingness to reason with women. He quarrelled with women thinly, and always regarded women as something like tools and pastimes. Such a man is also worthy of vigilance.

This is not the category of machismo. Machismo just sees women as weak and believes that men should bear more, but those who despise women in their hearts will not be able to respect and be equal at all. His changes to women have been misguided from the beginning, no matter how good they are now, but they always lack the necessary depth and long-term understanding.

Not suitable for the crowd: feminists; new women; sensitive people.

Suitable for the crowd: like-minded people who are willing to rely on men; like-minded people who naturally feel that women are different than men.

Minefield No. 7: Strong desire to control

He pursues the effect that everything is under control, and he must participate in all your action arrangements and life plans and do it exactly according to his heart. He has his own life principles and life order, of course, you must also obey. Your friends, work, career, etc., he will interfere in every detail. He is afraid that you are out of his control, and once you have such signs, he will be very upset or furious until you finally succumb.

He never said what he heard, only the worst. He specifically starts on your most taboo wound, ensuring that it is extremely lethal, and a word will not slow you down for half your life. He is harsh, always seeing others as the worst, always in a posture ready to fight, and never let go of anyone’s negligence and mistakes. He hurt you and talked about your shortcomings. He said that this is for your own good, not a loved one. Who would say your shortcomings? You must realize that you are very humble and incompetent.

This kind of person with a desire to control is an insecure person. Because he is insecure, he needs your cooperation and proof. He doesn’t love you, but this kind of love will make you feel unable to breathe. He will trap you in a cage. You will only have a peaceful life if you obey.

Not suitable for the crowd: those who are relatively independent, do not want others to be restrained, who already lack self-confidence, and need encouragement; those who cannot stand severe criticism and harsh criticism; and those with strong self-esteem.

Suitable for the crowd: the character is more docile and does not mind the other party controlling the situation; the strong and the strong, the style is sharper.

Minefield No. 8: Emotional Pansy

He is particularly compassionate and cherishes jade, and like Brother Bao’s reincarnation, if it is a woman, it belongs to his care. He has a lot of female friends, he is easy to sympathize with others, and he must worry about everyone’s affairs and take care of them. You can’t express dissatisfaction with any of his friends, otherwise he will feel that you are not too careful, so many gentle and considerate women outside are waiting to occupy your position, and you are still picky and simply don’t know whether to die or die.

He is a prodigal son, constantly running between many women, all love ends without disease. His love experience is full of tricks, enough to produce a book, he has read countless people, and his ex-girlfriend is like a neighbour in the neighbourhood. If you go to the street, you can find three or five, and you can’t tell it for three days and three nights. He said that he didn’t know what love was before he met you, and that only meeting you was his destination. At this time, you began to wonder if he had said that to all the women before, and what could prove that you would not be one of them.

In fact, you really have no way to prove it. A person’s behaviour pattern and his attitude towards feelings have long been fixed, and it is extremely difficult to change. He may always live according to the kind of posture he is used to. People who have experienced too much love and whose love objects are too complex tend to deviate from the relatively simple and sacred imagination of their feelings, and they will be more likely to become numb and stylized. To accept such a person, and not care about the past experiences, is indeed a test for some people.

A man with a pansy of feelings will be a good friend for the rest of his life, but being a husband is a test. You always need to struggle to find your place in the circle of his female friends, and you also need to give in to your girlfriends from time to time. He made a good man, but he threw the biggest burden to you.

Not suitable for the crowd: those who taboo their own men from interacting with other women; those who believe that there is no real benefit between men and women; those who hate men and women; those who are jealous and cannot tolerate their lovers having shared feelings with so many people; those who are simple in character and are not suitable for complex emotional ways.

Suitable for the crowd: those who believe that the prodigal son will return and are confident in his feelings; those who are super generous and don’t care about each other’s emotional experiences; those who pursue their own space between men and women; and those who have countless friends of the opposite sex.

Minefield No. 9: Inferior Companions

He has a group of all sorts of friends, like bad companions, complicated background companions etc. You always think that their faces are abomination, their words are boring, and they are all people you can’t appreciate. His friends will not encourage him to work hard and concentrate on his career. They will only find him crazy and ask him to help clean up the mess. They tell him that men can’t spoil women. They are easily introducing his girlfriend to him, encouraging him to have trouble with you. His friends have given him a bad influence, but he just likes them, doesn’t like those who really have connotations, and people who are stronger than themselves.

Maybe he is very good to you now and will not listen to his friends ‘ opinions. You think he is the best one in their group. You don’t believe that your friends have broken him, and hope he draws a line with them.

