Love is the best thing in the world. You fall in love with the right person, and you feel that your whole life is shining brightly. Seeing him, you feel like a sunflower blooming in your heart. This unique sunflower will only open to him. Where he goes, your heart will follow him.
Thinking of him, your heart is full of flavors, sweet and sad. You want to know his news anytime, every day, as every three autumns.
If you are left out for a few days, you will worry about whether all possible things have happened to him. The first thing that comes to mind is that he no longer loves. The love of men, deep and introverted, does often make women uncertain about the direction of their feelings.
When he is enthusiastic, he may be preparing to stay away from your prelude. When he is cold, it may be that he feels that your relationship has entered a period of steady development.
Therefore, women often cannot figure out their thoughts, but if a man has said these four sentences to you, it basically means that he does not have you in his heart.
The first sentence: He will always tell you “If you want to think so, I can’t help it”.
You may quarrel often, or you always feel that you are not getting along well, and you always feel that you are not being cherished, so you are always unhappy. You ask him if he loves you, or the answer is more perfunctory or silent.
He always finds you annoying, and he doesn’t want to solve the problem at all. He would say that if you think so, then I can’t help it.
My dear, it’s not that you are always irritating him, but that he knows that he doesn’t love you and chooses you, just because you are small and obedient. His words are to warn you that if you continue to make trouble like this, your relationship will end here.
The Second sentence: In the chat conversation, his answers were “um” and “oh”. He has never thought of letting him start the topic, nor has he thought of continuing the topic with you.
If you happily go to him to share something happy, he will just give you an “Oh” without taking a closer look, and he won’t say anything.
When you are sad and sad, go to him and talk to him in an attempt to comfort him, but the result will not make you as you wish, because he will only answer with the word “um”, which is so concise that you wonder if he has heard you clearly. Something sad happened.
In fact, he saw everything you told him, but he didn’t know how to comfort you, or he didn’t want to comfort you. He just wanted to end the conversation with you quickly, and then he gave you an “um” to indicate that he had read it.
The third sentence: He will always tell you that you have to be “strong” and “work hard.”
Every man always has a little princess in his heart. He loves you and you are his little princess. He doesn’t love you, you are a hardworking maid in his family who can’t complain or be fragile.
He deeply felt how fierce the competition in society was, even a big man of him couldn’t deal with it, and he felt a lot of pressure. He encourages you and tells you to work hard and do your best to compete in a world full of men. Even to spur you from time to time, or you ridicule your inferior girlfriend (wife).
Why would he do that? Just because he didn’t treat you as a woman, let alone treat you as his woman.