No, it’s not exactly that simple. A person’s taste in choosing a friend depends on his inner taste. What kind of friends a person has, what kind of life philosophy he has? No matter how different they look now, in fact, they are all a class of people and affect each other. There are too few people who are out of the sludge without dyeing, and those who really have a mind will not choose to stand in the sludge at all.

Not suitable for the crowd: those who have high requirements for the quality of men; those who cannot appreciate the chaos of men’s social relations.

Suitable for the crowd: like many friends, and the three religions are acceptable; the personality is simple and there are no complex requirements.

Minefield No. 10: Mystery Background

You know from a third party or an online platform. Your life before that did not intersect. Your knowledge of him is limited to his own introduction and what you can see. You don’t know anything about his background, past, history, and family. He never talks about the past in front of you, you only have his present, and you can’t understand the past. Whatever he says, you just must believe what he says. You want to conclude a lifetime with him, but a man who suddenly landed to the present day really makes you unable to completely believe it.

At this time, you must know how to protect yourself and learn to observe. In this society, the enhancement of personnel mobility has caused many cross-regional exchanges, and many emotional liars have left dew love in one place after another in this way. Living with a man with a vague background forever is like holding a time bomb, and I can’t be sure when it will erupt.

Not suitable for the crowd: those who want a stable married life and are not willing to take risks.

Suitable for the crowd: bold and careful, who dare to try.

Men are complicated? Wrong! A man’s love and unlove are hidden in what he said!

Love is the best thing in the world. You fall in love with the right person, and you feel that your whole life is shining brightly. Seeing him, you feel like a sunflower blooming in your heart. This unique sunflower will only open to him. Where he goes, your heart will follow him.

Thinking of him, your heart is full of flavors, sweet and sad. You want to know his news anytime, every day, as every three autumns.

If you are left out for a few days, you will worry about whether all possible things have happened to him. The first thing that comes to mind is that he no longer loves. The love of men, deep and introverted, does often make women uncertain about the direction of their feelings.

When he is enthusiastic, he may be preparing to stay away from your prelude. When he is cold, it may be that he feels that your relationship has entered a period of steady development.

Therefore, women often cannot figure out their thoughts, but if a man has said these four sentences to you, it basically means that he does not have you in his heart.

The first sentence: He will always tell you “If you want to think so, I can’t help it”.

You may quarrel often, or you always feel that you are not getting along well, and you always feel that you are not being cherished, so you are always unhappy. You ask him if he loves you, or the answer is more perfunctory or silent.

He always finds you annoying, and he doesn’t want to solve the problem at all. He would say that if you think so, then I can’t help it.

My dear, it’s not that you are always irritating him, but that he knows that he doesn’t love you and chooses you, just because you are small and obedient. His words are to warn you that if you continue to make trouble like this, your relationship will end here.

The Second sentence: In the chat conversation, his answers were “um” and “oh”. He has never thought of letting him start the topic, nor has he thought of continuing the topic with you.

If you happily go to him to share something happy, he will just give you an “Oh” without taking a closer look, and he won’t say anything.

When you are sad and sad, go to him and talk to him in an attempt to comfort him, but the result will not make you as you wish, because he will only answer with the word “um”, which is so concise that you wonder if he has heard you clearly. Something sad happened.

In fact, he saw everything you told him, but he didn’t know how to comfort you, or he didn’t want to comfort you. He just wanted to end the conversation with you quickly, and then he gave you an “um” to indicate that he had read it.

The third sentence: He will always tell you that you have to be “strong” and “work hard.”

Every man always has a little princess in his heart. He loves you and you are his little princess. He doesn’t love you, you are a hardworking maid in his family who can’t complain or be fragile.

He deeply felt how fierce the competition in society was, even a big man of him couldn’t deal with it, and he felt a lot of pressure. He encourages you and tells you to work hard and do your best to compete in a world full of men. Even to spur you from time to time, or you ridicule your inferior girlfriend (wife).

Why would he do that? Just because he didn’t treat you as a woman, let alone treat you as his woman.

Late Wedding – Chapter 13 – Wedding Ring

Chapter 13 – Wedding Ring

A wedding ring is a ring worn by both men and women after marriage to express their love for each other and the determination of their marriage relationship. When a man and a woman get married because of their hot love, they are willing to stay together forever, and the ring is a testimony of this life and death contract, so the wedding ring is also regarded as the guardian of the “marriage”. In this sense, it is necessary to give a wedding ring because it is a tangible guardian of marriage.

When Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother returned to the hotel, they did not see Man Man in person. But, needless to say, just like that kind of mother and aunt. . . . . . . .

“The first offer of 80,000 yuan, 100 tables of banquets.” Mother Jiang felt funnier as she said. “It’s really golden daughter. If she wants to be a rich young lady, our family really can’t afford it.”

“Don’t say it!” Father Jiang was annoyed, and his son and himself were blinded.

Mother Jiang will accept it as soon as she sees it. Regarding how to take her son’s heart back from Man Man, she must negotiate with her husband: “I think you can call the army and ask the leader of the army to give our son the early leave.”

You can only make this move.

Father Jiang sighed. That night, the Jiang family returned to Beijing by plane.

The next day, Jiang Yan received a call from the army and was asked to return to the team early.

Be a soldier, there is no right to disobey this.

Jiang Yan packed up his clothes at the military guest house that day and prepared to take the express train back that afternoon. Time is running out, but he really wants to see Man Man, and he has something to say to her.

The most regrettable thing is that I didn’t let my parents meet her and taste the dishes she cooked in person. He believed that if his parents saw her with their own eyes and ate the food she cooked, they would be satisfied.

He Jiang Yan doesn’t need a beautiful and capable wife, only a gentle-tempered wife who can manage the house.

What you need most as a military wife is to be able to endure loneliness.

Man Man is the most suitable.

Before going to Man Man’s company, he called Chu Xia first.

He ran out of the company in a hurry, and when Chu Xia’ saw him, he asked, “you said on the phone that you are leaving? Didn’t you say you want to propose a marriage?”

“My parents are not here.” Jiang Yan also felt sorry, “Time is too tight, I can only wait for the next time.”

“When is the next time?” Chu Xia was faintly disturbed, not knowing how to fly again like this, right?

The cracked white teeth smiled cheerfully and brightly: “Don’t think about it. ——where is Man Man?”

Chu Xia put the ugly words on the front said: “I really have to say it. Man Man was too old to wait for someone who didn’t show up. As long as you are serious, I’ll call her out again.”

“Hey. I asked for marriage. Grandma Chu Xia.” Jiang Yan begged for Chu Xia with his grandparent. For fear that Chu Xia would not agree, he took out a black brocade box from his pocket, “Look, my wedding ring It’s all ready.”

Seeing this, Chu Xia stopped being suspicious, and went in and called Man Man, without telling Man Man that he was leaving, only that he was looking for something urgent.

Upon hearing the urgent matter, Man Man’s heart hung up and walked out wearing with a working apron.

The spring was bright, he stood under a peach blossom branch, with a long and elevated body, a natural clothes hanger, and his long light gray windbreaker only reached his knees. Looking at it this way, I think he is taller. Today, he put one hand in his trouser pocket, his thumb was exposed in the pocket, and the other hand was slightly close to the windbreaker. He is still handsome, and has more of a mature man’s charm than before.

“Man Man.” He smiled handsomely when he saw her coming.

Beauty is in the eyes of the lover.

In his eyes, she had a white and tender face and small glasses with big eyes. Not only was she not ugly, but she was also calm and gentle on the corners of her rose-red lips, and her slender posture inherently had an ancient beauty.

The slender legs stepped away, and two strides stood in front of her. The big hands couldn’t wait to grab one of her small hands and put the ring with the palm of the other hand on her ring finger.

Man Man is embarrassing, what is this? Did not say anything.

Immediately, and even more embarrassing, the size is obviously wrong. The silver ring hung up on her ring finger and immediately slid down again. The size is a full circle. It can be seen how small and tender her finger bones are.

The rough fingertips kneaded her watery fingers, and her heart was rippling for a moment, and she couldn’t bear to let go of anything, and her Adam’s apple was tumbling for two consecutive weeks.

“Jiang-Yan -” was the first time she called him by his name. Man Man blushed like a bright sun. “This is the company. Someone sees it.”

“What can they do if they see it? Last time I said I wanted to marry you in front of so many people.” The slightly tilted corner of his mouth has a hint of childish innocence and playfulness. He is still him and has not changed.

Ashamed, she lowered her head straight: “This ring is not suitable.”

“who said it’s inappropriate. I’ll go over and change it right away.” Jiang Yan tugged her fingers and the ring in his palm. He wouldn’t let go of anything she said.

“Hey. I’m at work.” Seeing him about to pull himself away, Man Man stopped and shouted.

By now, he had to tell the truth, his long eyebrows frowned and frowned, and he was helpless: “The troops called me, and I have to leave for Beijing in the afternoon.”

The heart was shaken, and the ripples that appeared circle after circle. It turned out to be so, so he rushed to buy her a ring.

Seeing her suddenly silent, he became anxious and frightened: “Don’t worry. After I go back, I will come back to pick you up as soon as I find a chance to ask for leave. This time I will bring my parents to see you. Anyway, I have a marriage proposal and give you the ring and the ring was worn by you, and they couldn’t do anything to us.”

To be honest, she had never doubted his sincerity, only looking at his bright and moving eyes, everything was clearly written in his eyes. The eyes are the window of the soul. She can trust every word of him.

It’s time to summon up your courage.

The little hand broke his fingers and grabbed the ring back into his palm. Warm little lips smiled into a bright arc: “Okay. I’ll wait for you.”

Excited, it seemed to stretch from his heart to his limbs in circles, his fingertips trembled, and his lips licked and licked: “Man Man, I want to hug you.”

Hug? Subconsciously looking left and right, I didn’t see anyone, and my little head nodded.

He had been waiting for too long at this moment. She just nodded, and his two big arms went up, and one of his long arms was only half-length, which could encircle her small body into his own arms.

He was too strong, she was caught off guard, her head hit his chest in a straight line, her eyes flashed for a while, and when she remembered that she was still wearing a dirty apron, she whispered: “Dirty–“

“What’s dirty! You are full of incense.“ To prove this, he drew on her hair and sucked it.

As a result, her face was stuck to his chest, under the silk shirt, and his strong and warm muscles made her skin thinner and tender. It was the most embarrassing thing to touch her two little hands where she didn’t know where to touch.

The wind blew warmly, she accompanied herself like a heartbeat that was about to sprout, Man Man thought, she will remember today for the rest of her life.

Jiang Yan regretted it when he left. He knew he didn’t ask for a hug, he should have asked for a kiss. Looking back, seeing her standing at the door, his heart ached and itchy, he wanted to go back, but the phone rang.

Watching him walk away, disappearing into the crowd little by little. Man Man’s eyes didn’t move, really wanting to freeze time at this moment.

“Man Man.” Chu Xia appeared on time, squeezing her hand.

“It’s okay. I believe him.” Man Man smiled, turned around, and went back to work neatly. As for the oversized silver ring, she treasured it in a cloth bag she sewed and carried it with her every day.

That night, he texted her on the train: I’m going back, remember to wait for me!

The rumbling train took away her lover…

CHAPTER 14 – GO SEE HIM

Some moods are written to myself, so I can only write to myself.

Be the truest self. You are unique in this world. No one can replace you, and you don’t need to replace anyone. Do your own protagonist on the stage of life. These feelings are written to ourselves, and can only be written to ourselves.

The happiest thing in the world is to be able to watch the flowers bloom and fall with you, watch the vicissitudes of life together, and walk towards our future with you and me together.

When I am fine at night, I like to go out and walk alone, walking alone in the night, looking at the long shadows from the streetlights, I feel so lonely.  

Impossibility implies impossibility, and impossibility implies possibility. Everything is unknown, everything is illusory… What am I looking forward to?  

Go your own way, listen to your own songs, and write your own stories.  

Some moods are only suitable for yourself, and only for yourself!

What we are looking for in our whole life is just a home, a place where we can rest assured!

We may have docked countless times in our life, and the only thing that can really be anchored for a lifetime is home.

Passing, passing, and missing is a lifetime.

Accept the harm this world has done to you, and then face everything with a smile.

I like to walk in the rain, and I like the feeling of being cold when it rains on my body.

I am imperfect and I need you who are also imperfect, to join hands in creating a perfect future.  

Being tortured by life is a kind of enjoyment, a kind of happiness, but more of a kind of helplessness.  

Only with the truest self can you meet the person who should be the most.

In the journey of life, there will always be a light to light up for you and guide you in the future.  

Find a simple love and live that kind of plain life.

To live too clearly is a kind of sorrow, so you should live happily and confusedly!  

In this life, don’t make the day and night, don’t be rich and glorious, I only need a copy of Jane Eyre to accompany me in my heart, with me in the vicissitudes of life.  

No matter how beautiful the story is, it is a drama after all. ------This is dedicated to the children who love to watch “drama”.  

Find someone I love and love me, and then grow old together until the end of life.   

The best is not necessarily suitable for you, but the one that suits you must be the best.

Sometimes I feel tired, proving that we really paid, and there will really be gains.   

The purest love in this world is the love of parents. That kind of love is from the heart, it is a unilateral payment, and it does not ask for return.   

Watching the friends around me leave one by one, I don’t know who the next one will be and who the last one will be. I just know that we will all leave this land in the end. This land has given us too many memories. There are people and things we miss. We have left the most beautiful part of our lives here.